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Dang, I hurt my own feelings catching up knowing there were more episodes to come. Waiting is so hard 😩

I thought this was going to be like the anime, which focused more on food and I loved that. This focused more on the Maiko themselves and at first it kinda bummed me out but honestly, it was still a sweet slice of life that was a pleasant and enjoyable watch. The relationship between the two girls felt realistic like they really did grow up with each other. Sometimes it’s just nice to watch something that’s purely cosy

I have never been so mad at an ending before and I watch a LOT of dramas. That just… ended

This was the most painfully human show I have watched in a really long time. Grief isn’t linear nor does it happen when a person passes, you can grieve even when they’re still in the room alive and talking with you. It was a beautiful interpretation of this stage of life and how it’s felt by those caring for you. I genuinely do not understand why the score is so low - it was beautifully acted and heartfelt

Yes this 100%

I finished it the other day and still think this could have been solved with some clear communication and establishing boundaries of what they both were comfortable with.

That in mind, he said REPEATEDLY, he wasn’t into dating (in fact he had a whole reputation around it) and she did acknowledge it so you can’t be made at someone telling you who they are and ignoring it. Could he have been more clear? Sure but that would the end of the show on the first episode. I feel the point of all of this is seeing these deeply hurt, flawed people work through their complex feelings. I liked the show and I’m calling bs on the red flag.

I’ve started this today and looking at the comments… I guess no one’s heard of poly relationships? Not saying that’s what’s happening here, however, it kinda is and that doesn’t make the ML a walking red flag. If they just communicated properly we’d be good

Just finished and it was okay. Not great, nor bad, just okay. The mother really got on my nerves though - not one lesson was learned

I just finished this and I wasn’t ready for how beautiful this story was. It’s going to take me a long while to recover from this

I genuinely liked this show and didn’t mind the slow bits. My only complaint was leaving the ‘The Heroes’ plot point to the very end because it felt like it was tacked on to just finish the show. It was heavy for the both of them and should have been given more time.

Actually I am! It’s the second cdrama I ever watched (I watched it last year) and I don’t think I gave it a fair viewing when I did so I wanted to revisit it and see if my opinion changed. I’m on ep 14 and it’s growing on me ☺️

Just finished this and it was thoroughly enjoyable! Agree with some of the other comments, the relationship between her and her brother felt so natural and funny, it really sold it to me. The romance was sweet with the right amount of tension. I’d deffo watch this again

Literally! I just finished this show and kept thinking about all the trauma she caused this poor man

Just started this and I’m glad I decided to watch One and Only first because the tie in to it always made me chuckle like I was also there in the past life and I know they’ll be destined to be together. I’m okay with the slow burn as long there’s a payoff in the end

Thank you!!! I learned this definitively around episode 22 but saw your message beforehand and it made it so much clearer

I’m on episode 16 and I still don’t understand why the Empress Dowager is going so hard on the Yan family. Did I miss something?

I feel the exact same way… and save the last dance. I was BEGGING the show to find other songs 😭

I am STRUGGLING through this one. Still going, not planning on dropping cause once I start a show I see it through in case it changes my mind but this one is making me work for it. Is Wei Wei attracted to him at all? This kissing scenes are so rough to watch, I mean he’s trying to make it work but it’s more ‘haha, weird’ than ‘aww, cute’

I have VERY mixed feelings about the ending. I should have just listened to what another commenter said about stopping at ep 35. All would have been fine and I would have been left with a smile on my face. Now, I've been thinking about it a whole day later and I'm going through a lot of emotions right now. 😢😢😢😢😢 TTEOTM is going to stay with me for a very long time. Absolutely loved it.

Welp, on episode 28 and everything is fine here 🥲🥲🥲