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She basically told him she did not want to see him anymore - so what keeping in touch??also the SML confirmed that they were still married. Also what would the ML accomplish- did all his problems just magically disappear for him to go back to her. Sometimes going back yo someone after a nasty breakup is not easy.

We can’t say the ML lied- that is too strong of a word- because he was faced with some shitty choices there. I think on his part he just gave up thinking what’s the point of explaining and maybe he did not even try - he was so down- hit rock bottom . I am not saying that it is right or wrong. But putting yourself in his shoes it was probably the worst time. And people don’t think rationally. But yes the FL never cared enough. That much is evident

Yes she did not even ask. She just talked about herself

I don’t know to me it felt the FL did not try enough to really figure out what happened . She just went back and got into her work, got sick , impulsively decided to marry Feng Sheng. The point is GY was not himself, he was struggling and she did even stop for a minute to say something was off. How could she just assume the he cheated after how devoted he was to her ? Their bond was not strong enough - it really comes down to that. And the circumstances were really awful.

I feel the same actually . I have actually appreciated XCX’s character more and how she and the ML balance each other out better. The FL is a little too self absorbed.

Yeah from the trailer of ep 19 that is what it looks like

I disagree that it was noble idiocy. You cannot put everything down to that.

Yes as I am watching ep 17 especially after she made the dumb decision to marry Feng Sheng and wondering if there is any turning back for them . And you are right, even if he had told her, it would not have made a difference. this break up was imminent. And yes he really cared about her and cherished her . But it looks like she dismissed all of that as though it was nothing. She did not even bother to try to find out or understand what was happening . There would have been no second chance for this relationship. Over and done.

Her marrying Feng Sheng is the dumbest decision ever. She just had the worst break up and she is immediately marrying someone else? I guess though, in a way, it agrees with the FL’s overall character. Also were the ML’s troubles such a huge secret that she could not find out at all from anyone else

You know in ep 17 he imagines her taking care of him and offering him comfort- I cannot see her character doing something like that in reality.

Yes I will definitely be rewatching this one. It was so good!

There is no right decision in his situation .

Completely agree- FL is lacks maturity . I felt like even the SFL cared more for him and she does understand her boundaries. She has accepted that the ML does not love her. There were a couple of instances where I really liked what the SFL did - one when she told the ML about FL subletting the apartment. And 2 when she tried to persuade the ML to go after the FL. FL definitely not fit to be in a relationship - nothing wrong with that.

Chen Feiyu so far is doing a great job portraying his character as usual!

Oh ok

Given how she thought the ML was cheating , I don’t think she ever understood him. Lol. I understand that she is upset with the break up but to think that? I don’t think she even trusted him enough . This was rock bottom for her too

There you go! We all need to cut the ML some slack

Ha??? Is that happening even?

So what everyone is saying here is that while his entire life is blowing up in front him, he needs to think/care about how he is breaking up with her. Do y’all really think he had the bandwidth for that? On top of the financial mess, getting beaten up, his dad pressing false charges on him and his mother in a coma he needs to think about her - that is a tall order ! They were both truly in a different world- his life was taking a big downswing while hers was on the upswing . There was nothing he could have promised / offered her at that time. So cut the ML some slack. And she never once asked him the right questions -even when he tried to say something she brushed it off. Also is there a guarantee that the FL would understand and support him through this? Everyone is different but sometimes it’s better to let go of someone in situations like this. This is not noble idiocy, not cowardice. It is a practical decision

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