I could not warm up to insecure SY and yes, we see where it derived from...home. Nonetheless, I don't want Mudan…
She doesn't
If she did, she wouldn't be where she is in life
The characters is brainwashed and easily manipulated
We can't put our frame of mind thinking on her
This is where empathy comes in
Again...i implore ppl to do research on abuse women....watch their interview and struggles
I volunteered at a house to watch their child, so they can take a break and regroup. That house is an undisclosed location....to protect them from the abuser
At one point we got a swat team there....because sh*t went down and tbe abuser found 1 of the ladies
Not to mention, it is important to remember that Wan Qing lied. She did not want to take over the shop or run…
That is where empathy needs to be looked into..
Again...malice intent
She did not do it to hurt her. Is the consequences of her actions unintentionally hurt her. Yes. She was gaslighted because she is weak minded, brainwashed and easily manipulated
Sy is a weak character who is abuse all her life. She has no real autonomy.
These are facts. Not a justification of the consequences for her actions in which FL will probably address in the next episodes
She been abuse from her family all her life. As we saw at her home visit....then her husband.....
Her parent's wants to sell her off to this old man at the village
Her insecurities intensity....she feels she has no real use to the girls
The other girls have loving families....that help build them up better. Product of their better environment
She chose what is familiar...like any abuse victim who believes the abuser lies
Malice intent * doing it to cause harm on purpose
She did not have a malice intent on her actions. Was it stupid. Ofc.....but she did not want anyone hurt or harm
Many want to cut ties....so that 1 big mistake And ties should be cut?
Fl also need to learn a lesson. She is also naive and complacent. She lives in a big city. Where her ex husband found her many times....whom his parent want to kill her.
All need to reflect of themselves
I feel all of us live in glass houses
This is female centric/focus....i know fl will address it and that arch will be done. They will grow and develop the characters and level up.....the 2nd half seems to focus on a lil more politics
So in conclusion, all the tragedy in Mudan's life after her escape is because of Qin Sheng Yi 😅 from the very…
It was SY fault her abuse husbanf abuse Mudan?
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
Have you read some of these comments? I said many ...not all commenters
Have you read the comment...many are wishing her death ect....insults ect...wanting....punch her in the face...
Sounds great....lets abuse the abuse victim
I have no problem calling out her decision and actions for being stupid and dumb...she will have to reap the consequences of her recent choices....but i have empathy to understand her trauma/life condition....in which she is struggling with....and end up hurting ppl who actually do care about her
You said Stockholm syndrome
It more than that...
She refused.....sounds like victim blaming....
She is brainwashed and conditioned to it all her life. Under the thumb...abuse of her dad and then husband....
She doesn't know what happiness or a good relationship is.....for example....she thought FL ex husband is a good guy who loves her and was envious of that....
Seeing one or two people happy will not change her perspective/experience from her abuse trauma all her life....
So ppl who experience this will automatically change their mindset in a cew months and easily change?
I implore you to talk to real life ppl in these abuse relationship and they will tell you how many years it took to break the cycle...even with support
Tell a overweight person who struggle to lose weight...to just change and do this......
Or a drug addict...alcoholic
Ect.......it is not an easy thing that can be done in A couple of months...1 year...2...3....many people it took them 10 years of up and down struggles
It's not just actions.....psychologically it's a challenge or else we won't have so many "addicted" people who find these lifelong habit soo hard to break...leave...to change
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If she did, she wouldn't be where she is in life
The characters is brainwashed and easily manipulated
We can't put our frame of mind thinking on her
This is where empathy comes in
Again...i implore ppl to do research on abuse women....watch their interview and struggles
I volunteered at a house to watch their child, so they can take a break and regroup. That house is an undisclosed location....to protect them from the abuser
At one point we got a swat team there....because sh*t went down and tbe abuser found 1 of the ladies
Again...malice intent
She did not do it to hurt her. Is the consequences of her actions unintentionally hurt her. Yes. She was gaslighted because she is weak minded, brainwashed and easily manipulated
Vs.
Like the princess....that is malice intent
Operatives word is SEEMS
I've seen this in real life...
From then to 2025
These victims of these abuser....
