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When homophobia is deemed as wrong (countless bl's have lines like "it is abnormal" and "shame to the family") then I can see why they want to write characters as good people who do nothing wrong and should be accepted. The thing is, humans are flawed by nature, it has nothing to do with sexual preference. I like the shows that are more realistic. Good people who sometimes say or do shitty things because that's life, those are mistakes we grow from. If people like fluff then the first 3 HIStory's should have shown that these do not provide that type of content.

When they get out, they have a high chance of reoffending, because they aren't given therapy. I never once said what he did is okay, I was saying his actions have come from someone who hasn't processed his childhood. That no one is bad, they are hurting and acting out.

It would be great if they stuck with the fans fighting between Aoey & Gene as the person they want with Sib.. They could have gone an angle to show how shipping can be toxic, but now it will be diluted with Aoey acting like an asshole. I really liked how they made him a strong person dealing with his home life, he's mentally mature there, but immature in relationships. I mean, we don't know how it is going to go, maybe they do a good job, but from the teaser for next week, I nearly don't want to watch it and pretend like it ends here.

A hurt person is someone who does bad things. We are all born with no judgement or hate, just pure love.. Life and the people in it shape us. If we are unable to process our feelings, we do what we need to do to survive. Bad actions follow, because we don't know the healthy way.. We can learn the healthy way and change our actions.. What he is doing is bad, but he still has the mentality of a hurt child and does not know any other way. That's why he needs therapy.

I feel if I rang someone that many times, they would be less likely to pick up as I would come across strange. 1-2 Text, a voicemail, 5-9 calls max.. But I am aware that is just how I would handle the situation, and there is no right or wrong. I just laughed when I was 31..

59 lol

When Gene just held him and protected him from being hit.. My heart... And then when they are sitting drinking water and little Sib copies the way young Gene is sitting.... ADORABLE!!

Yeah, I sighed.. Aoey doesn't own Sib and he's not entitled to him just because he likes him.. Plus Sib has shown numerous times that he does not like Aoey... But now they have this whole "you are bad" bit.. ugh!

I genuinely laughed out loud reading this.. I thought the exact same thing.

Okay 31 miss calls was a bit excessive.. I'd be like "holy shit, block the psycho"... 19 would have been dramatic but 31.. lol...

Yong Jie does hurtful things, but he does them without malice. So I see him as a hurt individual who needs therapy, not as a bad person. I wish he told Xing Si what he told the mother, which was doing what he can to help Xing Si be open about his sexuality to the father, and feel accepted in his own home.

The second I saw Anson, I knew I'd watch the entire series even if it wasn't good.! I'm glad I have always liked their storyline though. I honestly think it is a really good season and don't understand the hate whatsoever.

I am not ready for the next episode to be the last episode.. I'm just not.. Why does this only have 6 eps per season when I have slowly lost the will to live watching other shows that have 20 eps when they should have died after 4 but didn't. I am one of those people who just "has to know what happened" even if it is shit, so I can't abandon it.. Yeah I am a whiney baby... When does season 3 start lol

Exactly. We don't think the same way we did when we were 5 years old. We are constantly changing and growing. Keeping an open mind allows us to always remain true to ourselves. What I believe in right now might be completely changed in the next 10 years. It doesn't mean I am wrong, I am who I am meant to be, so I will become who I am meant to be, if you get me. Judging others only shows the limits we put on ourselves.

It's really good to understand why you have your own opinions on something.. It helps us know who we are.. I try to keep an open mind about everything. It's perfectly okay to think "that is something I would never do, but I wouldn't look down on someone else if they did it".. We are all different and that is okay. :)

I'm Irish and over here, as long as they aren't blood, it is fine.. Would they be talked about, yes, would people condemn them, no...

I think he is the most beautiful man I have even seen in my life.

I don't understand why this season is getting this level of hate...

Yong Jie is clearly a deeply depressed human doing things he should not be doing, but his reasons for being infactuated with Xing are valid. We saw his childhood. The feeling that no one else cared. Puppy love turned toxic. But they are not blood brothers and although it isn't common, it isn't a sin..

Xiao and Teng trying to figure out what "BL" meant was very funny to me..
And as for any body shaming, do you know how easy it can be to be "Sexy, Hot, Whatever", just wear the right clothes and/or exercise, but to be beautiful, ooooh boy... True beauty shines from the inside and is rare, Anson is probably the most beautiful man in the whole world (in my opinion). His face leaves me speechless. That hot tub scene was better acting than any TharnType or MaxTul... It was intimate, vulnerable, non-toxic behaviour, eyes and actions of how someone would be if they were actually drugged.. & the two of them talking about Xiao dream, the facial expressions, eye contact, running into the rooms and freaking out, it was brilliant.

I don't like that Teng's boss simply got transferred and not fired, but other than that, this show is very realistic.

I am sure it was fun to film, but it was not fun to watch.. Stuck it out for Talay, but really not my thing.

I have watched 80 series, and this is by far one of the best.. I would love a season two, but at the same time, any more might take from this master piece.. If you are reading comments to see if this is worth the watch, trust me it is...

We know that Auntie can simply be friend, but it can also mean AUNTIE... I highly doubt Gene & Sib are meant to be cousins.. It is logical that Gene is angry, and although I would listen to Sib, I understand why others wouldn't want to.. What I don't understand is Sib saying 3 times "there is a reason" but he doesn't say what the reason is.. He doesn't even blurt it out as Gene leaves to try and get him to stay.. I really loved the first 5 episodes, but in my opinion we just went from the best week, to the weakest week.. Hoping 7 will bring the standard back up.