Probably NDS won't have the time to mend things with Dal Mi. It is also very unlikely Dal Mi will be so fickle…
Between the two of them...
When Dal Mi asked the truth from HJP at the place of the bird house, she was only interested by the explanation regarding Do San and his involvement. And she burst in anger only because she could not know now if Do San's feelings are real or not.
She did not bother to ask anything more detailed about HJP's involvement: why, how, what, how come, what happened, what if ... these letters were so important to her and the writer was in front of her. But she did not ask anything about him HJP. Because she could not care less about him and she just left him in the middle of the street.
So HJP obviously has almost no chance: 0.01% (in case a meteor falls on NDS' s head) and per deduction NDS has 99.99%.
After the Time jump, it is 50-50 for me but since HJP has enjoyed a huge popular support and NDS and Dal Mi's story is the most painful for Dal Mi and he went away for 3 years... I grant HJP with +10%. and -10% for NDS.
Good nugget but why the Do San's part tastes so sour? I don't think Do San will become a "bad" person. He was…
You will be surprised to know that working abroad with foreigners especially different foreigners actually makes you more aware of yourself, more open minded and better understanding of people.
In Jae's step dad kind of manipulated her and wants to show he is the one who decided and will decide her destiny.…
Do San is right. In Jae has an emotional insecured side that she wants to hide. When Dal Mi caught her stealing her story, In Jae said sorry but she needed to elude the situation with an half baked justification. So the came with an underhanded attack on Dal Mi's confidence and right to be in Sand Box. She was not right. She had no elements to back that attack as Dal Mi showed enough quality to prove she was at her place and she was doing well so far without showing she was scared or overwhemed.
Dal Mi was astonished by the aggressive and out of line move from her sister which put her on her back foot. Dal Mi surely she is and will be strong enough to answer her sister and if not grab her by the hair and fight with her like when they were young. But Do San was there to support Dal Mi this time. I don't think he exceeded his role. In Jae became tight lipped because Do San said something true to her.
With the time skip inevitably happening, I think it may be a good idea to drop this bomb on all of you... It's…
Good nugget but why the Do San's part tastes so sour?
I don't think Do San will become a "bad" person. He was raised in South Korea and 3 years as an expat won't change his personality, temper or core values. On the other hand, he can surely gain success and fame.
If it has to be a love triangle after a time jump. It has to be fair. I think the return of Do San will trigger Dal Mi too make a choice. Then the game will be to develop this choice and explain it with the loosing side finally supporting them. I don't see her going back and forth between the two men. It would be horrible to watch.
I'd rather see Do San stay in the USA and settle there.
Does anyone else think DM won't choose either of them at first? She'll only make her choice after the time jump.…
Probably NDS won't have the time to mend things with Dal Mi. It is also very unlikely Dal Mi will be so fickle she will choose HJP before the time jump. Time jump is practical. It is clean slate for everyone so after that everything can happen.
The drama will not have an open ending I think. She will be with one of these two guys at the end. For the moment it is 99.99% - 0.01% for NDS. After Time jump: 60%-40% HJP as NDS is the one who leaves.
At this point of the drama, it is impossible for HJP to end up with SDM. She does not have a single bit of feelings for him. She is confused and preoccupied by the nature of her relationship with NDS. NDS has more of the qualities SDM likes in a man. HJP is turning into a bad person because he is still lying to Dal Mi and he is trying to steal a girfriend from her boyfriend (They have not broken up yet) by forcing his way to be next to Dal Mi and bullying poor Do San since he has a dominant position as mentor of SST. It looks nasty from him.
The way they can turn the table is time jump. A stunt. But it can be very efficient. Time jump will place all of them in a new context with new perspectives like magic:
- Do San will work abroad, become successful, knowledgeable, competent, famous and recognized. His status will be closer to HJP's one and they will be able to compete with the same assets.
- HJP will take care of Grandma and Dal Mi for 3 years. He will show a warmer side of himself and his empathy and ability to care for people in general will come closer to Do San's one.
