Sorry to say I think you are just overreacting.You like the drama praise it,enjoy it,don't call others dumb and…
I see nothing wrong with ppl critizing this & not liking it.
But a constant..repeated comments are a bit much. Why linger ? Saying the same complaint. Don't like it....state it & go spend time on a drama forum you like.
In run on. I didn't like some of Dan's actions. Stated 1 x & maybe comment another time. That's it. I didnt judge the character. I empathize but didn't like certain actions. I wished for more growth to see..
I would not judge anyone. Everything is soo easy for ppl not in that position. Love has done crazy things to ppl.…
They are interchangeable.
Saying it's a unhealthy relationship. They shouldn't be together....sure....i get it. But I'm giving another perspective. Because the drama address the reason.
Also she is not responsible for how he reacts and feel. She is the catalyst. No matt3r how she handled it.
He would have done the same. That is hoe he cope. Not her fault.
But i have read the same complaint soo many times and havr to rebuttal a few things.
Are you responsible for every break up? For their emotions and how they hurt? You never lied? You never did stupid things?
Yes. She has mental health issues...trauma. sh3 talked about killing herself. I have addresed this
These behaviors are unhealthy.
But people are NOT stuck in the behaviors. People can ans have characters growth.
I want their growth individually. To do some on their own.
I never said if they should or shouldn't be together .
I also have said she needs to learn to love herself and seek therapy. That if the writer didn't do so...it will be unjust
I would not judge anyone. Everything is soo easy for ppl not in that position. Love has done crazy things to ppl.…
She wasn't contiously lying through out the relationship.
She was that personality at that moment. He never asked her what. They never discuss anything . They never talked and discussed anything. Is lying ok. No. She didn't linger. Broke it off, not the best way but she did. She lied ...broked it up and kept on her lie. She told him no. With her words and actions.
She is fighting her own battle. She is thinking of killing herself.
He is responsible for his actions. Is she a catalyst. Sure but she did not make him do anything. He chose to grieve that way. She told him it was over. Made herself the villain.
I'm just talking about th3 characterization. You're opinions/assement is yours....but i have counter on it.
Are you responsible for every break up? For their emotions and how they hurt? You never lied? You never did stupid things?
She should not be blamed for everything. She has blame .....he be there way regardless of a break up.
Say a person likes you. You rejected them. He is a drunk cuz he had bad coping skills/ habit.
Are you responsible for that action?
To me you're not. You're catalyst.
I find these toxic comments narrow minded. Sy is toxic too...hit ppl...yell at ppl...obsessive...she is also an alcoholic... But you dont say a word. Bias ...?
Again for the millionth time. I or no1...said it wasn't unhealthy. Everyone has said and mentioned it. But they are open to the explanation and ppl being able to have growth. You seem stuck on this and condemnation that they cant change.
Ppl are not stuck in these behaviors. They can grow. But you are stuck on it and keep saying the same thing. Only criticism & complaints about the same thing ...ov3r and over. ...
I don't expect everyone to like it...it don't matter to me...it's the constant nonstop rehash of the same thing...soo toxic...so healthy. You habe commented that for like 50x already. Ok we got it. No1 has rebuttal that....but other has put more emphaty into it.
I have not disagree wirh your stated. I added extra to it with emphaty and rationale more of the situations and certain aspects
I will always be done responding. Again beating a dead horse
There is lots of funny moments and content that i see....
I hope they address this more and show characters growth & development. It would be a shame/disservice not to. Since they had EO talking about suicide and SY telling people there is help.
With this aside. There is lots of funny moments...interactions....
Our loved ones can be ignorant of our trauma as they have never experienced it. Their well-meaning advice can hurt us which then adds to our trauma. Lack of knowledge and awareness is, unfortunately, an abuse survivor's enemy in a time when they need love and support the most. Education in regards to abuse and the impact it has is crucial if we are to ever get to a place where survivors are heard and understood.
