I don't think its out of desire for a man, but feeling like she has a place and matters. She doesn't matter to…
I dunno the characters age...
But she been trained that way all her life
She is suppose to change over a very short amount of time
Fl assures her ....yes.....but this women has been trained and conditioned how she is....weak and insecure......she probably thought she can't do any better and is a burden to FL
Look at her at home...look at her life during marriage
Do ppl here....mostly women..? Don't have compassion and empathy?
You can disagree and point out her fault w/0 degrading/insulting the characters even more
In real like 2025....there are lots of women like her....similar to an addict
Does 1 get their life together in a couple months...after being conditioned to be that way pretty much their whole…
As a 3rd person viewing it....it is easy to say.....urg that is soo stupid...ect...
I'm currently my friend "support " in her process of a toxic relationships.
It is easybto say....urg....why can't you get it already....just do it....
My mindset is different.....now....but i was also in a long toxic relationship before i learn and realize it
But for my friend, she us conditioned that way. She grew up in a toxic environment. See that these toxic relationships are the norm ...she never saw what healthy mature relationship is like.
I.e.
Her to FL about her Ex
Along that line
"Your so lucky, you have a person who love you and care for you...."
She didn’t understand that is not "love and care"
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1. Asian country has rules on no kissing with minors
2. Western culture doesn't
Where is all the outrage in the Western counter part?
Can we have these outrage be universal and consistent
Also more outrage of women sexualizing minor... male idols/actors
There was this chinese drama FL was older and ML 17....
But she been trained that way all her life
She is suppose to change over a very short amount of time
Fl assures her ....yes.....but this women has been trained and conditioned how she is....weak and insecure......she probably thought she can't do any better and is a burden to FL
Look at her at home...look at her life during marriage
Do ppl here....mostly women..? Don't have compassion and empathy?
You can disagree and point out her fault w/0 degrading/insulting the characters even
more
In real like 2025....there are lots of women like her....similar to an addict
Also, he help her plenty and never claim she owes him......beside the money since they are in business
While in western culture. It don't seem to matter as much
These women are already kicked down and stomp on.
Even before she went home, i knew she came from that environment.
I don't the character's age...
But she has been abuse all her life and don't know anything else...abuse from home to husband
Ppl expect her to change within a year when she was broken down her whole life (say she 20)
20 year of abuse since childhood to adult
But she get 1 yr out of it and magically she will change right away
Rarely has that happen
Still happens currently in 2025
Many abuse women in shelter goes back and forth
B4 they break the cycle
Like a phoenix.....she shall rise from thr ashes stronger....learning a lesson....growth and level up
They killed her "sister"
Do tell...what is the other way during that period?
Be like her friend that stayed in an abuse relationship and be abuse?
Do tell what is the other option and what she should have done?
She hurt nor harm anyone
She never harm those people.
They intented harm and murder
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No eng translation
So Shenyi was locked in the room and broke out.....but it seem Mudan was at the court and sentence?
I'm currently my friend "support " in her process of a toxic relationships.
It is easybto say....urg....why can't you get it already....just do it....
My mindset is different.....now....but i was also in a long toxic relationship before i learn and realize it
But for my friend, she us conditioned that way. She grew up in a toxic environment. See that these toxic relationships are the norm ...she never saw what healthy mature relationship is like.
I.e.
Her to FL about her Ex
Along that line
"Your so lucky, you have a
person who
love you and care for you...."
She didn’t understand that is not "love and care"
Habits /insecurities are a constant daily battle for l of us
If it is soo easily....we can all change our habits and how we are conditioned in our environment.
If it is easily to do in a couple of months....more people would suceed from their toxic relationships with ppl, food, drugs,.....ect