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Meari21

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Replying to Meari21 May 27, 2025
When people hate on female characters it's immediately called misogyny but nobody calls it misandry when people…
It's a culture thing, I suppose. Perhaps these types of infantile women are more appealing to the male gaze in China or Asia. The truth is most male writers don't know how to write female characters at all. They simply lack the insight, perhaps because they don't really know women. But female writers are no better either. They tend to feminize their male characters to the point that they're unreasonably perfect and could not possibly exist in real life, only writing their dream men to fulfill their fantasies. Some of them also write female characters that are either immature and needy, or annoyingly bossy and bitchy.

The thing is, they could've followed the example of those dramas I mentioned above. A woman doesn't need to be a warrior to be powerful and strong, and she certainly doesn't need to be written to be clingy and selfish to act cute. Yes, these characters are young but people at this age were often married already in ancient times. Many of these women married as soon as they menstruated even, so an 18 or 20 year old was considered a full-grown adult already. She shouldn't be acting this way, especially after she has been through. Unfortunately, they're following the idol drama formula with the love story subplot and it's grinding my gears. lol
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Replying to Meari21 May 27, 2025
When people hate on female characters it's immediately called misogyny but nobody calls it misandry when people…
Not you directly but that has been the common response of those who defend the characterization of the FL. They dismiss these complaints by saying it’s typical for female characters to be hated on in these male-centric dramas because of misogyny. Yes, they’re hated on mainly because of the way they’re written. They don’t contribute much to the story in most of these types of dramas.
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Replying to Mariana May 27, 2025
Xiang An Tu is one of the most annoying characters ever. Girl, go find something to do instead of keep getting…
When people hate on female characters it's immediately called misogyny but nobody calls it misandry when people hate on a male character. It's just that I (and perhaps others as well) expected this drama to be beyond the typical idol drama tropes because of the way it was promoted and how it began. I wanted a partnership between the two that naturally develops into romance over time and a female lead that actually supports the male lead instead of being a hindrance. Male-centric dramas have done that before, Nirvana in Fire, Under the Microscope, and Joy of Life, just to name a few, have great female characters. So, it is possible to do. But from the get-go, this FL is just not likable and keeps on acting childish and entitled, thus many have found her to be quite the irritating troublemaker. And from a writing stand point, her redemption would have to be written in a way that would be convincing because otherwise, the eventual romance will appear forced and underdeveloped. Also, the way her character is written seems out of place in a drama of this story and caliber. I don't get why they couldn't just write a truly compelling female character that would match Zanghai.
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Replying to fyra May 26, 2025
I was just about to write about her because I completely agree with you. She's very immature and narrow minded.…
Agreed! From the first episode I knew I wasn’t going to like the female lead because she was the girl who whipped young Zhinu simply because she felt offended by his behavior. Despite being a hostage princess, she had the audacity to whip the son of an official and cause the accident of the marquis’ son and with no consequences too! I understand she was devastated and perhaps angry but that’s not an excuse to act high and mighty and be a jerk. After today’s episodes, I dislike her even more. For now, she’s not adding to the story, she’s just a nuisance. I don’t know how they’ll redeem, though.
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Replying to Baebaexin May 23, 2025
Title Legend of Zang Hai Spoiler
I don't know, to me, what you call "sheer dumb luck" I call calculative plotting, smart, precise and risky. The…
No, he saw the flowers when he approached the grave. He was about to kill Zhixing until he saw the flowers and formulated a plan right then and there. You can actually see realization dawn on his face when he saw the flowers and it stopped him from killing Zhixing because he thought of a much better plan to get him on his side. Kudos to XZ's acting as I immediately knew what he was thinking when he lowered his weapon. I gotta hand it to Zanghai, though. He thinks on his feet and that is his main strength. He's not really a master strategist like other characters in revenge stories, but he's resourceful, observant, manipulative, and one hell of a risk taker. Those traits make up a formidable but very human character.
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Replying to Baebaexin May 23, 2025
Title Legend of Zang Hai Spoiler
I don't know, to me, what you call "sheer dumb luck" I call calculative plotting, smart, precise and risky. The…
It was sheer dumb luck that he saw those poisonous flowers on the grave of Zhixing's mother and deduced that she was poisoned. That was the key that helped him convince the latter to join forces with him. If it hadn't been for those flowers, Zhixing could've outed him. The foiled assassination attempt was also by sheer dumb luck that he wasn't caught because someone was protecting him. And the tomb door closing could've ended disastrously if the timing was just a little bit off. It was luck that saved him as well. Yes, he plans and he calculates but luck is also on his side.
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On Legend of Zang Hai May 23, 2025
This may be a hot take but I actually like that they made Zanghai more vulnerable and careless than he should be because that makes him more relatable and human. Some of his triumphs were brought about by sheer dumb luck, and even though that can be considered plot armor, I actually think it adds suspense to the drama. He can't be brilliant all the time. On a lighter note, I am absolutely loving Master Gao Ming. He is the ultimate spy! He's shaping up to be my favorite character in this drama.
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Replying to RukiyaNH May 22, 2025
Viki bought the drama, so more people can watch on Viki soon, they already posted previews. I kinda wish for netflix…
It's possible because Netflix could just acquire the streaming rights for specific regions. But global rights, not so sure.
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Replying to Meari21 May 22, 2025
Title Legend of Zang Hai Spoiler
I believe she’s the one who whipped him as a kid and I’m pretty sure she’s there to create conflict. She…
If they ever fall in love later on, I will always remember that she was the one who chased him down and brandished her whip against him, and also caused the carriage of the Marquis' second son to tumble, injuring him, which led to Zanghai getting into trouble. So far she has caused him more harm than good. FLs in male-centric dramas are almost always useless or just trouble. I would've been happier if there were no female love interests or even notable female roles in these types of dramas, tbh.
