Kinara

Define Healthy relationship to me - when emotions come into play there is bound to be disagreements and hurts . Even LX pushing her away the way he did - some may say ot was the right thing to do - not dragging her into that hellhole he was going into. ZY understood that and that’s why she was ready to give it another shot . Yes LX is a complicated man but that couple deserved a second chance .

Yes LX never once treated Gao badly according to me - LX could not communicate but her was good to Gao. He gave him many chances. Gao had nothing to show except for jealousy- anybody else would have gotten. Rid of a friend like GAO but in spite of that LX trusted him so much that he gave him his company. Whereas Gao just put all his failures on LX- who does that? Why should LX be responsible for that. When Gao wanted to go abroad the only thing he had to show was the competition LX won for them. Really? In my view Gao used LX and then got jealous of his capability when things did not work out his way and with no contribution- you can’t have it both ways. That’s why no pity or sadness or empathy for a pathetic character like Gao. All Gao did was blame everything on LX. If he was so great why only plagiarize while running LP?

It’s a good watch -a very diffferent feel to this one but the male ther is pretty crazy too - I would say crazier than LX

No there are no maybes there. Li Xun always clashedhed against unfairness and injustice. There is a reason ZY does not telll LX about her friend. Iris because she does not want him to use that to clash with FZJ. LX saw how FZJ treated the competition, ZY and the other contestants reaction to FZJ.that is why he did that as well. And even if LX DID IT foe her so what? - she almost got kicked out of school when she clashed with that evil woman. It’s just that FZJ turned out to be someone without bottom lines. Also if not this - then Gao’s hatred would have played a different way. So dont blame Zy

There is a reason her reaction to her mom is the way it is- she has become numb and stopped caring- it’s really sad if you think about it and these are her parents

But dad never stood up for her and hit her even- after that how could she be close? She thought he was on her side but he betrayed her

Also people always think hurt can only damage you but it can actually make you stronger tough in a good way and much better equipped to handle what life throws at you. ZY is a great example . She. Never really lost herself fully. If anything she grew from that experience and was able to handle things better

And yes many smart women in real life get hitched to a guy like LX

I think Lx realizes how he squandered her trust- that’s why he asks her later multiple times- do you still trust me

That was such a complex emotional scene-both of them were amazing. LX especially - everything he was trying to convey there- jealously, sadness that he he may have lost her, anger at himself, disappointment- so much

Yes Zhu yin’s depression was due to the fact that she was not there for him at his worst time and did not understand what was going on to step up to help him. The parents played a huge role in that. There is something I noticed the second time I watched the show- ZY is very cold and detached towards her parents in the present day episodes. She does not even acknowledge her mom’s so callled kindnesss and even that closeness with her dad is gone

Yes peopl who call her weak and desperate are wrong. She is very confident about LX’s love for her and knows that only she can handle him and makes differences in His life

LX never treated Gao badly and he is not responsible for GAO’s future or success. That should be Gao himself . LX gave him may chances- so he did his part . Gao had nothing of his own to so how his ability

What’s wrong with a pushy female? Why sshould she always be docile and fragile?

Swearing on a public forum just because to
I disagree with someone’s opinion honestly is not good. Please clean up your language.

You have to understand that this is not your run of the mill romance - it’s quite intense and they’re not just sweetness - there is also hurt and breakup. So don’t expect something unrealistic and cheerful

Teenagers should not watch this show. It’s for a more mature audience for sure

Male does acknowledge in the end that she has suffered a lot because of him. So hopefully he will improve - he definitely was changing for the better

The only person you can compare to and challenge is yourself and how you can get better - you should never focus on others and their life or their intelligence. That was GAO’s fault he always wanted LX to acknowledge him but he never did anything great to show that he deserved it. Even when he wanted go abroad he had to rely on that one competition that he won because of LX. Why would you have your entire future tied up to another person?

My Lethal Man is a good one