They told me I was weak and pathetic and to just get over it. There is nothing weak or pathetic about me. You don’t just get over it, but you do rise above the abuse and the ignorance displayed by those that have opinions on something they know nothing about.
The frontal cortex (judgment part)of our Brain.....doesn't fully developed until we are at least 25/26
These are sides...and we only get a snippet. But they all have toxic behaviors/ moments.
I'm not comparing who's has toxic/unhealthy behaviors.
I'm pointing out they all do. I will not mentioned EO or JW since it been discussed many times
SY - she's commenter favorite....hasn't really been called out on her toxic behaviors
-yelling/ screaming - not a good functional communication - getting drunk & beating ppl up - she beats up her ex while sober. (Her way/want or nothing at all - she is just as selfish as anyone else) . She did not seek to understand his reasoning for his female friends....ok sure...she's not ok with it. Not ok to force something upon someone. Then she accuse and stalks them. -pretending (an escape) -1 night stands -obsessive
These are toxic behaviors & is not ok
Ri - being salty of a 7-8 years break up & cause issues to his new one. It happened a long time ago & that was petty/childish . -Her game of calling him on her blind dates....to come rate them...
She has not been fully open/honest with her bf about her experiences
Cgj - clingy.....obsessive....very dependent on his gf. ( yup these 2 are diff. Related)
RY- lack functional communication -avoidance ....actually he hasn't displayed anything too crazy yet.
EO -needs help/ therapy. She didn't handle it in the best way....but she did not do things to string him. It was not a back & forth relationship..they did not break up & get back together multiple times. There was no fights for the 100x. . The camera was nothing. He linger/ fixated regardless . JW coping skill isn't the best ..but is common. He is stucked in his stages of grief....ppl linger in different part of the stages.
Fighting & working out your feelings/ emotions is good for you. Don't be a shaken coke bottle ready to explode because it was bottled up
None of these characters is stuck there....they can have characters growth
I point those out...but it is not a judgment or criticism.
I said a thousand times. Call ppl out on their BS. Then provide tools and support.
I have always tell my clients what they did was not ok. Don't matter why....but here are tools to use and how you can do better next time. Also the word sorry hold less value when it is done again. The best apology is a changed behavior.
Human growth &development.....successful when ppl seek it...use the tools....but 1st is the acceptance & willingness to face the truth & fears
Sometimes you figure it out on your own....many times it is when ppl challenges you & push to....therapy can help push you...
Forced therapy doesn't work....the person needs to be mentally ready....
i'm trying so hard to start this because i adore the cast, but this is my third attempt at episode 1 and i just…
I would try about 3 eps. -5 ep for all dramas ...more depending on length.
Ep 2 ans forward has less of a documentary/ interview
Ep1 is a basis of introduction to all drama....i see many ppl always say that with the 1st.....if it dont click by then...i drop it....but don't bother if it is too much for you to try.....no biggy
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Ppl are not dumb. Not everyone will like it.
It is doing well in ratings on Netflix
It gives you joy. That's all that matters
But a constant..repeated comments are a bit much. Why linger ? Saying the same complaint. Don't like it....state it & go spend time on a drama forum you like.
In run on. I didn't like some of Dan's actions. Stated 1 x & maybe comment another time. That's it. I didnt judge the character. I empathize but didn't like certain actions. I wished for more growth to see..
EO needs therapy.
I'm glad they had
Sy saying there is help (for youth)
If they will throw that in... then...they should show the healing/ character growth
Saying it's a unhealthy relationship. They shouldn't be together....sure....i get it. But I'm giving another perspective. Because the drama address the reason.
Also she is not responsible for how he reacts and feel. She is the catalyst. No matt3r how she handled it.
He would have done the same. That is hoe he cope. Not her fault.
But i have read the same complaint soo many times and havr to rebuttal a few things.
Are you responsible for every break up? For their emotions and how they hurt? You never lied? You never did stupid things?
Yes. She has mental health issues...trauma. sh3 talked about killing herself. I have addresed this
These behaviors are unhealthy.