- Dal Mi will use the time to bury fake NDS and recover from the lies. She will reflect on the past and be able to forgive the two men and Grandma. She will be more independant and accomplished.
So clean slate. News cards, New game.
The Love triangle will become more healthy and focused on what positive talent they can demonstrate to woo Dal Mi. And it can go either way.
The drama would not even have to fear the backlash from the fans as they can defend themselves and say hey, the characters have evolved and it was a fair game.
Okay, After watching these dramas, I have a pending question...How do people go from living together as brother…
When they are brought up as siblings and raised as such, they develop a big understanding of each other and they care for each other and worry about the other... They have "feelings" for each other. But the moral, the law, the nature, the society and the education... will not allow them to become lover and creates a legal, psychological and natural barrier. People who would cross the line are nuts and deviants.
But when you don't have the legal obstacle or the moral obstacle or the biological obstacle (same flesh same blood) the social obstacle, then sometimes, they end up crossing the line because the "feelings" will draw them to be so close that the bodies crave to be close too.
I have never witnessed in my life former siblings becoming lovers. But I agree it can happen. Sometimes, a brother and a sister of recomposed families and raised as siblings can end up loving each other and be couple.
This drama was delayed for so long it scares me to not try it. And if it is true all eps are released at once, it is even more scary... People plz give feedback.
I personally think a 3rd person should not interfere when 2 sisters are fighting... It's not like dalmi don't…
In Jae's step dad kind of manipulated her and wants to show he is the one who decided and will decide her destiny. So she wishes to get rid of these shackles. For Do San I think she understands that he did that to tell Dal Mi he has her back more than to attack her and after all he just told her the truth. She did use an underhanded attack on her sister to evade the fact that she stole the story of the swing. In Jae can admit that was wrong so she won't really hold it against Do San.
What do you want a smart motivated ambitious down to earth bright girl like SDM to do with an orphan with social…
You wanted a theory as to why it should be yes so I told you because it can't be no. Now you are not happy and you want to make it personal saying I am starting arguments with everyone and that I lack self awareness. You know?... my self awareness tells that you will be blocked in 4,3,2,1....
i see a few comments about people feeling bad for NJH? why? career wise he is on another level than KSH. At the…
This is the first time I see these two actors in a leading role. They are basically co-stars with Suzy in this drama. On the basis of what I have seen so far, I would say for me NJH is acting better. KSH is doing great but I agree with the opinion that he is enjoying a character very well written and his acting is perfect for the character. Someone with few intense emotions but more general expressions : cool, assured, assertive, commanding, ordering, upset, mocking... NJH has to deal with a character who is younger, weaker, who shows a bigger range of emotions: cold rage, confusion, deep sadness, depressed, sulking, pissed off or great joy and enthusiasm... He is doing it pretty well.
I don't think this drama will be a setback for his career. If his character keeps developping and his acting is still good, it will be counted as a success for him. KSH has received a lot of acclaim and has found millions of new fans, but it can be a one time success. I do not wish it for him . I hope this drama will consolidate his career and establish him as a good bankable versatile actor.
No matter what, I wish them both the best for their career and Suzy too... If they don't mess up the ending of this drama.
When Dal Mi asked the truth from Ji Pyeong, he paid attention to spare Grandma of her responsibility by saying…
NDS has no schelme and no lies to stop. He has come clean with Dal Mi and he will mend his relationship with her. The rest is irrelevant as long as they will trust each other now. HJP is piling the lies and the schemes to be close to her. He will fail miserably.
When Dal Mi asked the truth from Ji Pyeong, he paid attention to spare Grandma of her responsibility by saying…
The whole issue of the arc of narration involving Grandma, HJP, NDS and Dal Mi is based on the fact that the letters are fake, the penfriend is fake and the content of the letters do not belong to HJP. If the content of the letters belong to HJP, There is no drama needed.
All they would have to do is to make HJP go to her house and read the letters with her and smile and recollect their memories and tell each other why they wrote this or that and what it meant to them and be happy together because he would be her chilhood first love. But he is not. Because the handwriting of the fake letters is his but the words are from Grandma. And HJP is nowhere like the fake NDS. Fake NDS is caring, supportive and has empathy and consideration, HJP is a jerk with hot temper, yell at people, social relationship issues who talks bad to everyone but the ones he likes and he is never considerate of others. Deluded people with SLS need to accept that.
