KdramaUnnie

Exactly. Very clever of the show. Like he even left the office with a mask.

Girl WAIT till you get to episode 22/23!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH is all I can say.

Me too!!!That's so funny. I'm going to push through with a lot of caffeine, it was SO worth it! 🤣Right??Shameless. He's like I'm here, I'm not going anywhere, roll your eyes, look at me like I'm insane, I want you, I will have you. Good for him 🤣

As he should've!!But the way I SOBBED. Wow Jing Borans portrayal of yearning had me holding me breath.

Girl. That line "Breaking up is like getting a divorce" I WAS SOBBING. I really really really felt it for Luke in that episode. His yearning was also on a whole other level. At one point I was like no Flora don't let him force you to go outside, then she did I was like girl, why didn't you go sooner. I was also super proud of her though, like she worked really hard to get where she was and where she was intending to go, she gave him a really tough time, and like I think it's important to remember that words really hurt and Luke was really arrogant and really short and really mean to her. They both had their faults, but she didn't give in to him and made him really work to prove to her that he's changed. I mean the last episode, really ended so beautifully, He essentially was showing her, herself. Showing her how far she's come and that ultimately through it all, even her insecurities, he saw her, he SEES her.

No really shame, without any judgement, like they told him with so much love to talk to her and treat her gently. I would've bonked him over the head and told him to fix himself if her were my brother/friend.

When he said Mr Shang, my jaw dropped!!!When he said "You cant sleep? I cant sleep either, let me help you!" I PASSED AWAY. I binged the last four 3 episodes last night, when I tell you that I held my breath in every single episode. I couldn't BELIEVE the yearning Jing Boran was giving us, if I could've climbed through the screen damn. When Luke was at the vet and they get home and he does that intense "hug" thing and then says "If it wasnt because of the fact that I want to spend the rest of my life with you, I would've made you suffer now." I was screaming kicking my feet. MAKE HER SUFFER BOTH OF YOU SUFFERRRR!! LOL Wow guys what a drama. It's been a while since I've felt so many things in a modern C-drama.

Toxic cycle of our fictional parents I suppose, look at us, delulu is the selulu 🙄

can someone like PM me what the heck kiss** is??? And to clarity is it all eps or just 21?

I posted this earlier, but ...I honestly think that their dynamic made it difficult for Flora to really open up to him properly. I think she struggled a lot with he is my "boss and boyfriend", there's that episode where she asks him "Are you speaking as my boss or my boyfriend". Like remember that if she goes through anything in her personal life, he would know (subject to her telling him) and then how will it affect their dynamic, how does it effect their relationship? It was so few and far in-between that we would see his gentleness with her and even then, it was difficult for him to lean into it more like when she playfully seeks it from him. In her moments where she is frustrated and vulnerable LN would normally reprimand her, "grow up" "you think you're the only one working hard". "You're pathetic" etc. Like words stick to you. As much as it hurt him "Ugly" was, for a lack of a better word, a good description of their dynamic

Girl, don't you dare make me say "aww poor Luke" 😭😭😭 - I'm too angry at him rn.

Like exactly!? How difficult was it to sit her down and say "SZ, this is what has happened, I'm so sorry, my hands are tied. I think you're incredible and deserve it, it's out of my hands." then HOLD HER WHILE SHE SOBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!STUPID MAN. ARG

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I honestly think that their dynamic made it difficult for Flora to really open up to him properly. I think she struggled a lot with he is my "boss and boyfriend", there's that episode where she asks him "Are you speaking as my boss or my boyfriend". Like remember that if she goes through anything in her personal life, he would know (subject to her telling him) and then how will it affect their dynamic, how does it effect their relationship? It was so few and far in-between that we would see his gentleness with her and even then, it was difficult for him to lean into it more like when she playfully seeks it from him. In her moments where she is frustrated and vulnerable LN would normally reprimand her, "grow up" "you think you're the only one working hard". "You're pathetic" etc. Like words stick to you. As much as it hurt him "Ugly" was, for a lack of a better word, a good description of their dynamic.

You know what!!!YOU KNOW WHAT!!???? Good for Flora! Good for her!! After everything this ABCDEFG of a man STILL doesn't know how to open his stupid mouth and say "I'm sorry, this is what happened. This is how I feel. I don't want to lose you. Please let me show you I can be better!!" Arg I have never NEVER been so angry at a fictional man! Like what is wrong with him!!! Hooooooo. Anyway let me calm down. Guys the fact that our dogs name is Luke too, how will she ever heal. The pain she feels, I can't. No they both really have some questioning traits, but we've really seen Flora grow these last six years and Luke motherf- never mind, that man, still doesn't know how to open his mouth? No sir, this is your fault, you spent years, YEARS, talking down to her, giving her mixed signals, not trusting her. No Flora needs to find herself, be herself without him. Get away. Live her life. Let Luke be miserable.

Ok I'm done, sorry, I literally have no-one else to talk to about this.

Your comment KILLED me!!! That's so funny. 😂

I appreciate you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi!! I'm wondering if anyone can help me. I dropped this. Why?? I don't recall, BUT, I remember leaving off on an episode they both got really drunk... Can anyone maybe tell me what episode that it, then I'll ask ChatGBT to give me a summary of what has happened from ep 1 to the episode in question. TIA!! :)

Exactly, his lack of emotional maturity is really becoming a problem, it's also really sad to see that she accepts the slightest hint of him "trying". I sincerely hope the conversation of "If something is bothering you, talk to me" comes up.

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Damn. what an episode. I'm sobbing now. I really loved the friendship Flora has with her roommates, this whole episode really crushed my heart, Luke and Flora's issues seem so trivial in the bigger scheme of things. I haven't read the novel so I'm wondering what direction this (for spoiler sake) incident is, what was the purpose. I feel like they could've "delved more into his struggles. It felt very brushed through. This was a really heavy episode.
I encourage everyone who is struggling with their mental health to reach out, there are always people that love you and care for you, even a stranger on the internet. That stranger can be me. Look after yourselves.

On a lighter note, we all know why we watch these drama's, be it western, Chinese, Korean etc. Some use it as an escape, some use it as pure entertainment, regardless, I hope that tomorrow, the next day and the next, we'll be kicking our feet and giggling and finding the joy we seek. Not only in these drama's but in our lives too. Fighting everyone! <3