Kinara

Just finished episode 10. How dare that aunt from Hell came to her work to harass her. I guess we have to thank that useless mom of hers for giving her the address. I blame her mom more than anyone else for Wen Yifan’s condition - who abandon’s their child like that - that too for another man? I really liked what Sang Yan did for her in this episode . So looks like seeing her aunt agai has triggered her sleepwalking . I am glad we are getting a closer look at her past in these last few episodes. Her friend is right - she needs to have a good talk with Sang Yan .

Yes that’s right. But I think Wen Yifan’s nature in general is that she keeps everything to herself . Whether it was in the past or in the present

Well it does say release date Feb 21 - which is wrong on the website

Not yet but it does say available Feb 21 - which is strange

I don’t think you understand what I am trying to say . If it affects her then she should definitely let him know how long can they keep this going? I want to under stand where your irritation is coming from . If there is no communication between them. Where is going? And does communication only have to do with feelings ??? I for one did not know that. Maybe go loo up the word?

Keep looking :)

I have said everything I. Need to and more . Whatever it is she needs to start communicating and reciprocating.

Cruising: look up the synonym: wandering, drifting, floating (staying afloat) - that is really what the FL is doing . She is removed from reality and people and relationships don’t mean much to her after she has been constantly hurt . And she has left unresolved stuff with the ML. Not sure why this word is a trigger .

Yep the poem is very apt for the drama

Yes they seem to be very insensitive and oblivious to what she went through. That has bothered me a lot

Agreed on this assessment

Yes let go is the key word . She does not want any of that in her life. It does not have any effect on her . But yes except for the trauma which looms large in her life

lol! That is why it is subjective . We all see what we want to see. And no I am out of whatever happened and am happy now. It has been a while

Hmmmm

You need to stop attacking people . And be a little bit open to people ‘s views . It seem like you think that you are the guru of all of this. But mental illness is complex. And some of these people do cruise through life without letting anything affect them because they don’t want to go through any more pain than they have . This is a known fact. It is a coping mechanism. Not sure why that phrase irritates you so much . And you are here making such a big deal of it .

I never blamed the FL. I am sorry if it came across like that but that was not my intention

How did you get the south Indian part now I am curious . I can see that my wording may have pissed people off- because it does come across sarcastic .but no that is not what I meant

This is not insensitive at all. It is a realistic look at a person who has been through trauma. And I have met with several people with mental illness and lived with one for a while and had kids with them. . So yeah don’t make judgments about people you don’t know

Well I stood by someone through mental illness as well and did not leave them . But could not forgive them after they cheated. That was the bottom line for me. I don’t hold their mental illness against them but some things are a bottom line for me

I think it is pretty obvious to him that she is not alright . There have been changes in her personality since they knew each other in high school. I am aware that Wen Yifan is completely oblivious to people’s intentions around her . But it is not that hard to figure out - if you really want to you can . But in her case she is not interested - she does not need any of that right now in her life especially after what she has been through . And if you read what I have written here- I make it clear that relationships need more than just love and yes patience is one of them but communication is the other important aspect . And so is trust . The ML is doing all of this to build that but he can also see how distant she is . I am not putting down the FL here. This was just a comment about the state of their relationship/ interactions so far .