So dude meet her when she was like 10+ and then he decided to spawn camped her for years, so that he can pounce/f@ck her whenever laws allows him too. A grown ass man was marinating a teen and waiting for her to come of age.... that girl was his best friend sister. Like dude doesn't it sound wired too you..... I bet you are female cuz no man with Iota of self respect is going to agree with it. Before you accuse me of favorites, you can check HL comment section I am saying this for a long time. If we believe ML own admission of liking FL when she was teen and waiting for her to grow up (Car scene, when they meet first time in Yihe), the his behaviors of liking teens was 'pedophelia".
It's better than HL but unfortunately actors are not crazy famous, and haters are roaming around the internet.
Film actors like Jiang Wen, Ge You, Wu Jing and Li Lianjie are considered "Crazy popular actors in china" right now. He is not even top 10 and I got nothing against the dude. I have watched almost all of his drama's, but he is not what you guys are making him out to be.
It's better than HL but unfortunately actors are not crazy famous, and haters are roaming around the internet.
I know exactly what I am talking about right now, BTJ is not crazy famous cuz he is considered drama actor and not film actor. Film actors like Jiang Wen, Ge You, Wu Jing and Li Lianjie are considered "Crazy popular actors in china" right now. He is not even top 10 !
It's better than HL but unfortunately actors are not crazy famous, and haters are roaming around the internet.
The complexity of story, emotional depth, complex-grey characters and acting here is better than Hidden Love but unfortunately it isn't for everyone. HL was a feel-good drama, which managed to check all the marks "cuteness" and that's about it.... it has only one thing going for it and I don't blame HL. Majority of people don't give "two cents" about complexity or realism and they only want to feel good... Hidden Love delivered in that area! First frost is for people with refined palate, who want to see something unique and care about the nuisances, as of ep 16 it feels like a 9+ drama to me, but we will see what happens in the future.
Hi I didn't know you were also watching this !Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance…
Yep, and then he started pestering her.... like come on dude. The only thing worse than his behaviour is his "thought process", let's assume FL was in mortal danger from 70-65-year-old naked homeless man (she wasn't better man have tried to harass her and failed) and he saved her. What makes him think that now she will/should date him out of gratitude? If only she should be trying to avoid any mention of that embarrassing situation/interaction. After that, I don't know what in the world made him believe FL should trust literal newbie over her roommate of 70 days, with whom she has pretty good understanding, repute and living situation going on. Like in world, there are ludicrous, preposterous and then we have him at the top. I know dude is like 19-20 but it's not a valid justification for his behaviour, I was not that dumb 4 years ago.... Not to mention he is hitting on his immediate supervisor in workplace. Who is already suffering from rumors of cashing in sexual favours for benefits. It's like everything in universe was telling him to grow up and don't target the couple, but he decided to be a hater !
Hi I didn't know you were also watching this !Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance…
I sincerely hope for your quick recovery. Yeah, we can agree on this one, the Mu guy is a filler character whose entire life objective is to cause misunderstandings and jealousy between leads.
Hi I didn't know you were also watching this !Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance…
First, congratulation on recovering from anxiety I know its uphill battle. Although I have not personally suffered from this terrible condition, but I have seen plenty of patients in Er and majority all of these have my "outmost respect" for dealing with and conquering it. I know you were not criticizing Mu guy, his stupidity bounds not reason. I know A@sholes like him never learn their lesson unless other party clamps down hard but FL current condition doesn't allow her to take drastic measures. I have a feeling he wouldn't stop even after leads get together and start dating, he would continue his shenanigans, do something stupid like public proposing, FL will retaliate in ruthless way and in the end, ML have to interject to save the day. I hope he gets the gang from HL together and give him good beating.
Hi I didn't know you were also watching this !Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance…
I feel you and have same discussion with some other dude on this forum, but "Absolute NO" have to come from FL side. There is no denying the fact, he "has and has been" crossing the limit. I would personally blame FL for the apartment incident (she didn't stand her ground) but she did make up for it by shutting him down in the apartment. We can talk in circles, but it will all boil down too, FL not being Harsh/strict enough in her response to his outrageous behaviour, BUT if we look at rom FL prospective, her current repute of 'Boss Bed warmer" in workplace and her history of SA abuse. Her behaviour kinda makes sense, the survivors of sexual assault usually suffer from lack of self-confidence (especially when it comes from other gender), nightmares, trouble sleeping, appetite changes, general anxiety, or depression and emotional reactions like guilt, shame, fear, numbness, shock, and feelings of isolation. If you observe her behaviour you would see, she is showing all classical signs of assault PTSD.... but her condition has started to improve after the appearance of ML. That "barging in hostel incident" was wake up call for her. She stood up for ML, talked back fiercely and defended ML throughout the SML stupid tantrums in the apartment. After that, he tried to talk shit in the lobby, and she smacked him hard by saying "I know who likes to force me and who just cares" and her entire demeanour changed. She gives special treatment to ML, is sharing stuff with her friends and "trying her best to breakdown the walls". So, I can fault her when she is actively taking baby steps and trying to "improve her behaviour", I know it may seem contradictory to some people considering my hatred for similar behaviour in other dramas.....but here we have FL, who has very legitimate reason for her behaviour (villains are provoking her again and again), she claps back at anyone who tries to cross the limit, gives special treatment to ML, acknowledges her mistakes and trying her best to improve the situation. I know for a fact from my personal experience, victims behave like this, and majority never get over it. She is trying and to me its commendable!
