Drifter

i'll stop you at the 1st part about cultures, TOXIC/ABUSIVE & so on is not a culture there for has nothing to do with cultures of any race & so on... just like saying EVIL is not EVIL cuz it's someone's culture thus everything is suddenly allowed & deemed normal cuz of it... hell no, i don't care for culture nor race nor anything else when it comes to down right evil behavior, if you're TOXIC you're toxic end of discussion, if you're an abusive pile of shit then that's what you are, it has nothing to do with anything else period... same principle as if someone tried to kill you, race/culture won't matter, if you wish to live you will fight back even if your "race or culture or both" tell you to be peaceful & non violent, if you value your own life you will fight back, end of discussion.

So for the love of god don't give me those useless excuses just to justify some moronic behavior that literally has nothing to do with either culture or race, but simply everything to do with fact everyone is trying to simply justify being a complete piece of shit...

the problem is why it's NOT worth watching & that overshadows any good & positive about this show that may make it worth watching... i'm at episode 19 and i'm counting the amount of blessings this script writers & producers receive due to me being in another country... 90% of this whole show is about psychopathic FML mother who doesn't know how to stfu due to the fact that this isn't reality but a tv show, after all in real life someone would of smacked her so hard it would literally yeet the stupid out of her...

FML mother character is an absolute psychopathic pile of S... and ML grandmother is one hell of y hypocrite and just down right a bad person... pretends and spews nonsense about family & blah blah blah yet she never considered her own grandson family while he considered her his only family, all she cared about was her granddaughter all the while being a hypocrite spewing nonsense & deceiving ML just to get him to be nice to FML... truly a garbage show all around... i wish Xu Kai stopped doing shows like this, cuz in 2 shows i liked him in he was amazing, but no matter how much i like him as an actor being in shows like this just ruins him & despite him being in it the show is still unbearable... after all as the saying goes even if you shove a diamond into pile of S, it's still gonna be a pile of S... what cannot be good will never be good no matter what.

"absolute" is not if/maybe/sometimes/for some/etc, it has nothing to do with ones opinions & so on, nor does the meaning of "NO" no is no it's that simple, there's no additional of "absolute" or others opinions and so on about it period, that's the whole point, the reason rapists exist is cuz they don't understand nor accept anything that has to do with "NO" aka denial towards them, same principal applies to everyone else who also simply ignore the word NO and do whatever they want despite being told to piss off & until you understand the basic fundamentals of words you use there will be no point in having any discussion with you on any level.

If for no other reason to put it simply for even you to understand, if we go by your logic of "NO" not meaning no, then "YES" doesn't mean yes either, and suddenly "maybe" doesn't mean maybe nor does any other word mean what they're supposed to mean and the reason they exist to convey that meaning from one person to another to make communication not only possible but actually UNDERSTANDABLE, if words no longer have the meaning they should then communication is no longer possible & voilà we're back to being simple caveman, which for ppl like you who can't understand plain & simple language you speak might as well be labeled a caveman...

p.s i really couldn't give a shit if you agree with me or not, we've proven at this point your understanding of anything is simply nonexistent, so until you learn those basics don't bother replying anymore, i don't need pointless notifications from delusional ppl who have to come up with infinite excuses to justify their own stupidity and failure to understand the basics even a toddler would understand better...

1st of all that's exactly how "NO" works, if i tell someone to fuck off i expect them to fuck off, i want to jump off the fucking bridge then that's my fucking business as it is my life, NO ONE ELSE has the permission nor justification to meddle in another's life and force themselfs or their opinion on them period, that is literally how NO works... ppl like you who don't understand nor can respect that are the issue.

