Some of you are making me feel too old😂😂😂. It feels like I am interacting with too many teenagers and adults in their early twenties. I can’t believe what is making some of you mad. Don’t worry, SWL will get a virgin in his next project😂😂😂😂
So she should not work with her boss again?😂😂😂. Has Chen Yi defined his relationship with her? Their…
First, "knowing someone loves you" is not a relationship status. Chen Yi loves her, but he has not committed to her or asked her to be his girlfriend. You cannot expect a woman to act like an exclusive, loyal partner to a man who hasn't actually given her a commitment. If Chen Yi wants exclusivity, he needs to step up. Until then, MJ is a free agent. Second, she isn't "entertaining" her boss; she is working. In the real world, you can’t just snap at your boss and risk your job over assumptions. She has done absolutely nothing inappropriate going to a hotel room for a strictly professional meeting is business, not romance. She cannot control if he chooses to propose again in the future; you cannot blame a woman for a man’s potential actions when she has kept her boundaries professional. Finally, she isn't "disturbing" Chen Yi's life. He is the only family she has left. They raised and protected each other when they had nothing, which is why she returned. But fighting for him doesn't mean she has to put her career or financial independence on pause. Expecting MJ to alienate her boss and act exclusive to a guy who hasn't officially claimed her is just a double standard
Now FL still gonna hangout with her ex and entrain him, giving hope then he gonna ask if they can reunite in ang…
So she should not work with her boss again?😂😂😂. Has Chen Yi defined his relationship with her? Their relationship has no label yet for all this gnashing of teeth.
I've read so many comments and I just feel like I need to take my time to explain certain things to certain people because I just don't like the way some of you are going about this. The obsession with "purity" tropes and demanding that characters remain perfectly untouched during a six-year separation is completely ruining your ability to appreciate a mature, realistic, and deeply human story.
First of all, let’s talk about Chen Yi. A lot of people including me initially argued that it’s completely unrealistic for a guy in his late twenties, working in a gritty environment surrounded by sketchy people, clubs, and bars, to not have a girlfriend for six years. And honestly? On the surface, that makes sense. But if you actually pay attention to his character progression instead of just looking for standard romance tropes, his behavior makes perfect sense.
Chen Yi is a deeply traumatized, broken soul. He lost his father, took the fall for an arson case to protect Miao Jing, and has been in survival mode his entire life. People who have experienced that level of systemic abuse and loss do not just casually open up their hearts to new romantic partners. Furthermore, when Miao Jing later asks him about his past, he doesn’t deny having physical relationships. For someone like Chen Yi, keeping things strictly physical (like one-night stands or casual flings in his club environment) is easy because it requires zero emotional vulnerability. True emotional intimacy is what terrifies him. He was even passive in his first relationship with Miao Jing she was the one who pushed the boundaries that resulted to him stepping up for their first kiss. Since he was the one who actively broke up with her and pushed her away to protect her, it is not surprising at all that he didn’t seek out another "girlfriend." He simply closed off his heart.
Now, let’s address the backlash against Miao Jing for dating other people during those six years. Some of you are actually claiming their love "doesn't feel real" just because she tried to move on. Come on, let's be real for a second. How many married people in real life are actually married to their first love? People date, part ways, try to heal, and sometimes find their way back to each other. It doesn't diminish their affection.
You have to remember: Chen Yi is the one who broke her heart and drove her away. She was sent to university in a completely new environment, left to pick up the pieces of her life. Of course she was going to try to date other people! It is a completely normal, healthy human coping mechanism to try and heal from a devastating rejection.
And for those asking, "Why did she even come back if she dated others?" you are completely missing the depth of their bond. Chen Yi wasn't just her ex-boyfriend. He was her entire family. After his father died and her mother abandoned her, Chen Yi’ was there for her and these two literally raised and protected each other. They share a profound, unbreakable bond born of survival. He represents her home and her roots. You can't just replace that with a casual college boyfriend.
her having an ex kinda did ruin it a bit for me. I’ve become less convinced of their bond.
Also in their recent conversation, he implied that he has known other women. A troubled person like him may not keep a relationship, with the nature of his job he may have one or two flings. Night stands and nothing deep and serious.
God forbids a woman does not love a man who loves her. As adults, you need to know that loving someone does not mean they must love you right back. That’s not how feelings work. The ML is not in the dark. He is well aware of what he is getting himself into. She has not told him a single lie about how she feels. What are all these tears for? Why do some of you like infantilizing MLs? Chill out. Love for many people is gradual.
You'd have problems if chen yi had girlfriends....but since its miao jing ofc you loved that.
I don’t think any reasonable person would. I complained about how unrealistic it is that he didn’t. I am glad she did. That’s more realistic for adults
Second, she isn't "entertaining" her boss; she is working. In the real world, you can’t just snap at your boss and risk your job over assumptions. She has done absolutely nothing inappropriate going to a hotel room for a strictly professional meeting is business, not romance. She cannot control if he chooses to propose again in the future; you cannot blame a woman for a man’s potential actions when she has kept her boundaries professional.
Finally, she isn't "disturbing" Chen Yi's life. He is the only family she has left. They raised and protected each other when they had nothing, which is why she returned. But fighting for him doesn't mean she has to put her career or financial independence on pause. Expecting MJ to alienate her boss and act exclusive to a guy who hasn't officially claimed her is just a double standard
First of all, let’s talk about Chen Yi. A lot of people including me initially argued that it’s completely unrealistic for a guy in his late twenties, working in a gritty environment surrounded by sketchy people, clubs, and bars, to not have a girlfriend for six years. And honestly? On the surface, that makes sense. But if you actually pay attention to his character progression instead of just looking for standard romance tropes, his behavior makes perfect sense.
Chen Yi is a deeply traumatized, broken soul. He lost his father, took the fall for an arson case to protect Miao Jing, and has been in survival mode his entire life. People who have experienced that level of systemic abuse and loss do not just casually open up their hearts to new romantic partners. Furthermore, when Miao Jing later asks him about his past, he doesn’t deny having physical relationships. For someone like Chen Yi, keeping things strictly physical (like one-night stands or casual flings in his club environment) is easy because it requires zero emotional vulnerability. True emotional intimacy is what terrifies him. He was even passive in his first relationship with Miao Jing she was the one who pushed the boundaries that resulted to him stepping up for their first kiss. Since he was the one who actively broke up with her and pushed her away to protect her, it is not surprising at all that he didn’t seek out another "girlfriend." He simply closed off his heart.
Now, let’s address the backlash against Miao Jing for dating other people during those six years. Some of you are actually claiming their love "doesn't feel real" just because she tried to move on. Come on, let's be real for a second. How many married people in real life are actually married to their first love? People date, part ways, try to heal, and sometimes find their way back to each other. It doesn't diminish their affection.
You have to remember: Chen Yi is the one who broke her heart and drove her away. She was sent to university in a completely new environment, left to pick up the pieces of her life. Of course she was going to try to date other people! It is a completely normal, healthy human coping mechanism to try and heal from a devastating rejection.
And for those asking, "Why did she even come back if she dated others?" you are completely missing the depth of their bond. Chen Yi wasn't just her ex-boyfriend. He was her entire family. After his father died and her mother abandoned her, Chen Yi’ was there for her and these two literally raised and protected each other. They share a profound, unbreakable bond born of survival. He represents her home and her roots. You can't just replace that with a casual college boyfriend.