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He directed 2 drama directly deals with mental health issues.

Borderline personally, trauma, autism.... Ect....

So I expect more with ppl healing and growth.... In here

. Pyscho but OK had great scenes about the patients.... Their journey... Failures.... Many failures. Small and big success.... The only thing I didn't like is that there wasn't a good enough FL growth. I needed and wanted more. The actor that played the autistic brother was amazing. It also shows the other side.. Family & caregiver

I been in many of the situations when they shut down and I wait them out. They taught me soo much patient... Understanding, better empathy ect

Shin Woo Park

Park Shin Woo
Name: Park Shin Woo
Native name: 박신우
Also Known as: Park Sin Woo;Park Sin U
Nationality: South Korean
Gender: Male

Director
Title Rating
Lovestruck in the City 7.9
It's Okay to Not Be Okay 9.1
Encounter 8.1
Jealousy Incarnate 8.2
Hyde, Jekyll, Me 7.4

To me time isn't the issue. It's the person /situation

I have 1 friend who likes to talk to me and discuss everything.

Another friend is more limited on what they will tell me. I wait and let them do it on their own time.

It is base on the person mental capacity.... Environment.

EO is trying to be someone else...

They only "played" and had a good time.... Nothing was talked about or discussed

A crazy series is Thai series. CLUB Friday. It is base on a true story of phone calls into the radio about their story.

Some story is crazy. Some are endearing....

But they explore the most deplorable human behaviors.... It short eps. Some are soo F up... Hahaha

1 story stuck to me is this couple who been there forever.... He met someone more exciting and cheated. He left her for the other 1....he later on regrets it when he see that the fun isn't what makes a relationship and what he took for granted.... At the end everyone is alone and miserable....

She said... Have you. Thought of going somewhere and killing yourself.....(she was on her roof top)

I should kill myself.... That is thought of suicides..

I don't matter the exact phrasing

Those thought doesn't ever really go away when you. Have thought it it b4..... It resurface.

I feel you are putting it lightly. It don't matter how you. Say it... Or when

Tell that to those going through with things... Who thought and attempt suicide that it is different.

I worry for ppl you. Know who said it... Would you. Be like... It wasn't phrase right.... They are not serious... It was a year ago....

So many ppl commit suicide and many ppl around them didn't know.... Since they haven't said anything in awhile

The point is. She is she has mental health issues and they mention killing one self... Hating one self...

I don't believe the drama will address.... I would like or hope they give them self healing.... Love yourself first. For all the characters

I can link you. Many documentary.... Links... Books... On ppl who struggle with this.

Kevin Hines... Cracked not broken... Great book. Great speaker

I recommended this to my friends who had friends that committed suicide. None of them knew their struggle or why. He seems so happy... I. E. Robin Williams.... Ect

For me... They need to heal themselves.....meet at the end in yang yang rebooted and fresh... Open ending lol

I disagree.... It shows mental health.... But I know they are not focusing on that and won't do more.

I have mentioned b4... They gloss it but won't do more and I hope the writer do more in showing healing and growth . I repeated it many times & didn't elaborate



I want to kill myself

SY... There is help out there

My statement is what I would like to see from the characters and felt it is what they need

I will wait to see how they pan out

I will still see It as an unstable person. Who seek love and want...and needs help

Push and pull in relationships in drama... Is what I avoid

Love triangles...

Bridgeton.... I understand the ML and disagree with the FL for pushing her ideals on him. When he didn't want it and wasn't ready. He. Had trauma he didn't work out. Horrible communications... They never discuss or talk before.. During or after... ..they rushed it at the end like (most) every historical romance books... As in cliche... Series... Movie...

Emphasized with both. But all have self responsibility for their actions

I hope he doesn't....she told him. Why at breakfast. It not her. He don't know EO.

Yes.... Emotions guide...

Always easier said than done

They don't know each other. She said to him, you don't know EO. Her personality ect.

None of the characters communicate well. RI said she don't want kids.... That she told him. What about his wants?

Ryu... He never talked about his friends that are girls.. Any one (gf) will feel "threaten" by it. SY doesn't express that. She was like me or them....

It's hard and scary to be fully honest and straight.....

I get it....majority of ppl will ommit, lie... Or half truths....

Hahaha....

I feel they need to just discover themselves alone.

Girl needs help and she is not ready for it. She runs and hide all the time. She takes that bus route all the time.

He needs to let go and heal.

Alone

She needs to learn to love herself and heal.

Alone

Since they address suicide.... They need to address the character healing.

He needs to step back and work on himself.

She needs to heal on her own.... Not because of someone else.

Reboot alone....

Take it from there.... They want a HEA... They need to address that... Time jump whatever...

But they don't seem to fully flesh things out

Unfortunately in real life....

Ppl communications suck.... Real good functional communications.

Many times they hold back and don't honestly speak...ask the right questions... Express the true want or needs...

SY just wanted confirmation she is loved.... She gives him. An ultimatum....

I get it.... It's scary...