By your logic if i ask you if i can smack hard enough to leave a hand imprint on your face and you say NO am i right to smack you anyway going by YOUR logic of not taking NO as an answer & moving on? do you see the problem or still delusional that NO should be ignored and just keep pushing your own bullshit on others? and my main point in previous comment wasn't a simple single NO, it was a continuous of NO's to the point you'd call it spam on internet and the other person still doesn't stop....

no it's not, 8 episodes in and i see nothing but typical asian shit of ppl forcing themselfs into other ppls business, their lives, onto them in one way or another, constantly butting in into everything everywhere, touching & taking others belongings without permission, failing to understand being told no 1 billion times like a rapist would who simply deleted "NO any form of denial" out of their existence to get their way...

If that's not a "bullying" show idk what is, but last time i checked that kind of behavior is the furthest thing from "Romance/Friendship &/or healing" of any kind... & it has another 32 episodes of this insanity & even if magically it goes from this shitshow to what you described in episode 9 & onwards, its still to go from absolutely enraged pissed off watching the 1st 8 episodes to actually enjoying it later on...

i'm on episode 8 so idk yet what went down in her past, but everyone has a traumatized past of some sort, doesn't give anyone an excuse to be a lying hypocritical ass towards others, especially ones they claim to love like FL claims to love ML while taking a piss on him 24/7 in each episode from the very 1st one cuz she's just judging shit left & right in her own head without actually having a fukken conversation to find out anything, so as typical FL she makes up shit in her head & thus ML is the bad guy, while the ML poor soul doesn't even have a fukken clue what the hell is going on and why he's being taken a shit on for no reason all the time & then you got that 1 side/2nd male character that always shits & pisses on everything all the time ruining the whole damn show...

Did i mention the ML is a loser as well who doesn't even know how to stand on his own properly? no where in any aspect of reality will someone constantly jump in your face, touch your belongings, touch you & so on without permission & you'll do absolutely FUK ALL but stand there & take it up the back door like a champ (cuz that's exactly what this MC is, worthless & spineless beyond comparison -.-)

exactly... ML is a spineless loser that pretends he's special cuz he's "ML" while having nothing that makes him a ML, FL is a hypocritical lying bitch & the side "2nd ML" is the most obnoxious piece of shit face punch-able to the death worthless character design that everyone involved in creating that character should be sent to prison on general fukken principal -.-

Generally ppl who skip in dramas is cuz we're there for the romance aspect of the drama, not braindead retarded unrealistic "drama" that even fiction can't support, thus we skip cuz no one has time in their limited lives to waste it in moronic shit like that... (no i'm not commenting about this drama specifically, i'm simply commenting on your comment about ppl who skip in episodes).

Not to mention too many dramas have rapey like support/2nd ML that drives me up the wall to the point i'd slaughter every single one of them if i could... i mean is it really so hard to make this dramas that usually advertise being all about love yet they're all about "drama" rather then love and that drama being the support/2nd ML character that doesn't give 2 shits about FL thus is only obsessing over her, stalking her & harassing her exactly like a rapist would? yeah that's why we skip, ain't no one got time to watch that shit nor does anyone want too unless you enjoy that crap which just means you're extremely sick in the head (just like writers who can't make up an asian drama without including such character in about 90%+ dramas they make -.- truly pathetic

typical garbage, where evil is forgiven & rewarded, MC has no backbone to do what's right, fails 24/7 and gives everything away to others for some nonsense bullshit cuz he's to incompetent to actually achieve anything what so ever despite acting like he's some sort of a god tier being... gtfo...

Not to mention the worthless grandfather who's even worse then his own grandson aka MC... pathetic to the end & so is his daughter the main antagonist of the show who's murdering ppl left & right, her own family yet receives 0 punishment for it, instead she's rewarded with forgiveness instead, cuz murder should be forgiven & rewards rather then punished... mf asian's and your braindead logic on how law, common sense & basic manners work...

to waste everyone's life & money...

