Mercy

They teach women that calling their husbands by their name is disrespectful in most cultures. Many cultures even here in Africa think respect is only owed to men so men call their wives anything but the women are often restricted to do the same. The women only start using endearment to refer to their husbands if their husband approves and are not so rigid. Also men are mostly typically older than their wives. I guess the same applies here.

If she did, he would offer help against her wish. That's her fears. And it is valid.

TBH, I think both of them reasons are valid. If I am pregnant, I would not let my husband go to war if I have the ability to stop it.

TBH, I understand Xiao Fan. She is also pregnant. It is a good thing it ended in Joy nonetheless. Also, she still does not know why they did not invite them to the deer hunt. Fair.

I am tired of lady Yu Lou and her fore head painting. I need someone to scar that forehead for me.

If they don't consummate in the next episode, I will pull out my hair. It is very unrealistic to love someone and live in the same room for months and not have sexual urges. Married couples for that matter. C’mon!!!

I guess it has something to do with him being married

It was so sus. From where to where?🤣

They always extend grace to male leads and then hold female leads to ridiculously high standards. It is annoying.

Oh please. She is more good looking than the male lead. Don’t even go there. And she is nailing her role.

It is a backup plan in case ML decides to wipe off his people. Doing that will make her clan less vulnerable. Remember Panyi that she gave the ML is a very strong foothold for her clan so losing that meant her clan was very vulnerable to attacks so she needed to close up those lapses.

SMH

That was so hilarious🤣🤣🤣

That's a man speaking from experience 🤣. In less than 5minutes the other soldier spewed a secret to a Qiao maid unintentionally 🤣

It may seem as though only very slim people can have a spot at playing lead roles in China. It just occurred to me that chubby people are only given supporting roles or clown roles. Too bad.

Very annoying. They just want female leads to only think about their husband. Christ!!! A man is fighting for his people’s interest. Clearly has thoughts of killing the FL’s people but God forbid the FL protects herself and her family because the viewer thinks he loves her and have been through a lot.

She is not tucking peace. She is protecting her people. When the male lead sent his soldiers to go fight another town simply because Qaio has Boya, where was your outrage for peace? What did that clown do to him? It is the patriarchy speaking through you. This thing where you just want women to forsake everything and just go along with their husband’s dream is distorting your sense of judgment. Have you forgoten he betrayed her too? Sent her out as soon as he got the panyi token? Have you forgotten it is not a love marriage? Have you forgotten he told her he might kill her people but pardon her? Have you forgotten she is in a hostile environment? Why do you people always want female leads to just be goody two shoes who should just rely on the benevolence of men or the love the viewer see that the male lead has not shown them?

Whatever her people did to him does not mean that she would have to stand ideally by and not protect herself and her people. She needs a form of protection too.

He is at war with her clan’s people. C’mon. He stationed troops in Panyi shortly after their marriage. He didn't have to. When he saw that she made backup plans and her people would not be as vulnerable as he wanted, he sent his soldiers to go fight the neighborhood town opposite Boya so that he could still have control over her clan's people. You people would always justify a male lead's action and antagonize a female lead for doing the same thing. She has the right to also protect herself and her clown. She is married to a man who hates her people. A man who told her she was no longer a part of her family because of marriage but she should just sit ideally and be doing soft babe? Please!!!

Oh please. She has the right to protect the interest of her people too. Why should she not have backup plans or leave her clan vulnerable? He is not the only one who should have that right.