Kinara

Great let’s do that

Absolutely!

😂- those looks he gives the FL!🤣

Absolutely. I definitely don’t want to watch the same high saccharine romances with nothing interesting in them and one dimensional bland characters

Well said - this drama is more about strength of relationships and unconditional love and not giving up because of one issue

I disagree with you on that . All relationships go through ups and downs no matter how great the people in it are. According to your logic there should be a perfect world with no breakups or divorces. But that is not that case and that is because we are all dynamic and change with circumstances and incidents in our life. We all keep changing and evolving. So even with this couple just because it happened once you cannot assume that it will happen again. For the long haul in a relationship one should be ready for a lot of things but that does not mean that you should always look into the future with a negative mindset

Yeah that whole ‘toxic’ labeling. Just beats me. People just see what they want to but don’t analyze. That is the issue. If anything he cared a lot about his people. Li Xun is a very realistic portrayal of a person who has been through a lot and is very resilient in spite of everything. A very inspirational character really.

lol- absolutely! Yes the warmth and love he has for his mom and sister says a lot. Yes he was just a teen from a poor family with no dad and he was still trying to excel . Nothing dragged him down! While the others all behaved like entitled people who wanted everything handed to them on a platter with no hard work nothing. That was the beauty of this drama .

Thanks yes - rewatches are important and each time I see something more. You are right about people focusing only on one dimension/manifestation of a character- people hardly ever take the time to get deeper into it and try to analyze action/reaction or cause and effect. There is a simple dialog in this drama that Li Xun says in the beginning - about how things look initially and how they evolve later and they use it again and again in the drama. That dialog has som much meaning to it not just with the story but also with life. The depth is just amazing!

But it’s great to see that a quite a few people genuinely enjoyed this drama like we did! And I am glad they put their opinions out there

Oh yes for sure - not just for dramas but for everything. You cannot believe anything you read or see anymore

Yes they did not drag it for long - nothing dragged n that drama

Yes ep 23 is painful no matter how many times you watch it . I would say - from 22 when everything comes crashing down.

Yes being pretty is a ‘bad thing’ 😂. Even some commenters had a problem with that. How ridiculous is that !

She looked sizzling hot in all her red outfits!

Abuse of free speech is the right phrase for this mayhem

What I noticed here on the OF forum is that people make personal attacks on you rather than just stick to commenting on the drama. And I have seen this in other places on MDL as well.

Very well said. People are looking for a fluffy weightless romance and that is not what this drama is. It goes deeper into what relationships are and the characters are multidimensional. The humor is just so well done!

Hence the drama a really good study in psychology!

Yes Li Xun was pitiable- it was like life had let him down. Whenever he was trying to stand up something would drag him down. That is why you wanted to root for this guy. Because he never succumbed to it. Climbing the mountain! Some of those dialogues had such profound meaning