But people are NOT stuck in the behaviors. People can ans have characters growth.
I want their growth individually. To do some on their own.
I never said if they should or shouldn't be together .
I also have said she needs to learn to love herself and seek therapy. That if the writer didn't do so...it will be unjust
She was that personality at that moment.
He never asked her what. They never discuss anything . They never talked and discussed anything. Is lying ok. No. She didn't linger. Broke it off, not the best way but she did. She lied ...broked it up and kept on her lie. She told him no. With her words and actions.
She is fighting her own battle. She is thinking of killing herself.
He is responsible for his actions. Is she a catalyst. Sure but she did not make him do anything. He chose to grieve that way. She told him it was over. Made herself the villain.
I'm just talking about th3 characterization. You're opinions/assement is yours....but i have counter on it.
Are you responsible for every break up? For their emotions and how they hurt? You never lied? You never did stupid things?
She should not be blamed for everything. She has blame .....he be there way regardless of a break up.
Say a person likes you. You rejected them. He is a drunk cuz he had bad coping skills/ habit.
Are you responsible for that action?
To me you're not. You're catalyst.
I find these toxic comments narrow minded. Sy is toxic too...hit ppl...yell at ppl...obsessive...she is also an alcoholic...
But you dont say a word. Bias ...?
Again for the millionth time. I or no1...said it wasn't unhealthy. Everyone has said and mentioned it. But they are open to the explanation and ppl being able to have growth. You seem stuck on this and condemnation that they cant change.
Ppl are not stuck in these behaviors. They can grow. But you are stuck on it and keep saying the same thing. Only criticism & complaints about the same thing ...ov3r and over. ...
I don't expect everyone to like it...it don't matter to me...it's the constant nonstop rehash of the same thing...soo toxic...so healthy. You habe commented that for like 50x already. Ok we got it. No1 has rebuttal that....but other has put more emphaty into it.
I have not disagree wirh your stated. I added extra to it with emphaty and rationale more of the situations and certain aspects
I will always be done responding. Again beating a dead horse
There is lots of funny moments and content that i see....
I always feel it is a 50/50 chance....rating...reviews/ comments are a base....it won't determine how we react to it while watching......
I feel things usually drag by the 3rd quarter
I enjoy it...many ppl enjoys it.
I find there is lots of funny moments.
I find try at least 4 ep....it will either click or it doesn't.
I tried many drama with rave comments and didn't enjoy it....always a 50/50 chance right....
The reason why I hide myself away when my anxiety rears its ugly head is this;
I don’t want to drain other people’s energy and happiness.
I don’t want to be a burden it fills me with guilt.
I don’t want to have to try and explain for the millionth time I can’t help how I feel.
And, I don’t want to hear yet again, ‘Isn’t it time you got over this’?
I'm fragile, so fragile and it seems to me that very few understand that I am hanging on by a thread and that one wrong move will snap that thread and I will come tumbling down in one huge messy heap.
~ Kate Masters
© Kate Masters Writer
#tragedy #strength #grace #growth #survivor #domesticviolence #ptsd #katemasterswriter
I hope they address this more and show characters growth & development. It would be a shame/disservice not to. Since they had EO talking about suicide and SY telling people there is help.
With this aside. There is lots of funny moments...interactions....
Their well-meaning advice can hurt us which then adds to our trauma.
Lack of knowledge and awareness is, unfortunately, an abuse survivor's enemy in a time when they need love and support the most.
Education in regards to abuse and the impact it has is crucial if we are to ever get to a place where survivors are heard and understood.
They told me I was weak and pathetic and to just get over it.
There is nothing weak or pathetic about me.
You don’t just get over it, but you do rise above the abuse and the ignorance displayed by those that have opinions on something they know nothing about.
Conquer your demons within one at a time.
It’s not a race.
It’s your journey at your own pace.