Look for desperate ones and be direct, some guys may seem intelligent to you but when it comes to extracting useful information from females "double meaning" answers. They are dumb as fuck and rightfully soo cuz other guys don't act like this and they are not accustomed to kind of EQ females put them through. Even if he got the hint in this MeToo era he is not going to act on it, unless he is 100% sure you want to have relationship with him.
Let the romance begin! Please! And get dumbass Mu out of there.
Hi I didn't know you were also watching this ! Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance "Whatsoever" and FL has the habit of nipping in the buds, she has clapped him at-least two times now with one liner in response his mountain of complains about ML, but he is too dumb to catch on ! Naturally I would want FL to clear the air but, in this case, she is his direct superior and he is internee. So, he is supposed to pester her with work related stuff, and she can't retaliate unless he does something outrageous which gives her the excuse to teach him a lesson.
Like dude doesn't it sound wired too you..... I bet you are female cuz no man with Iota of self respect is going to agree with it. Before you accuse me of favorites, you can check HL comment section I am saying this for a long time. If we believe ML own admission of liking FL when she was teen and waiting for her to grow up (Car scene, when they meet first time in Yihe), the his behaviors of liking teens was 'pedophelia".
He is not even top 10 and I got nothing against the dude. I have watched almost all of his drama's, but he is not what you guys are making him out to be.
He is not even top 10 !
First frost is for people with refined palate, who want to see something unique and care about the nuisances, as of ep 16 it feels like a 9+ drama to me, but we will see what happens in the future.
If only she should be trying to avoid any mention of that embarrassing situation/interaction. After that, I don't know what in the world made him believe FL should trust literal newbie over her roommate of 70 days, with whom she has pretty good understanding, repute and living situation going on. Like in world, there are ludicrous, preposterous and then we have him at the top. I know dude is like 19-20 but it's not a valid justification for his behaviour, I was not that dumb 4 years ago.... Not to mention he is hitting on his immediate supervisor in workplace. Who is already suffering from rumors of cashing in sexual favours for benefits. It's like everything in universe was telling him to grow up and don't target the couple, but he decided to be a hater !
I have a feeling he wouldn't stop even after leads get together and start dating, he would continue his shenanigans, do something stupid like public proposing, FL will retaliate in ruthless way and in the end, ML have to interject to save the day. I hope he gets the gang from HL together and give him good beating.
We can talk in circles, but it will all boil down too, FL not being Harsh/strict enough in her response to his outrageous behaviour, BUT if we look at rom FL prospective, her current repute of 'Boss Bed warmer" in workplace and her history of SA abuse. Her behaviour kinda makes sense, the survivors of sexual assault usually suffer from lack of self-confidence (especially when it comes from other gender), nightmares, trouble sleeping, appetite changes, general anxiety, or depression and emotional reactions like guilt, shame, fear, numbness, shock, and feelings of isolation.
If you observe her behaviour you would see, she is showing all classical signs of assault PTSD.... but her condition has started to improve after the appearance of ML. That "barging in hostel incident" was wake up call for her. She stood up for ML, talked back fiercely and defended ML throughout the SML stupid tantrums in the apartment. After that, he tried to talk shit in the lobby, and she smacked him hard by saying "I know who likes to force me and who just cares" and her entire demeanour changed. She gives special treatment to ML, is sharing stuff with her friends and "trying her best to breakdown the walls".
So, I can fault her when she is actively taking baby steps and trying to "improve her behaviour", I know it may seem contradictory to some people considering my hatred for similar behaviour in other dramas.....but here we have FL, who has very legitimate reason for her behaviour (villains are provoking her again and again), she claps back at anyone who tries to cross the limit, gives special treatment to ML, acknowledges her mistakes and trying her best to improve the situation. I know for a fact from my personal experience, victims behave like this, and majority never get over it. She is trying and to me its commendable!
Even if he got the hint in this MeToo era he is not going to act on it, unless he is 100% sure you want to have relationship with him.
Lol this time I don't mind SML Mu guy cuz I know he has no chance "Whatsoever" and FL has the habit of nipping in the buds, she has clapped him at-least two times now with one liner in response his mountain of complains about ML, but he is too dumb to catch on !
Naturally I would want FL to clear the air but, in this case, she is his direct superior and he is internee. So, he is supposed to pester her with work related stuff, and she can't retaliate unless he does something outrageous which gives her the excuse to teach him a lesson.