Gene: Is doing what most people would if this was reality. No matter how much it hurts.
Sib. I'd be Sib, I'd quit, break the contract, give them my money, address the insane fans on social media, log out & ignore all the hate. With the back story, nothing would be more important to me than Gene.
Aoey: I thought I knew how this guy was mentally breaking, but he crumbled a completely different way. I'd be furious at his live more than anything else. Honestly, I'd have tried to fire him ages ago..
Tum: I'd have quit too.. Haha. As you guys can probably tell, I'm of the mind frame that another job will always come (it always has for me anyway), No job is worth a decline in my mental health. Family, no family, BYE!
Hin: I am concerned. Is he going to troll, make himself un-alive, what is going to happen there..
Tiffy is as ridiculous as Aoey.
Gene's Father turned out to be a sweetheart, I love how he told him to cry it out. That isn't said to men by their fathers enough.. Not crying isn't a flex, it's an issue.
Yes it does have the comedy tag but that is very broad, sometimes this tag is added to slot that features barely…
I hate that they killed the mother, but boy oh boy, my favourite scene was when Vincenzo showed up to the house with them all inside.. I played it 3 times.. The my body was nearly screaming out the emotions..
Yes it does have the comedy tag but that is very broad, sometimes this tag is added to slot that features barely…
Comedy is listed first, so that was what I expected most, after reading the bio. Like a list of ingredients, it goes from most to least. I started watching because of a clip on tiktok. I didn't realise it would be like this either.. I am not fan of most of the tenants, but I let it slide because everything else is good. Every now and then the tenants are funny / have a sweet moment which redeems them. This is also the first show were I genuinely liked/accepted the short comings of the villain (until Vincenzo's mom).. Which made me question my morals & if my mentality towards life was changing.. Haha.. I am probably more dramatic than the show.
Is everything in this show realistic? Hell no.. Comedy is mentioned in the description for a reason. Everything doesn't have to be serious all the time. It doesn't have to be exact. Where would Fantasy and Si-Fi be if rules had to be obeyed.. Vincenzo is excellent because you can not assume everything correctly. The main characters are great at acting. You laugh, you cry, you get angry, whole range of emotions wash over you, and just about every episode ends with you hating that you have to wait a week for more.. Some people shit on this because it's not all depressing, suicidal, mafia, fuck my life scenarios. The world is miserable enough without having to be depressed watching tv too.. Get yourself a pet pigeon, some instant coffee, rice wine and chill out.. Otherwise you are living the life of a mouse..
Mu Ren & Li Cheng, Probably the most genuine, loving, heart breaking episode I have watched from any season of any show. I felt like I was the one experiencing this rejection.
Very little info on Fluke.. Is he new? He is my favourite actor in this series thus far. I mean, everyone is good, but I feel the character Tong Fha's feelings more than I do the others.
We have all come to accept that bl's have toxic characters. Both male and female. Somethings they do scream stalker serial killer. I tend to just let that shit slide. What I can't let slide is the fact that at the end of the day Gene is Aoey's superior in the work place. He helped cast Aoey. No matter how psychotic Aoey is, surly, SURLY, he'd let this slide more than others. How can he be emotionally healthy when it comes to family life, but full on emotionally stunted with relationships. The vibe is upsetting and for me it takes away from the rest of the storyline which I think is very well done.
Sometimes I cry watching shows.. I nearly need therapy after ep 16.. I mean you could tell it was going to happen but part of you still wished it wouldn't.. I can't see him shooting them both dead, because what would the last 4 episodes be about? Who thought it was acceptable to make us wait two weeks for more, I'm only just coping with the one week!
I love Mark Kit, it is why I watched this series. Am I the only one concerned that the writers thought oh the Tong-Sandee-Pok storyline was a good idea?? Honestly its a toss up between Sandee & Padbok who is more toxic?.
Just from my own experience with Asian corporations, he'd be transferred for the company to save face then quietly…
I did notice Li Cheng do that. He didn't simply hold Mu Ren's hand. Both of Li Cheng's hands moved down past Ren's chest. Their faces were touching and I assumed that was Cheng's hand on Ren's neck. He wasn't in fear of going under the water, therefore it came across as more of a caress. I loved how they transitioned from Ren trying to remember to Cheng dreaming. How much of it actually happened, we don't know.
I can not imagine being in that position, with mixed emotions for an individual in Ren's condition. Everyone has different boundaries but for me, I would be okay with Cheng's actions. I feel they are innocent. He saved and looked after his friend. There was a moment but he didn't kiss, or touch below the waist. But he did touch his chest, and I am thinking if you change chest with breast, I do feel a bit more stand off-ish, which isn't right for me to do so. Why is it okay for a male chest, but not a female. It is a double standard, but is it mine, or is it what society has thought me, I must think about this more before tomorrow. In this moment, I am okay with everything. It's all understandable and forgivable. Forgive what he did but glad he feels guilty. He needs to feel guilty to prove the innocence of it all..
