REMINDERS: Fireflies, remember to attack Fox Spirit Matchmaker ahead of the YM fans putting in good feedbacks.…
What the fuck is wrong with you? “Remember to attack FSM”? Like I’m serious, you sound mentally ill when you get this agitated over an actor that you will never meet in real life. You’re like a rabid dog that’s frothing at the mouth. It’s gross.
Based on your profile photo, you’re also a moonie 😍 Anyhoo, I devoured this show and it was so good! I love…
Definitely!! But I feel like I should change it now to something from My Dearest or The Legend of Shen Li - my new obsessions (until the next thing comes along to take their place.) What’s your favorite at the moment?
Trauma can be an irrational fear of something triggered by a bad event or something you cannot overcome making…
To be clear, my earlier comment was about taking him seriously if he calls it trauma, but I don’t read Korean and have no idea if it’s translated correctly or not
Trauma can be an irrational fear of something triggered by a bad event or something you cannot overcome making…
As a trauma researcher, if he feels something significantly in his body in response to an upsetting event, events, or cumulative series of events that happened to him, or even to others around him, and it disrupts his daily or weekly life or even happens out of the blue, and affects his emotions and/or thoughts and/or brings on physiological symptoms, then it can be a trauma, or traumatic response. Perception is reality, as we say. And the body can make what we feel or think into a response in a physiological way. I talk about Big T traumas and Little T traumas sometimes to try to explain that there can be degrees of trauma response(s) to stimuli or experiences but they are personal and not dependent on what others think or believe how someone should react. Phobias can be a type of trauma response, but truly it’s semantics and every region has their own way of describing these phenomena and they can be called different things in different places.
The most important point here is, something happened to trigger him and he named it as a trauma. As a researcher, when our interviewees say that it’s trauma, we believe them, because the intervention is more important than the vocabulary used.
"Casting couch" and "female leads" must mean something different where you're from? It does NOT have good connotations…
Again, I’m not saying that it never happens but you make it seem like it’s the only way for women to get roles (just women since that’s all you reference) and you’re even calling it an opportunity like it’s a good thing and something to aspire to. That’s not whitewashing reality. Your super flippant attitude, shoulder shrugging and a mystifying acceptance that seems more like approval of an exploitative and misogynistic practice makes way less sense than my annoyance of it.
"Casting couch" and "female leads" must mean something different where you're from? It does NOT have good connotations…
The fact that you’re then knowingly using it that way to describe potential female leads for this drama is disgusting and misogynistic. So the ONLY way that women can secure lead acting roles is by having sex with the right person? Not that they’re talented actors but that they sleep with just the right person.
And you’re calling it an “opportunity” like it’s something for female actors to aspire to just to get the chance to work with LDW?? That’s BULLSHIT.
It’s not that I don’t know that these things happen but the casual way you reference it and only mention women here.
(Your profile says you’re female which makes what you’re saying even worse.) 🤯
Perception is reality, as we say. And the body can make what we feel or think into a response in a physiological way.
I talk about Big T traumas and Little T traumas sometimes to try to explain that there can be degrees of trauma response(s) to stimuli or experiences but they are personal and not dependent on what others think or believe how someone should react.
Phobias can be a type of trauma response, but truly it’s semantics and every region has their own way of describing these phenomena and they can be called different things in different places.
The most important point here is, something happened to trigger him and he named it as a trauma. As a researcher, when our interviewees say that it’s trauma, we believe them, because the intervention is more important than the vocabulary used.
You’re disgusting
Your super flippant attitude, shoulder shrugging and a mystifying acceptance that seems more like approval of an exploitative and misogynistic practice makes way less sense than my annoyance of it.
And you’re calling it an “opportunity” like it’s something for female actors to aspire to just to get the chance to work with LDW??
That’s BULLSHIT.
It’s not that I don’t know that these things happen but the casual way you reference it and only mention women here.
(Your profile says you’re female which makes what you’re saying even worse.) 🤯