EP10. I don't want to talk about what happened before Dal Mi met HJP at the Bird Box. They all lied and had their reasons and now, I want to focus on what is happening and might happen from here.
When Dal Mi asked the truth from HJP in front of the bird boxt, he lied to her. He excluded Granma from her responsibility as the mastermind of the scheme. That's a lie. He made Dal Mi believe he wrote the letters on his own as a favor to Grandma and she believe he is now the "second man". That's a lie. He said NDS came to the Networking party because SST needed money so he took money for it before his feelings for her became real. That's a lie. HJP lied to her.
HJP went to ask for the help of NDS offering money and Yong San and Chul San wanted money but Do San said they want to enter Sandbox instead. HJP refused. The deal fell through. And NDS went to the Networking for free and only with good intention to help Dal Mi. So saying he needs to say sorry to Dal Mi because he agreed the scheme and went to the party for money is a lie. It is the lie that HJP made Dal Mi believe in front of the bird box. HJP shippers are so deluded, they now even repeat the lies of their favourite character. lol.
Dal Mi only understood from all this pile of lies told by HJP that maybe NDS's feelings for her and her feelings for him, might be fake. And she was desperate. She left this liar HJP in the middle of the street.
You know what? SLS delusion can be very bad for the health and obviously we are not watching the same drama. SLS deluded HJP shippers have invented a lot of scene in their head to make themselves happy. The wake up call is going to hurt them a lot!
HJP just started to turn into an A hole with his lame and sneaky confession and his attempt to patronize NDS with his questions he could have sent directly to Dal Mi. But he wanted to belittle NDS, piss him off with his bragging about confessing to Dal Mi, stopping to be his "brother" (A hole just said to Dal Mi he is not close to him.. lol. He is such a weasel) , stopping his help with his car, watch, past... fck him.
From now on, you'd better be prepared. Either HJP stops his schemes and stop bullying NDS and annoying Dal Mi and stays a proper and good Mentor or he will suffer.
When Dal Mi asked the truth from HJP at the place of the bird house, she was only interested by the explanation regarding Do San and his involvement. And she burst in anger only because she could not know now if Do San's feelings are real or not.
She did not bother to ask anything more detailed about HJP's involvement: why, how, what, how come, what happened, what if ... these letters were so important to her and the writer was in front of her. But she did not ask anything about him HJP. Because she could not care less about him and she just left him in the middle of the street.
So HJP obviously has almost no chance: 0.01% (in case a meteor falls on NDS' s head) and per deduction NDS has 99.99%.
After the Time jump, it is 50-50 for me but since HJP has enjoyed a huge popular support and NDS and Dal Mi's story is the most painful for Dal Mi and he went away for 3 years... I grant HJP with +10%. and -10% for NDS.
Dal Mi was astonished by the aggressive and out of line move from her sister which put her on her back foot. Dal Mi surely she is and will be strong enough to answer her sister and if not grab her by the hair and fight with her like when they were young. But Do San was there to support Dal Mi this time. I don't think he exceeded his role. In Jae became tight lipped because Do San said something true to her.
I don't think Do San will become a "bad" person. He was raised in South Korea and 3 years as an expat won't change his personality, temper or core values. On the other hand, he can surely gain success and fame.
If it has to be a love triangle after a time jump. It has to be fair. I think the return of Do San will trigger Dal Mi too make a choice. Then the game will be to develop this choice and explain it with the loosing side finally supporting them. I don't see her going back and forth between the two men. It would be horrible to watch.
I'd rather see Do San stay in the USA and settle there.
The drama will not have an open ending I think. She will be with one of these two guys at the end. For the moment it is 99.99% - 0.01% for NDS. After Time jump: 60%-40% HJP as NDS is the one who leaves.
