Dr Ghost

Damnnn get a boyfriend then !

If I was getting assaulted by offenders every two months, last thing I would do is bring random nobody to my home. We can agree on this one, it was plain stupid.

I feel you but she is gullible in nature and have a hard time saying "No" to people, furthermore she doesn't consider him a threat but still it wasn't smart idea.

That Mu didn't have any chance to begin with, but FL was neutral about him. Now I personally believe her view has skewed towards negative side, like dude come on. She said "No" but you have to pressurize her to enter the house, and you are not ML. They have decades old relationship and have been through life and death situation (while fighting the rapist friends), not to mention FL likes him a lot. So, it may have looked like to you FL is a pushover, and you can force your will on her but she is exact opposite of that. She is a warrior who have trampled upon fragile egos of multiple scum (r@pist), she allows ML to boss her around and close the distance cuz she likes him..... you on the other hand failed to read the room and will get wrecked.
Forcing/Pressurizing a woman you have barely known for few days, never works or ends well for vast majority of people.

It's about FL healing journey from her past trauma's...so it will take some time for plot to thicken but by ep 7 fluffy moments will start appearing. The first few episodes are bit harsh but it's worth the effort!

You made a rookie mistake and just like you I have also learned it the hard way.

Okay all good then but guys keep it down, otherwise I can guarantee you fan wars will start and comment section would descend into pure chaos.

Guys stop this "ML vs FL" nonsense... If you can't handle a complex drama with layered gray characters. Then this isn't for you.... you should watch something light hearted.
No body is right or wrong in this scenario!
I personally believe we should focus more on Duan Jixu antics, at this point he has kissed both Sang Siblings. They have suspicious friendship and I believe FL and Sang Zi should sit them down and discuss their overly affectionate behavior (like kissing in college and what Duam Jixu did at their friend weeding in HL) in extra episode.

Now can you tell me "what the hell happened" I just logged on and rating has increased (which is a good thing) but people are writing paragraphs defending FL. I have raised similar points tomorrow too....it's well understood why FL is behaving the way she does and she is one of the better FL's too. No lingering Ex, she is not leading anybody on.... everything looks normal to me.

Can you tell me WTF happened?
People are writing long paragraphs defending FL against someone, who has attacked FL.

"Instead they will only bash the female lead because of their internal misogny"
That's where you lost me !
Just cuz someone doesn't like a FL doesn't mean he is woman hating asshole, it simply means "HE IS WRONG".... Stop seeing everything through the lens of gender war.
If you want people to respect and understand your point of view, the last thing you wanna do is disrespect them by using strong words like "Misogynist" associated with woman beaters and much more. I doesn't even know what is going on but we live in free society and people have the right to express their opinions.

Now to the main point, Yes I agree with your point of view FL was build up walls around her and her cold indifferent demeanor is part of her copying mechanism. So ML is surging ahead trying to bring down her walls and restore her trust in intra-personal relationship between humans. That being said those people are not entirely wrong either, ML is doing the heavy lighting in the relationship now albeit FL has strong reasons to behave the way she does right now. So who knows their roles may reverse in future!

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Do you have link to the novel?

I think we may have third couple in form of Si Qiao and ML dumb friend.

"The current setting of First Frost happens after Hidden Love?"
I just saw the younger version of Sang Zi in new year episode in which she mentioned she is preparing for her college entrance examination. So, there is no way its after the Hidden love cuz for that to happen...Sang Zi and Duan Jia should be couple and Sang Zi would be an adult woman with bachelors degree.
So, both dramas are probably going side by side !

I am with you it's a stupid law, CCP is acting like Chinese fuck with blindfolds on or they don't have adult videos and porn there. Heck even prostitution is legal in China and it's a famous past time activity of majority of men there.

Fair enough brother, I would never tolerate cheating too and like I said. The moment you cheat, here is the door, fuck off and never show your face in front of me again and I bet you are still better than me. I may or may not have slept with that person best friend.

Yes its Punjabi (Sry for bad pronunciation tho, I am living in LA for 8 years and it has degraded my punjabi writing skills) and I have a feeling I am from your enemy nation (you sound like a South Indian). I get it you want to lessen ML suffering and FL to acknowledge his feelings but the way you worded your original sounded like, you were blaming FL and I know it was not your intention, but it came out wrong and pissed people off.

If you ask about me, I did stand by my g.f during hard times and even forgave her for some mistakes (no cheating tho, you cheat here is door bitch) and let me tell you something. I did hit rock bottom in future (majority of surgeons have PTSD from first person that died under their watch) and she did stand by me. So answer to your question is Yes, realistically speaking I would never leave someone and hold their mental illness against them.

Now that is a good point, I can stand behind it but brother there is a saying in my native language, and I will try to translate it to English.

"Zehar Wekh K Peeta Te Ki Peeta, Ishq soch K Keeta Te Ki Keeta Dil De K Dil Laiye Di Ass Rakhi Ve Bulleya Pyaar Wi Laalach Naal Keeta Te Ki Keeta"
If you do some good deed for your beloved with expectations of getting something in return, then brother you didn't do it out of love cuz love is not like transaction. I know modern society have tainted people imagination, where they believe love is about eternal bliss..... Let me tell you it isn't, its about sacrificing, believing and standing by someone in hard times based soly on hopes of reciprocation of your feelings....not expectations.
Life usually isn't smooth sailing and If ML can't stand by her during her hard times, then he can't expect her to do the same during his hard times and quite frankly FL is reciprocating. He got a hug and kiss out of that deal !