I mean its almost a sure thing that hj/ys are choosing eo on the show. However after truth game and them the secret…
Hmm that is true in a way too. I too had the least read on YN and she has somewhat kind of exhibited a character that is strong and doesn't let failures or other people bother her peace. She may have her moment of hurt but she'll bounce back. At least that's what she has shown.
As for BH-HJ dynamics, I believe that even if BH shows sincerity and fixates on HJ, she will still need some more time to process this - to understand BH and to think thoroughly [as YS is involved and HJ is not the kind of person to ditch someone she has clearly chosen so easily]. It might drill down to how YS fights for her like he told during the truth game.
But sadly, there is no time for BH/ HJ story to develop 'within' this show.
Another thing is, I still want to hear from BH's own mouth, the reason 'why' he stubbornly refused to get back with his ex and said & did many mean things to her in front of everyone. I want him to face it one more time, and explain why he did what he did, and what changed.
after seeing his actions on their ex date ...it was clear he imagined a future with her but he also wanted to…
I loved their ex-date the most (although I'm disappointed we didn't get to have much content on JH/ WK and JY/ WJ). It was soo deep and soo emotional. I wish YS and MK are able to work out their differences and get back together. They are perfect!!
Mk was right to tell (during the pre-interview?) 'but I was unhappy'. YS focuses too much on the future that he misses the present. I truly hope he can see the whole picture. My heart breaks for this couple. I don't wish YS to choose HJ. Is he even ready to move on? Or is he forcing himself to, because he cannot go back to MK?
So, I'm not able to tak about YS/ HJ at all. It's just as I predicted.
I also saw the depth that YS shared with MK. Boi goes deeper and deeper with time. Aigoo!
All I can think of or talk about is YS/ MK. It's sad that at one point in their lives, their goals differed. There is no chance for them unless one or both compromise.
I don't see HJ in the picture at all. She may choose YS for the show (cos she has no other option). But the real win is outside of the show. I just can't see it. [I'm not for/ against. Just expressing what I am able to or not able to see].
[Oh given HJ's personality, she won't choose BH. Girl wants a person who can give her reassurance and there was literally no time for HJ/ BH to develop].
I want to know why YS works too hard? Sometimes, I do wonder about what kind of life he had growing up? What makes him work to his bone and prioritize work above love?
I have written a lot about my observations on his personality and MK's. I'm not talking about their time when they were dating. I'm talking about him as a person.
Hilarious that BH wouldn't stop talking about his ex during his last date with YY. I think he will still choose…
I like YN not to choose BH cos of the way he treated her. However, girl has her own mind, and is clever too. Whatever choice she makes, she'll make sure it doesn't hurt her! I support her!
Are you retarted or what who would get back together with the ex who dated your friend
That's true too.. it's really bad tbh.. however JaeH still seems to have a soft spot for her. He is such a nice guy!! It is such a bummer we didn't get to see all of his charms on this show!! Hope he succeeds in his dream and finds an amazing girl outside the show!
For me, it’s not about that. It’s because SW seems very dishonest to me. I see him as a very manipulative…
I agree about SW. I had mentioned this already in another comment. He is a good person, obviously everyone are good people. However, the problem is he is too good at taking care of the women. And he gives everyone the same attention during the dates. It's like during the date, he gives his best and tries to be a gentleman. This is not wrong and such but women could mistake/ misunderstand his gesture.
With YE, her feelings for SW is fine. Her trying to express herself to SW is also perfect. That is what this show is for. I applaud her courage for approaching him irrespective of his feelings towards her. I also applaud her for liking one person and sticking to what her heart says. These are really commendable.
1. The reason she wasn't picked by anyone is on her not anyone else. She went on dates with 2 people if I remember correctly - SW and MJ. MJ was already pretty set on BH and SW was not interested in her. Again I blame his behaviours (buying wasabi which she wud obviously misunderstand). She didn't approach anyone else as she was interested only in SW. So, it's not about her not getting to go on a date with any guy but rather SW not picking her.
2. The reason SW picked JW and not YE is not JW's fault. Also, SW picked a new girl (SH) over YE. If you think about it without bias, ideally YE should be annoyed at SH cos she lost to a new girl. But, she takes it that SW only asked for another date with JW and not her. So she could feel embarrassed. This is not JW's fault either.
