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I can understand she does it but it is still wrong for the SML. She has no feelings for him. She will just use him and hurt him.

It i s not so complicated to start a relationship. Things turned sour and are not smooth between ML and FL because of their own flaws and cowardice. They won't stand for the feelings they have. Instead they are making the other one doubtful when they both are in a philosophy of life to just protect themselves. I believe this is why it is so complicated between them and this is why they should not end together until they change personally their approach of life and of people.

There is a bad perception and some cowardice involved. ML is afraid he would be judged and mistreated but the status he has now is not his real status. He does not come from a wealthy family and things where not always easy in his life. He would rather choose to be comfortable with his image he is building to look average. But it is human from him. He will be able to correct himself probably.

But the FL, her own status and class in an excuse to do wrong. What she does to ML and SML acting on impulses is pretty lame. She knows she hurt the ML and what she does to SML will hurt him too.

That does not justify that she went to the SML and accepted him as her boyfriend. She did that because she is selfish. She would date for a total wrong reason just to feel valued and secured.

She already accepted the SML as her boyfriend. I don"t see her backtracking. I would hate to see her do that. People should not accept to be bf gf as a game. She is bad to have her heart in one place and to act in another place. Her own trauma and issues do not justify that. Anyone with a normal brain would know it is dishonest.

Despite his flaws Sang Soo looks more sincere and honest to me. His hesitation is more acceptable. I only regret he does not voice himself and do not act strong enough to show his affection.

Regarding the FL it is understandable that she has her own insecurities and issues in her personal life and at her job and she can't draw a line or accept her own feelings for someone who his nice to her and tries to show his sincerity to her. The way she treats him is harsh and selfish as she only judges and takes decision based on the infos and signals she receives without confirming the facts and reality.

What I hate most from her is that in this situation, she does not clarify anything but she goes to another man and accepts him as her boyfriend just for her to be "safe". This is very lousy from her part and disrecpectful for ML and SML. Now are these two going to date in the face of ML? ML and FL cannot end together because at this stage of their personal situation, they are not compatible. It would only be a toxic relationship full of reproaches.

For me SFL is a conniving weasel and a manipulator. That scene at the wedding with the other woman and what she did was made to force Sang Su to make a move. I have to say she has a great talent in making people like her and take her side even if sometimes it looks not sincere.

SML looks pretty bland and a younger brother of FL to me but ok, she decided she would see him like a man now. FL thinks she and SML have a same status and the will grow and improve together as a couple. Why not.But she 'd better not be wishy washy and start swinging between the two men. I would hate her even more.

Let's be honest. SML did not force her. She did not make things clear with ML before saying yes to SML. So everything is on her.

I can't imagine the ML and FL together anymore. She said yes to another man when ML was trying to court her. That is end of story. It does not matter they kiss or hold hands or have sex... She accepted him in her heart. Millions of fishes in the sea. Go find one who will see you and love you for who you are.

Honestly as a man, I don't mind all the guys a girl had before meeting me but a girl who chooses another guy when I was trying to woo her... Bruh... Canceled.

FL is bad. She did not sort out her feelings and situation with ML still she accepted another man as her bf. This is the doing of stupid fickle girls.

Well she said to the other guy: "Yes you be my boyfriend..."

They'd better not end together. They have nothing to do together so far. But if they sleep together it is ok.

Despite his good intentions, game over for him. She chose the other guy.

I agree with you. So I do not really see what they are doing to develop until ep16... Cheating? Yeah! Bring it on!

That exactly means she does not love him. It would not be such a headache if she really loved him. ML did not say something painful. She listened half of what he said and only took the part she wanted. She had all the time necessaryafterwards to confront him about it but she wanted to keep the part which suits her.

Remember she said yes to another man to be her bf. This is a not a joke move. This has a meaning. It means, any other man does not exist anymore. But for her, she agreed when she did nto make sure of this. She is bad and she is going to create a lot of problems.

I do not know if they will date, hold hands, kiss, or bed together but the fact that she said yes to him as her boyfriend. It means she accepted him totally. And if you are the ML, you cannot accept a girl who accepted another guy when you were trying to show her your love and sincerity.

She can have the reason she wants, it is still disgusting. Millions of fishes in the sea. Better not stick with that kind of girl.

Exactly the contrary. If she really liked him, she would not want him to be something else but himself. She is just not happy with him and his behavior when she is very fine with the SML's bahavior towards her. She does not like him. This is why she always find a problem related to him.

Super spoiler if you did not watch ep5...






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She said yes to him as her boyfriend.

I agree love is about timing too. But she said yes to the SML when she did not sort her feelings and situation with ML. This is super wrong. SML can break up or she can have a change of heart, she said yes . ML should never accept such a messed up fickle woman.

It was not her first time being reckless and hot headed. When she saw him in the street backpeddling and she left it was the same thing. She only wants to believe what she wants to believe.

Because she is bad. She has not sorted her feelings and situation with the ML. A few days before she was asking ML to meet at evening time. And now she agreed to have SML as boyfriend. She is dishonest towards herself and both men. Unless this is another stunt from the writer...

Love is not a matter of reason. It is a matter of the heart. She just does not love the ML because if she did, she would not care about the SFL. She would not be so harsh with ML and she would not project all her insecurities and failures and issues on him. She does not even care to hear his words she judges him drastically based on what she wants to see and what she wants to hear.

A relationship does not need to be so complicated. It should be all natural. Just like her and SML. And you are right he is a safe haven for her. Hope she will stick at her choice because girls who swings between different men, men call them sluts. No matter what reasons they have to do it.

If cheating ensues, it will be fun to watch.