It is not easy
Many ppl don't every escape .....some take 5 years...10 years...4 years...ect
Psychology damage don't heal easily like a bruise
Food addicts -Overweight and fat ppl can easily lose weight
Drug addicts.....ect
Again psychological of behaviors.....constant battle.
These are facts. Not a justification of the consequences for her actions in which FL will probably address in the next episodes
She been abuse from her family all her life. As we saw at her home visit....then her husband.....
Her parent's wants to sell her off to this old man at the village
Her insecurities intensity....she feels she has no real use to the girls
The other girls have loving families....that help build them up better. Product of their better environment
She chose what is familiar...like any abuse victim who believes the abuser lies
Malice intent
* doing it to cause harm on purpose
She did not have a malice intent on her actions. Was it stupid. Ofc.....but she did not want anyone hurt or harm
Many want to cut ties....so that 1 big mistake
And ties should be cut?
Fl also need to learn a lesson. She is also naive and complacent. She lives in a big city. Where her ex husband found her many times....whom his parent want to kill her.
All need to reflect of themselves
I feel all of us live in glass houses
This is female centric/focus....i know fl will address it and that arch will be done. They will grow and develop the characters and level up.....the 2nd half seems to focus on a lil more politics
But for sure it is a big lesson for all and tk me it will make them all stronger and better
Many times we need to burnike a Phoenix and rise again
Or like her peonies....when it doesn't grown and need to be revive......she needs to re-plant....change soils...make new soils...ect
Malice intent
She did not do it to cause intentional harm to her.
So ppl are only allow ro do 1 mistakes?
So the rest of us haven't done stupid things....many...multi times
I feel we are all in glass houses and shouldn't throw stones
Spoiler....next ep...those who think he just leaves her there...this shows otherwise.....
It was her fault...she held her husband leg for Mudan to escape?
It is her fault her husband want revenge
Mudan didn't ask her to come live with her....work together...bring her up...wanting to be a good human.
Its SY...mudan confide a secret about her past?
It's SY the princess attempt murder on her
In which honestly will be expose sooner or later...she lives in the capital.....her own ex husband already saw her... you think his fiancee and her parent won't see her?
Their English is soo cute
He will blow his cover making a bigger deal over a "girl"
He can ruin the bigger goal
https://youtu.be/1evokPitA20?si=9qVKt-3p91loZZ7D
Eng sub ep 23 preview trailer
https://youtu.be/d5rNP-FuUoc?si=9FGuOHqLhqhBuNvM
She did not do it in malice intent.
If she did it on purpose to cause harm because she wants to hurt FL.....i would say don't forgive her.
I implore ppl to volunteer at a women shelter of the abuse to understand to have empathy for their plight.
Yes she needs to take responsibility for her actions.....
You can have empathy/sympathy and still call oit their bad actions
How is it helping anyone to stomp on her even more when she is down
So we shouldn't try to help people who care abuse and weak?
Have you read the comment...many are wishing her death ect....insults ect...wanting....punch her in the face...
Sounds great....lets abuse the abuse victim
I have no problem calling out her decision and actions for being stupid and dumb...she will have to reap the consequences of her recent choices....but i have empathy to understand her trauma/life condition....in which she is struggling with....and end up hurting ppl who actually do care about her
You said Stockholm syndrome
It more than that...
She refused.....sounds like victim blaming....
She is brainwashed and conditioned to it all her life. Under the thumb...abuse of her dad and then husband....
She doesn't know what happiness or a good relationship is.....for example....she thought FL ex husband is a good guy who loves her and was envious of that....
Seeing one or two people happy will not change her perspective/experience from her abuse trauma all her life....
So ppl who experience this will automatically change their mindset in a cew months and easily change?
I implore you to talk to real life ppl in these abuse relationship and they will tell you how many years it took to break the cycle...even with support
Tell a overweight person who struggle to lose weight...to just change and do this......
Or a drug addict...alcoholic
Ect.......it is not an easy thing that can be done in A couple of months...1 year...2...3....many people it took them 10 years of up and down struggles
It's not just actions.....psychologically it's a challenge or else we won't have so many "addicted" people who find these lifelong habit soo hard to break...leave...to change
What worse is they kiss in Western counter part