YE wanting not to see JW is understandable. That is mixture of emotions she is dealing with. Earlier YE had also showed off in front of JW and made her look bad (a mean behaviour). And therefore, JW getting a second chance with SW would be embarrassing to YE. This is on YE not on SW or JW.
Her deep feelings for SW are admirable. However, her trying to act demanding to SW and rude to JW are not admirable nor acceptable.
End of the day, issue is to be cleared between YE and SW, not with JW. Hope she apologizes properly and grows to be mature!
It's interesting that you don't read his annoyance as jealousy because I definitely do. He's so pouty over her…
Oh I do I do! I love second lead syndrome hehe. However, it is precisely because I didn't want to be disappointed, that I kept my expectations low. It'd be super interesting to see some story develop between Chung Jae and Se Na, though Chung Jae seems super nice and it'd be heart breaking if he doesn't have someone who likes him.
What kind of feeling does Park Chung Jae have towards Maeng Se Na? Friend? A non-blood related sibling? A crush? Or something that cannot be explained?
I'm watching Ep 4 and it seems they have a childhood history. Till date, Chung Jae has not shown any romantic interest on Se Na nor has he shown any jealousy towards Ra Ik. Towards Ra Ik, it seems like he is annoyed that a grown man needs to be taken care of. Nothing more. But during the scene where he has a jar of chocolates, he seems to be deep in thought about a past. What feeling could that mean? Is it like 'You took care of me back then too. You are so kind'. Is it this kind of feeling or what?
I don't think HJ should get back with BH. BH should leave the show alone. HJ better not pick YS. Maybe she can…
Oh I'm not asking her to choose, I'm just expressing a thought. Besides, I have explained it again in the above comment.
Also, if HJ was never interested in SY, she would never listen to him or think rationally with him about real life issue. Ofc, again not to misunderstand my point. For her, there are mix of expectations - stability (marriage/ reassurance), type of partner (kind, considerate, sweet). None of the participants are a good fit to match these. While BH is experiencing a whirlwind of confusion (very unsteady), and YS keeps her anxious, and SY doesn't have the love/ passion bones in him, there is no choice for her in all honesty.
However, she can choose one of them (right now HJ still thinks BH is set on YN and so she has never approached him again), so right now she's only considering YS and SY - YS for emotions and SY for practicality. Neither are a perfect option yet. If YS gives her reassurance, then she may be able to open up about her desire to get married and also give a clear answer to SY. However, since YS is keeping her anxious and confused, she is keeping her option open to SY. Not saying she will choose this or that but purely thinking from HJ's perspective.
Would a girl who thinks seriously about marriage, pick a guy on a whim?? I highly doubt that. At the same time, it does not mean she would pick a guy who offers her marriage on a plate. She needs both - love and stability. And there is none who is offering her that. So, imo since the only guy who is even willing to make a change is SY, she 'could try' giving him a chance. Please read my words carefully. I said 'she could try'. It does not mean 'she should choose' or 'she would choose'.
I don't think HJ should get back with BH. BH should leave the show alone. HJ better not pick YS. Maybe she can…
'Maybe she can try giving SY a chance and see if he is truly sincere!'
This is just my wish. Ofc, HJ isn't interested in someone who isn't lovey-dovey. And I don't think she has a stable partner in this show. Even if she leaves the show with someone, it may not last. Pls don't misunderstand my point - a guy that is stable for HJ isn't there in the show.
As for BH-HJ dynamics, I believe that even if BH shows sincerity and fixates on HJ, she will still need some more time to process this - to understand BH and to think thoroughly [as YS is involved and HJ is not the kind of person to ditch someone she has clearly chosen so easily]. It might drill down to how YS fights for her like he told during the truth game.
But sadly, there is no time for BH/ HJ story to develop 'within' this show.
Another thing is, I still want to hear from BH's own mouth, the reason 'why' he stubbornly refused to get back with his ex and said & did many mean things to her in front of everyone. I want him to face it one more time, and explain why he did what he did, and what changed.
Mk was right to tell (during the pre-interview?) 'but I was unhappy'. YS focuses too much on the future that he misses the present. I truly hope he can see the whole picture. My heart breaks for this couple. I don't wish YS to choose HJ. Is he even ready to move on? Or is he forcing himself to, because he cannot go back to MK?
