Juniko

it's great. Did you see the 2011 version ? What did you think of it ?

it's real, since that movie is out.

the prequel isn't in MDL ?

fine, thank you. And you ?

Thanks ! Though in the circumstance, those other people are a 8year old girl and her parents. But I like it. It gives me purpose. A new goal, aside from my studies and hobbies. How I can help her make progress, how I can communicate with her, all those little things. It's fun. I don't think i'd be a good teacher, because taking care of 28 children seems like hard work (my mother is doing that job). But I like tutoring. So far that's my favourite part time job.

Pareil, depuis 2009. Mon premier drama c'était Hana Yori Dango, suivit de près par Kimi Wa Petto. Et toi ?

oui c'est ça !
Ca fait longtemps que tu es fan de dramas ?

merci. tu es belge ?

I also comment and my mom endded up saying "STOP TALKING ! At least, when it's a scene with Kim Tan !"....
Is it my fault if I'm rooting for Yeoung Do ?

I think that's what I'll do, go with the flow and see what happens. I could be surprised. Maybe we'll end up builing something that closer to a really interesting frenship rather that a couple-like relationship. I honestly thinks that would be best for me now.

And you know, I agree with you : you don't have to be in a relationship to be happy, there are other ways. I only had one serious relationship so far (that lasted for a 14 months, so not that long) and I never considered myself unlucky or unhappy. I think that is only because of what happened with Mr Perfect that I started to question my lovelife.

I should really take some time to go back to my old self first before trying to start something with someone new.

I recently accepted to take on a part-time job aside from my studies. Maybe this will help me to get back on track...

Well, thanks for your advice, I appreaciate it !

That's what I said I would do : wait for like 10 episode to be out to start watching...

In conclusion, I'd say that I really don't know what's going on in his head, or even in mine. So I would tend to think that the safest way would be to keep hanging out with him and see what happens...but that's if you forget about the fact that due to recent events I'm suddenly feeling really insecure about any kind of interraction between love and myself.

You need to understand that this is the biggest heartbreak I got since...since I was 12 ! Everything was well for 10 years. Even when my boyfriend and I broke up 5 years ago we were kind of in a situation where we had become more friends than anything else and so when we decided to cut the "dating" part of our friendship we were both okay with it. Then a year ago I met Mr.M (Or Sucky) and I thought I met the right guy !

So tiptoeing around a weird friendship not knowing where I stand is kindda new to me...

(Okay, so, I finished reading part 2-4)

So, as said in my part one, I don't know if I like him or if I'm a difficult situation emotionnaly. I feel like I like him but I don't know if my heart can be trusted right now, with all that happened. So, I have the figure that one out first.

But you're right : I do want to figure out where I stand in this. I need a minimum of control over this, because I hate what I've just been through. I felt like I was the only naive idiot who saw nothing coming and that cannot happen again!

Since he already has a good level of french, we only need to fill the few blanks in Japanese (or with a dictionnary when a specific term is needed) but still, a misunderstanding can quicly arise. Especially when my guts are telling me that he just complimented me but that my brain can't process it clearly because the words he used were slightly wrong.

wow, didn't realized there was a part 2...and 3 and 4. I need to read everything before answering. ^^

Honestly, I don't know. I do like him right now, because being with him is heartwarming and that he's actually fun and sweet in a bizarre sort of way. But I really don't know if that's genuine or if since he was there when I needed comfort now my brain is processing it like Hiro=comfort.

I agree with you, being exoticized is really not agreable. When I went to Japan, there was this girl in my dorm I thought I could be friend with, until I realized she only was talking to me because I was french. It felt really bad, so I can't imagine what it's like when you actually loved the other person. With Hiro honestly when I first met him he was only "hot japanese guy" to me, but now he's just Hiro.

But imagine I am on the rebound (which might be the case, given how I was 2Weeks ago). Then what ? How do I stay friends with him without leading him on ?Don't I need to first know how he feels?

Hi.
I also think that my life since October looks like a drama, so I'm patiently waiting for my happy ending ^^

You're right, it isn't healthy to keep chasing someone who's just going to hurt you.

So if you're 100%sure he lost interest in you, but that you still love him anyway, the problem is just your heart. It's perfectly normal, you can't ask your heart to process things as fast as your brain. Once you're attached to someone it's difficult to find the off switch. But I believe that if you stop nurrishing your heart with thoughts about him or false hope, it can heal faster.

But if you still have doubts, then the bast way is to make sure. Ask him out, and if he changed the subject again, ask him why. Be bold with him.
If it's too hard to do that, organise an outing with many other friends, and invite him, and see how he behave with both you and the other girls around.

Fighting!

(part3)

As for listening, well he does. The day Mr M got married, I met him (alone)and we talked for hours. I remember that he kept looking at me the eyes and that he would really react to what I'm saying. Also when I would bring a topic he would ask questions, and not change the subject.

Last time he also showed me pictures of his family and friends back in Japan.

But I don't really know if this much could mean he's into me or if it's just one part of japanese politeness I still didn't get. I feel he's not just acting as a friend, but I could be wrong.

What do you think ?

(part2)
So...About Hiro.

As I told you, he never text first, but whenever we start, the conversation can drag for hours. The first time it happened he actually asked me to send him a picture of myself (nothing weird, it's just that we were texting about the kind of things that people from france and japan would do during their high school festival, and when I told him I was dressed as a doll he got curious).

But he did take the initiative once, and it was actually the first time we went eating alone together - I don't know if you can call that a date. I remember, the waitress had forgotten to give us something and he actually ran to get it. That day we paid separately, but the next time, we went for coffee somewhere and he paid.

Thanks for the advice ! Since your anwers are straight and honest, and that they actually make sense, I'm going to keep asking.

Because honestly I only had one boyfriend before and he was the one who rapidly clarified the situation so that we would actually start dating. So I never had this weird friendship thing where I don't know what the guy is thinking.

Well, beside Mr M, but that one got married, and I really don't want to feel that stupid again.

Also my closest friend among my classmates in highschool was a guy, so I can see the difference between frendship and...that awkward situation.

I'm going to staet empress Ki soon. Also I'm struggling with completing Secret ot not...it was so good I don't want it to end...