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Maybe. But apart from flowers, Hewen has only given that vinyl record as a gift and that was just the day before her starry date with Xilun. They also had their silly misunderstandings before then so she likely hasn't thought of gifting him anything. Maybe later.

She hasn't given Hewen one. Maybe she will later but it makes the whole situation even more hilarious. Also, I think she reciprocated because of Xilun's gift.

Sometimes, it is better to end up alone. It's really not a bad thing. If he and Yue'er got together, they likely wouldn't last anyway so what's the point? He should just enjoy the show, gain new friends and learn from the experience

Also, was that confession attire? I wasn't sure where the scene was from but we'll see. Lol.

That would be only for those who ship Xilun and Yue'er. Lol.

It seems the cast is in Mongolia for the Heartbeat weekend trip like last season. So happy. I was hoping they would do the same this season and they did.

Who did Xilun manipulate? Who, how and when?😒

I understand better now. And you are right we do agree on a number of things. I guess I have just been interpreting your words differently from what you actually meant. Anyway, I'm probably not exactly as middle ground with my views but that's okay.

You were called toxic because you behave in a toxic manner. Your comments about the other cast, and not just Xilun, as soon as they slightly deviate from your set standards prove that. Sometimes, it's like you see these people as characters in a movie.

The fact that you feel the need to use unneccessarily harsh, demeaning and impolite language when you can express yourself just fine without it also proves your toxic mindset.

The funniest part of this is that if any of the cast members were proven to express themselves in a similar manner in private, I'm sure you would have a lot to say about that. Especially if it is your fave Xilun🤣.

The reason why I argue with people about Xilun is because they either try to make it mostly his fault that Heyue can't figure out their problems when that is really not true or their criticism is overly extreme like calling him crazy or what not. Like now, you say he lacks empathy but a person who truly lacks empathy won't be able to show kindness in situations like he did with Qimeng. What you view as a lack of consideration in one moment does not equate to a lack of empathy.

Yes, he is sometimes tactless and immature but looking at it holistically and based on on what has been shown so far, he doesn't seem like a bad person. People seem to pick a fault of his and magnify it beyond what it actually is.

And before someone goes off about having the right to an opinion again, yes, you are entitled to your thoughts and feelings but others will also present their viewpoints on your opinion whether in agreement or disagreement because that is how public forums go.

Yeah, I understand that. And since she seems very much affected by the whole thing, it's right that she leaves, as you said, instead of staying just to be sad. It's just the selfish viewer in me that wants to see her for a bit longer.

So the summary being you don't know😋.

I really don't want Meng Meng to leave early. I used to hope she would stay and just enjoy the free vacation with the others. But based on the current situation, I can understand why she would choose to end the journey early. With everyone paired up and happy in their separate bubbles, she can't help but feel like the permanent third wheel. It's so sad. I will just have look forward to her updates outside the show while the season is ongoing.

I hope they send this cast on a trip after the show ends like they did with the S8 cast so we can see them all together again.

In other news, Meng Meng said she went shopping with Xing Xing and she had spotted a pair of shoes that she liked but she didn't buy them. Xing Xing then later bought them for her without her knowledge. They are so cute.

Yeah, I also think they don't match. Their type seems like the young and impulsive kind of love with all the rush and feels plus a heavy dose of misunderstandings. The kind of relationship where they fight and make up constantly until one or both of them get exhausted with the situation.

I can see them choosing each other but not lasting after the show. I could be wrong, though. Anyway, like you said, we'll see how it goes.

For VIP, eps are released a day after express so it is Tuesday and Wednesday.

It's funny how Yue'er ended up proving a point that I've been making for a while now. If either Yue'er or Hewen were determined to talk to each other, they could have easily walked up to each other's rooms and asked for a chat. The only reason that it didn't happen until now was because neither of them was willing to take that chance. Good on Yue'er for putting a foot forward.

Really??? Which part? Don't think any apply🤭

Lol, you reply to almost every Xilun related comment like your life depends on it. I think you're the one with bigger issues here. And you always resort to insults when it is not even required. Like if OP wants to share a long essay, let them. How does that affect you? You don't have to read it.

Maybe work on your own defective character first before worrying about others.

Watching Qimeng and Xilun's talk, it was obvious my pretty girl was trying hard not to cry. I thought Xilun looked teary-eyed as well and Qimeng confirmed the same in her reaction. They are both such cuties. It's always sad when there is a cast member you like that suffers from unrequited love or isn't able to find someone on a dating show.

But at the end of the day, if you think about it, it's not that big of a deal. The chances are of you meeting the right person at the right time on a dating show aren't that high in the 1st place. There is a big world out there with her own happy romance waiting.

As soon as I saw the notification, I figured the response would be something about being triggered and it's funny to be proven right. I guess you've become quite predictable in your immaturity😆.

And you know what's even funnier, the fact that you would rather choke than let anyone forget your borderline pathological dislike for the guy😔.

Not surprised that you would emphasize the use of a derogatory term. It's always amusing to see the people who have high standards for others just prove themselves to be even more problematic😏.