I also saw the depth that YS shared with MK. Boi goes deeper and deeper with time. Aigoo!
All I can think of or talk about is YS/ MK. It's sad that at one point in their lives, their goals differed. There is no chance for them unless one or both compromise.
I don't see HJ in the picture at all. She may choose YS for the show (cos she has no other option). But the real win is outside of the show. I just can't see it. [I'm not for/ against. Just expressing what I am able to or not able to see].
[Oh given HJ's personality, she won't choose BH. Girl wants a person who can give her reassurance and there was literally no time for HJ/ BH to develop].
I have written a lot about my observations on his personality and MK's. I'm not talking about their time when they were dating. I'm talking about him as a person.
With YE, her feelings for SW is fine. Her trying to express herself to SW is also perfect. That is what this show is for. I applaud her courage for approaching him irrespective of his feelings towards her. I also applaud her for liking one person and sticking to what her heart says. These are really commendable.
1. The reason she wasn't picked by anyone is on her not anyone else. She went on dates with 2 people if I remember correctly - SW and MJ. MJ was already pretty set on BH and SW was not interested in her. Again I blame his behaviours (buying wasabi which she wud obviously misunderstand). She didn't approach anyone else as she was interested only in SW. So, it's not about her not getting to go on a date with any guy but rather SW not picking her.
2. The reason SW picked JW and not YE is not JW's fault. Also, SW picked a new girl (SH) over YE. If you think about it without bias, ideally YE should be annoyed at SH cos she lost to a new girl. But, she takes it that SW only asked for another date with JW and not her. So she could feel embarrassed. This is not JW's fault either.
YE wanting not to see JW is understandable. That is mixture of emotions she is dealing with. Earlier YE had also showed off in front of JW and made her look bad (a mean behaviour). And therefore, JW getting a second chance with SW would be embarrassing to YE. This is on YE not on SW or JW.
Her deep feelings for SW are admirable. However, her trying to act demanding to SW and rude to JW are not admirable nor acceptable.
End of the day, issue is to be cleared between YE and SW, not with JW. Hope she apologizes properly and grows to be mature!
I'm watching Ep 4 and it seems they have a childhood history. Till date, Chung Jae has not shown any romantic interest on Se Na nor has he shown any jealousy towards Ra Ik. Towards Ra Ik, it seems like he is annoyed that a grown man needs to be taken care of. Nothing more. But during the scene where he has a jar of chocolates, he seems to be deep in thought about a past. What feeling could that mean? Is it like 'You took care of me back then too. You are so kind'. Is it this kind of feeling or what?
Also, if HJ was never interested in SY, she would never listen to him or think rationally with him about real life issue. Ofc, again not to misunderstand my point. For her, there are mix of expectations - stability (marriage/ reassurance), type of partner (kind, considerate, sweet). None of the participants are a good fit to match these. While BH is experiencing a whirlwind of confusion (very unsteady), and YS keeps her anxious, and SY doesn't have the love/ passion bones in him, there is no choice for her in all honesty.
However, she can choose one of them (right now HJ still thinks BH is set on YN and so she has never approached him again), so right now she's only considering YS and SY - YS for emotions and SY for practicality. Neither are a perfect option yet. If YS gives her reassurance, then she may be able to open up about her desire to get married and also give a clear answer to SY. However, since YS is keeping her anxious and confused, she is keeping her option open to SY. Not saying she will choose this or that but purely thinking from HJ's perspective.
Would a girl who thinks seriously about marriage, pick a guy on a whim?? I highly doubt that. At the same time, it does not mean she would pick a guy who offers her marriage on a plate. She needs both - love and stability. And there is none who is offering her that. So, imo since the only guy who is even willing to make a change is SY, she 'could try' giving him a chance. Please read my words carefully. I said 'she could try'. It does not mean 'she should choose' or 'she would choose'.
This is just my wish. Ofc, HJ isn't interested in someone who isn't lovey-dovey. And I don't think she has a stable partner in this show. Even if she leaves the show with someone, it may not last. Pls don't misunderstand my point - a guy that is stable for HJ isn't there in the show.