Many ppl need to hit rock bottom.

So what works for you needs to work for others?

That is kind of narrow minded in thinking.

Many can reboot with out drowning... Many can't... Many need that push... That catalyst... Many do it on their own

One size don't fit all.

Many ppl had to almost died before they changed.

Intervention.... That show.... We saw many ppl relapse because they are not mentally prepared.

Some ppl are just watching it for pure entertainment.
Many know in real life these drama and senario is not ideal.

Why else do ppl watch.... These soap opera is an exaggeration.

Majority of soap opera is like that... Crazy characters and scenarios.

Most ppl can distinguish the fantasy of it and it just pure entertainment and recognition of those toxic behaviors.

The drama isn't over.....

I'm. Hoping for self love and healing.... Alone....

Yes many ppl can be stuck there forever....

Yes... Love can makes ppl crazy.... Like a drunk person... Who is unreasonable... Irrational... Emotional.. Impulsive... Ect...

We have all probably experienced that at one point in our life. Many ppl will grow from it.... Many won't...

It is a variation.... One size don't fit all


I'm. Saying. THEY in general sense.

Many ppl need that push... Either hit rock bottom... Or get push by someone

I. E. I get drunk... Puke... Worse feeling ever and won't do it again


My bro.. Same situation... Say he won't do it again and still does.

We both have different type of mentality....

He seeks help for his mental health issue and tell the world

I seek help but don't tell ppl.

I'm. Not here to agree or disagree. I understand everything you. Have said. I'm. Here to giva different take like you

I'm. Speaking on/for the other side. A broader spectrum.

What I mean is many of what you. Said.... I have said in some sense or form. Nothing wrong with either sprectrum but things are never that cut and dry. Easier said then done.
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I put myself in other ppl shoes.... Characters shoes.

I don't have to agree with their actions to emphasize.

I have not really disagree with you. Or the other commentor.

I give the opposite take on things.

I work in the mental health fields and see these type of behaviors and struggles everyday.

I don't agree but understand why.

I see this in a shade of Grey.

I have not defended the actions... But offer a take... Explanations and relatable scenarios.

I have said many times it is unhealthy behaviors. All the characters has it.

But believe that ppl can progress in growth.... And yes many don't. They need to be able to face it.

I have said consistently. EO who has BPD and thought of suicide.. Needs to find self love and heal herself alone.

The ppl in this forum have mentions the unhealthy behaviors...

I don't see many comments romanticism it.

Them drowning is part of it....

Ppl don't always have the mental capacity to deal... Some ppl have better copinand mental capacity then others.

Sometime people Need to drown....

Like a computer. We need to reboot... Reset and reprogram...
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Girl wanted to kill herself.... That Is life long battle

Why do ppl need to do this and that according to other ppl time line... Or ppl expectations..... There is no time limit of how and when they should do it.... It always depends on the person

Many ppl need to drown... Fall and learn

I didn't say you. Said this or that

I reiterated in aggrement.
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Lol

I'm. Extended on my position

Read both our messages.... It is not very different

Lots of points are the same

That what happens when we assume.... I have been consistent with what I have said in this forum.

I have address these subjects soo many times.

The subject was these characters in this series.... Therefore I spoke of that....

But I have address all aspect many times.

I however have stressed and pushed that.. people are not forever stucked there...

I talked about all of these many time in the forum and addressed mental health... I provided medical journals address that... And many time talked about self responsibility regardingless

It is true for some.

I don't see many people romantising it here.

Some Ppl are empathetic

I see ppl bashing them more than anything.

I have said so a million times. They are all responsible for their actions regardless...

So stress growth and that people are not stucked.

This series is a bunch of flawed humans just trying to navigate through it... With bad & good choices...

If they have the mental capacity.... To accept the fear... Hate... Love.. To have growth change

Many ppl can do it alone... Many ppl need help

Their behaviors is part of their flaws.... They are not stucked there

It is doing well on Netflix

I would like the writer.... To have them heal alone and learn self love

Reset and reboot on their own

I would feel the same way. I have expressed many times... Said the same thing

I emphasize but don't sumpahtize....

Both have self responsibility and need to work on themselves alone

Yes.... Love is not 1 type of way

Their good and bad... What we consider healthy... Unhealthy

Some ppl really suck at it and hopefully they learn.

Againwe are not stuck there forever. Also... Maturity and experiences isn't determine by age

My point is they are all immature and seems to be inexperience at it.

I see ppl talk about how it should be like this and that.

There is many different way..


I'm. Talking about the relationship here....

We are expect or think adult be mature and reasonable

There is many types of love. I'm addressing their love....

I generally speaking that love makes ppl crazy and unreasonable

Again I have always said the same thing over and over.

I addressed what is unhealthy and healthy.

Ppl are not stuck there.

They (people can) Learn through good and bad experiences.

The fact that they are adult doesn't mean they are mature and reasonable.

I have said soo many times... I'm. Done repeating the same thing I have said about mental health... Healhty relationships... Ect.