The way they can turn the table is time jump. A stunt. But it can be very efficient. Time jump will place all of them in a new context with new perspectives like magic:
- Do San will work abroad, become successful, knowledgeable, competent, famous and recognized. His status will be closer to HJP's one and they will be able to compete with the same assets.
- HJP will take care of Grandma and Dal Mi for 3 years. He will show a warmer side of himself and his empathy and ability to care for people in general will come closer to Do San's one.
- Dal Mi will use the time to bury fake NDS and recover from the lies. She will reflect on the past and be able to forgive the two men and Grandma. She will be more independant and accomplished.
So clean slate. News cards, New game.
The Love triangle will become more healthy and focused on what positive talent they can demonstrate to woo Dal Mi. And it can go either way.
The drama would not even have to fear the backlash from the fans as they can defend themselves and say hey, the characters have evolved and it was a fair game.
But when you don't have the legal obstacle or the moral obstacle or the biological obstacle (same flesh same blood) the social obstacle, then sometimes, they end up crossing the line because the "feelings" will draw them to be so close that the bodies crave to be close too.
I have never witnessed in my life former siblings becoming lovers. But I agree it can happen. Sometimes, a brother and a sister of recomposed families and raised as siblings can end up loving each other and be couple.
blocked in 4,3,2,1....
I don't think this drama will be a setback for his career. If his character keeps developping and his acting is still good, it will be counted as a success for him. KSH has received a lot of acclaim and has found millions of new fans, but it can be a one time success. I do not wish it for him . I hope this drama will consolidate his career and establish him as a good bankable versatile actor.
No matter what, I wish them both the best for their career and Suzy too... If they don't mess up the ending of this drama.
All they would have to do is to make HJP go to her house and read the letters with her and smile and recollect their memories and tell each other why they wrote this or that and what it meant to them and be happy together because he would be her chilhood first love. But he is not. Because the handwriting of the fake letters is his but the words are from Grandma. And HJP is nowhere like the fake NDS. Fake NDS is caring, supportive and has empathy and consideration, HJP is a jerk with hot temper, yell at people, social relationship issues who talks bad to everyone but the ones he likes and he is never considerate of others. Deluded people with SLS need to accept that.
EP10. I don't want to talk about what happened before Dal Mi met HJP at the Bird Box. They all lied and had their reasons and now, I want to focus on what is happening and might happen from here.
When Dal Mi asked the truth from HJP in front of the bird boxt, he lied to her. He excluded Granma from her responsibility as the mastermind of the scheme. That's a lie. He made Dal Mi believe he wrote the letters on his own as a favor to Grandma and she believe he is now the "second man". That's a lie. He said NDS came to the Networking party because SST needed money so he took money for it before his feelings for her became real. That's a lie. HJP lied to her.
HJP went to ask for the help of NDS offering money and Yong San and Chul San wanted money but Do San said they want to enter Sandbox instead. HJP refused. The deal fell through. And NDS went to the Networking for free and only with good intention to help Dal Mi. So saying he needs to say sorry to Dal Mi because he agreed the scheme and went to the party for money is a lie. It is the lie that HJP made Dal Mi believe in front of the bird box. HJP shippers are so deluded, they now even repeat the lies of their favourite character. lol.
Dal Mi only understood from all this pile of lies told by HJP that maybe NDS's feelings for her and her feelings for him, might be fake. And she was desperate. She left this liar HJP in the middle of the street.
You know what? SLS delusion can be very bad for the health and obviously we are not watching the same drama. SLS deluded HJP shippers have invented a lot of scene in their head to make themselves happy. The wake up call is going to hurt them a lot!
HJP just started to turn into an A hole with his lame and sneaky confession and his attempt to patronize NDS with his questions he could have sent directly to Dal Mi. But he wanted to belittle NDS, piss him off with his bragging about confessing to Dal Mi, stopping to be his "brother" (A hole just said to Dal Mi he is not close to him.. lol. He is such a weasel) , stopping his help with his car, watch, past... fck him.
From now on, you'd better be prepared. Either HJP stops his schemes and stop bullying NDS and annoying Dal Mi and stays a proper and good Mentor or he will suffer.