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Replying to Smilealways87 May 22, 2025
Title Legend of Zang Hai Spoiler
Fl is kinda problematic till now creating problems for Zhang hai just for her own selfishness .
I believe she’s the one who whipped him as a kid and I’m pretty sure she’s there to create conflict. She endangered him twice already. She also strikes me as bratty and arrogant so the fact that she whipped Zanghai simply because he offended her makes me dislike her. Not fond of this character. Of course this might change later on but for now I think she’s just a menace.
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Replying to Meari21 May 22, 2025
This drama was promoted heavily with Xiao Zhan at the forefront, though. For months, we didn't even know who the…
People complained about the FL not getting enough screen time because of how she was promoted alongside Dylan Wang. They shouldn’t have done that and just promoted the drama as strictly male-centric because it was. It was all about Dylan’s character and the FL was practically a footnote. She didn’t even appear until ep 6 if I’m not mistaken and disappeared for several episodes.
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Replying to Meari21 May 22, 2025
This drama was promoted heavily with Xiao Zhan at the forefront, though. For months, we didn't even know who the…
It probably will. As far as I know, he plays three characters and it’s a male-centric drama. Like Legend of Zanghai, it was heavily promoted with Cheng Yi at the forefront, we also didn’t know who the other cast members were until later. Both Cheng Yi and Xiao Zhan have proven that they can carry dramas all by themselves so the rest of their cast members are just there to support. Their female leads will probably play key roles but I doubt they’ll get a lot of screen time or focus.
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Replying to MJT0915 May 22, 2025
Watched a few episodes and was a little disappointed the FL wasn't featured more. Does she get more screentime…
This drama was promoted heavily with Xiao Zhan at the forefront, though. For months, we didn't even know who the other cast members were. The poster itself only features Xiao Zhan. I guess the main role title is just a formality because there has always been a female lead in all C-dramas, but some of them don't play huge roles in fact. This happened with Dylan Wang's Guardians of the Dafeng. Their mistake was to actually promote Tian Xiwei and even feature her on the official poster when the drama was centered around Dylan Wang and she had very little screen time. I suppose this is a similar case. I'm also assuming that Cheng Yi's upcoming drama, The Journey of Legend, will be the same. I doubt Gulnezer will have a major role in it even though she's technically the female lead.
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Replying to Moonstruck May 21, 2025
I have been a Liu Yuning fan since the Long Ballad and I feel bad whenever people criticize his looks. He's very…
I honestly don’t understand why they think he’s unattractive when I can think of Chinese actors who are a lot less appealing than him.
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Replying to Alexasopretty May 21, 2025
Netflix worldwide or just certain regions? Pleaseeee, the US!
I think it’s worldwide. It’s supposed to premiere next Tuesday. You can check the upcoming shows on your Netflix.
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On The Prisoner of Beauty May 21, 2025
Thank goodness this is going to be available on Netflix. I was hesitant to renew my WeTV hoping it’ll be acquired by Netflix. I’m glad I waited.
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Replying to Meari21 May 19, 2025
Nirvana in Fire is similar, though. The main character also doesn't possess any martial arts skill and is in fact…
My argument is about the drama having a protagonist that doesn't employ martial arts skills and just uses his wits to maneuver his way through politics as atypical because I don't think it is wholly unique to have such a protagonist. Plenty of revenge-themed dramas have leads that do not have martial arts prowess, most of them are female-centric, especially after Nirvana in Fire blew up and it practically set a precedent for all the succeeding revenge-themed stories that came after. I never said that it is the same or that it follows the same narrative. Yes, all dramas have their own distinct identities, I agree with you on that. What I meant about another Nirvana in Fire is a drama that could rival it, not to say that it is going to be a clone of the former because if it is, then I wouldn't be as impressed.
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Replying to aeolys May 19, 2025
Xiao Zhan said in the interview "Legend of Zang Hai is unlike a typical revenge drama, Zhang Hai is a man with…
Nirvana in Fire is similar, though. The main character also doesn't possess any martial arts skill and is in fact dying. But he's a master strategist who relies solely on his wits and ability to manipulate people. And that is why I find this drama intriguing. I am hoping it will be another Nirvana in Fire but with a happier ending, of course.
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Replying to 13274376 May 18, 2025
This drama is basically saying that no matter how skilled a woman is, a man can still outshine her! I just don't…
That’s the reality. Men are just physically stronger. The only way a skilled female fighter can beat a man is if he’s physically weaker, he has vastly inferior fighting skills, or if she caught him off guard and used tricks to win. Realistically, she wouldn’t have been able to beat Han at all. That’s why men and women don’t compete against each other in physical sports like boxing or MMA and many people protest against transwomen competing in women sports. The women simply don’t stand a chance against men in a fair fight.
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On Lee Jun Young May 18, 2025
Person Lee Jun Young
I was introduced to Junyoung through Weak Hero so I had no idea who he was. I recently started going through his filmography and damn, he's got range! He can transition from playing the antagonist to the protagonist, from a psychopathic bastard to a complete teddy bear, just like that. Comedy, action, drama, even sexy romcom, you name it, he can do it. Not to mention he was a former idol so he can dance and sing like nobody's business. I believe he also got into musical theater at some point. And apparently, he also paints, composes music, and writes scripts?! And he seems to be one of the most polite do-gooder gentlemen out there. Seriously, is he for real?! lol
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