~ Kate Masters
© Kate Masters Writer
#tragedy #strength #grace #growth #survivor #domesticviolence #ptsd #katemasterswriter
They had EO saying she thought of killing herself...then SY mentioning there is help.
The writers will do it unjust not to address Mental health issues (since they brought it up) and not give the examples of growth and tools to be used
There is some improvement/ growth
These are sides...and we only get a snippet. But they all have toxic behaviors/ moments.
I'm not comparing who's has toxic/unhealthy behaviors.
I'm pointing out they all do. I will not mentioned EO or JW since it been discussed many times
SY - she's commenter favorite....hasn't really been called out on her toxic behaviors
-yelling/ screaming - not a good functional communication
- getting drunk & beating ppl up
- she beats up her ex while sober. (Her way/want or nothing at all - she is just as selfish as anyone else) . She did not seek to understand his reasoning for his female friends....ok sure...she's not ok with it. Not ok to force something upon someone. Then she accuse and stalks them.
-pretending (an escape)
-1 night stands
-obsessive
These are toxic behaviors & is not ok
Ri - being salty of a 7-8 years break up & cause issues to his new one. It happened a long time ago & that was petty/childish .
-Her game of calling him on her blind dates....to come rate them...
She has not been fully open/honest with her bf about her experiences
Cgj - clingy.....obsessive....very dependent on his gf. ( yup these 2 are diff. Related)
RY- lack functional communication
-avoidance ....actually he hasn't displayed anything too crazy yet.
EO -needs help/ therapy. She didn't handle it in the best way....but she did not do things to string him. It was not a back & forth relationship..they did not break up & get back together multiple times. There was no fights for the 100x. . The camera was nothing. He linger/ fixated regardless . JW coping skill isn't the best ..but is common. He is stucked in his stages of grief....ppl linger in different part of the stages.
Fighting & working out your feelings/ emotions is good for you. Don't be a shaken coke bottle ready to explode because it was bottled up
None of these characters is stuck there....they can have characters growth
I point those out...but it is not a judgment or criticism.
I said a thousand times. Call ppl out on their BS. Then provide tools and support.
I have always tell my clients what they did was not ok. Don't matter why....but here are tools to use and how you can do better next time. Also the word sorry hold less value when it is done again. The best apology is a changed behavior.
Human growth &development.....successful when ppl seek it...use the tools....but 1st is the acceptance & willingness to face the truth & fears
Sometimes you figure it out on your own....many times it is when ppl challenges you & push to....therapy can help push you...
Forced therapy doesn't work....the person needs to be mentally ready....
Which i hope the writers do.
Well see...KG said multiple times he see both girls as his bro.
6 ep left....they need to flesh things out....I wouldn't want a rushed interactions.
My point to many ppl is ...we are not suck in toxis behaviors.....we can all learn and grow
She didn’t meet because of his cousin.
How can she run away and avoid when he can find her.....
Girl disappeared for 3 months and no1 knew where....she jad thoughts of suicide
She is friendly and flirty with everyone.
Any romance can go wrong.
There is always some kind of issues we don't see.....there is toxic moments in all.
Again... I'm beating a dead horse.
I have said many times....
Unhealthy behaviors and physical abuse is not a good behavior.
As a human Being...it is nice to have compassion for ppl.
They are not stuck in that toxic behaviors.
I have always address that. In majority of my comments
Call ppl out on BS. Give them tools. Don't be soo judgment.
Those in glass houses....shouldn't throw stones
Read my comments. I have address that many time.
Again. Ppl can come out being in toxic environments and growth. We are not stuck there.
None of my comments has ever excuse any of thr behaviors.
What's wrong with seeking /having emphaty?
Why is it that they are just stuck in these behaviors? Ppl are.not stuck in these behaviors. Many have growth
Ep 2 ans forward has less of a documentary/ interview
Ep1 is a basis of introduction to all drama....i see many ppl always say that with the 1st.....if it dont click by then...i drop it....but don't bother if it is too much for you to try.....no biggy