I love main couple from beginning. I think they super cute. The whole exploring of BL was super funny scene. They…
I have been through a lot in my life and the only way for me to be able to forgive other people (and myself) has been to research what causes us to think and do the things we do. My parents were unable to show me love, because they were never shown love, I can not hate them for that. I in-turn spent years punishing myself in many ways for not being "perfect", I had to forgive myself for being my own biggest bully, when I needed to be my own best friend. It is harder to forgive myself though. That is why I always look at someone's past to understand their current actions. If Yong Jie had been shown love and affection (& was a real person) then I know he wouldn't behave that way. He has never felt love from himself or anyone else so he wants to hold onto Xing because he doesn't think anyone else could ever love him. It really breaks my heart.
I wonder, if deep down there is ever a glimmer of hope for a sociopath, but I feel you are correct. We are not advanced enough yet to know why some people are born with the ability to do great harm, all I can think of is they are here to provide balance for those who do good. Making life what it is, an experience to understand all emotions. How can you tell you are happy, if you have never been sad?
SamYu probably my favourite bl cople. I really like their relationship. Looking forward to S3. Yu Zhen Xuan gives me anxiety. If it was real like and someone was interested in me in that way, I would feel suffocated, trapped and scared. It is not a cute character in any way.
Because people have this odd idea in their head that fiction (especially queer fiction) needs to be sanitized…
This is exactly why I do my best to have zero labels or any "tribe", some bullshit rules are required and if you don't play along you are shunned. A bad person. We are all individual and we all make mistakes, that is part of life. I tried so hard to fit in as a child / teen that now I just want to feel free and I do not care if I end up alone because of it. Being a "good or bad" person has zero to do with any sexual preference, skin colour, job, food we eat, religion, no religion, etc.. Shitty people come from every "tribe" good people come from every "tribe".
If people want fluff then the HIStory series are not for them. I love it because it's life. It isn't always pretty and it doesn't always have a happy ending. There are series that I don't like, but I don't feel like every series has to be to my liking otherwise the whole world would need to think like I do, and for sure that is not the case.
People need to ask themselves why they feel "sick", to me that is a judgement, which can possibly show a limitation in our world view. I am very interested in why people think and act the way they do. I have learned that when someone does something I wouldn't, it doesn't mean they are wrong, they have a different approach and what they did was the best thing for them, even if it is something toxic, they did what they needed to do to protect themselves in that situation. What they did might even be the thing I should do, but I don't because I have some fear of rejection, insecurity or lack of self love.
I feel I am off on a rant and not really making any sense, so I'll leave it at this. I personally really enjoy this series.
Sib. I'd be Sib, I'd quit, break the contract, give them my money, address the insane fans on social media, log out & ignore all the hate. With the back story, nothing would be more important to me than Gene.
Aoey: I thought I knew how this guy was mentally breaking, but he crumbled a completely different way. I'd be furious at his live more than anything else. Honestly, I'd have tried to fire him ages ago..
Tum: I'd have quit too.. Haha. As you guys can probably tell, I'm of the mind frame that another job will always come (it always has for me anyway), No job is worth a decline in my mental health. Family, no family, BYE!
Hin: I am concerned. Is he going to troll, make himself un-alive, what is going to happen there..
Tiffy is as ridiculous as Aoey.
Gene's Father turned out to be a sweetheart, I love how he told him to cry it out. That isn't said to men by their fathers enough.. Not crying isn't a flex, it's an issue.
I can not imagine being in that position, with mixed emotions for an individual in Ren's condition. Everyone has different boundaries but for me, I would be okay with Cheng's actions. I feel they are innocent. He saved and looked after his friend. There was a moment but he didn't kiss, or touch below the waist. But he did touch his chest, and I am thinking if you change chest with breast, I do feel a bit more stand off-ish, which isn't right for me to do so. Why is it okay for a male chest, but not a female. It is a double standard, but is it mine, or is it what society has thought me, I must think about this more before tomorrow. In this moment, I am okay with everything. It's all understandable and forgivable. Forgive what he did but glad he feels guilty. He needs to feel guilty to prove the innocence of it all..
I wonder, if deep down there is ever a glimmer of hope for a sociopath, but I feel you are correct. We are not advanced enough yet to know why some people are born with the ability to do great harm, all I can think of is they are here to provide balance for those who do good. Making life what it is, an experience to understand all emotions. How can you tell you are happy, if you have never been sad?
Yu Zhen Xuan gives me anxiety. If it was real like and someone was interested in me in that way, I would feel suffocated, trapped and scared. It is not a cute character in any way.
If people want fluff then the HIStory series are not for them. I love it because it's life. It isn't always pretty and it doesn't always have a happy ending. There are series that I don't like, but I don't feel like every series has to be to my liking otherwise the whole world would need to think like I do, and for sure that is not the case.
People need to ask themselves why they feel "sick", to me that is a judgement, which can possibly show a limitation in our world view. I am very interested in why people think and act the way they do. I have learned that when someone does something I wouldn't, it doesn't mean they are wrong, they have a different approach and what they did was the best thing for them, even if it is something toxic, they did what they needed to do to protect themselves in that situation. What they did might even be the thing I should do, but I don't because I have some fear of rejection, insecurity or lack of self love.
I feel I am off on a rant and not really making any sense, so I'll leave it at this. I personally really enjoy this series.