exactly & evil male characters in asian dramas are the pinnacle of disgust, so i fukken hate shows with such characters in them... & i'd like to know your 2nd question about how long it takes the main leads to start being romantic with each other (i'm all for a nicely paced show, but if i have to wait for the main leads to get together till the last 4-6 episodes of the show then i'm wasting my time on 70% of the show while being here for the main reason of romance between the main leads which pretty much 90% of romance dramas is about, yet you usually end up getting 30% of main leads romance about 70% of other characters romance & everything else... kinda insane to be honest... it's really hard to find a good show where main focus is where it should be & that's on relationship on main leads no matter how fast or slow paced it may be)

no evil 2nd female lead is the least of my problem, the issues i have with evil any 2nd lead or side-characters is with males, cuz they're always so freaking rapey it pisses me off, it's like this korean/chinese dramas can't make evil/bad characters without always being FULL TILT forceful against main female lead to the point it makes them look like rapists & it fucking triggers me on a level if i meet them in real life i'd end up in prison... i absolutely fucking hate that type of character even if it's fictional for the sake of story/plot, i can't stand it... so evil female characters are something i couldn't care less, cuz MC doesn't just let them roll over them, but main female leads 99% of the time have no backbone of any kind so they just let those evil characters do pretty much whatever they want with them and it drives me nuts -.-

So if you say there's no BS like that, i'll gladly go watch (i started having to skip aprox half of each episode in majority of dramas i watch just to skip that "drama" part of each episodes to be able to actually enjoy the rest of the show & finish watching it.

You know it's hard to take someone seriously recommending to watch something with a rating of 8.0 out of 10 while having the show marked as "Dropped"... though i'm watching it atm mainly cuz i saw a couple of shorts around the internet & it looks like it could be interesting so i'm giving it a go to see for myself, though seriously pathetic from your side to go rating something high & recommending it while you yourself drop it... been a while since i saw one contradicting themselfs this badly...

everything you said summed up your comment like a nicely tied up package, good job.

i've never wanted to punch FMC in the face so bad as i did watching 1st 2 episodes of this shitshow... & i didn't even finish the 2nd episode yet & i had the urge to punch her face, dropkick her, stomp her head in on bed of metal spikes, impale her through through her ass all the way out of her mouth, drop her out of the plane, beat her up with that very pipe he beat MC, ran her over with a car like she did mc & oh so many more.... but then again what the fuk am i shocked about, this is the same crap as 99% of every k-drama -.- every FMC is the same psychopathic reality lacking retarded cunt that thinks they can do whatever they want with 0 consequences while the MC isn't allowed to even open his mouth or he's labeled the most EVIL/Perverted man on the planet, constantly abused & shit on for the sake of fake forced "comedy" that just becomes boring retarded shit after 2 seconds & copy/paste repeat in every single k-drama... truly the most incompetent script writers on the planet.

no matter what happens from episode 4 on, episode 1 & 2 do exactly what every k-drama does, show you just how pathetic every MC is both in k-dramas & apparently in real world, cuz there's no way every single MC of every single k-drama is a fukken pathetic, worthless, weak ass b1tch for all to piss on even when they're supposed have powers that rival gods or beyond them but a mere human with no power ragdolls them around like a sock in EVERY SINGLE DAMN SHOW!!!! there's no humor, the joke gets old when it's a copy/paste script for every k-drama shitshow in the universe thus it's not funny either, every FMC is the same wh0re ass b1tch with delusions so high if there was a god in real life he'd get smacked all over the entire universe by her delusions, complete lack of reality of any kind, 0 fucking manners or respect for anyone nor anything yet acts like she's the motherfukken center of the universe when she's not even the center of her own tiny ass pea sized brain of her own life... gtfo with this fukken lazy pathetic writing.... chinese may do a lot of cliche "male lead good at everything" & so on, but at least it's entertaining to watch as he's not a worthless shit show & FMC is not a delusional "i can do whatever i want cuz i'm apparently the ruler of the universe" type character with 0 consequences ever...

7 months later this poster is still as a Cover... it's completely miss leading, the poster literally represents NOTHING that happens in the show nor what the show is about... so how's this acceptable & approved anywhere as a cover not just on this website is beyond me... down right disgusting really...