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I think kiss comes in ep 25-26

Maybe because she saw he just tolerated his wife instead of being a partner. He has allowed his wife to control everything and never seems to step up to the plate to be a man. When you love someone you shouldn't tolerate their bad behavior. Just like never disciplining your children to teach them right from wrong isn't love. He should feel comfortable enough in his marriage and in his love for her to be able to communicate with her - but he doesn't. So he isn't loving his wife, he is tolerating her. Not one person in that household is happy because of the mom. Even Zao couldn't wait to leave that house for a few days. If the ML becomes tolerable of the mom as well in order to get with MCH I will be disappointed. At this point only the daughter has stood up to her mom - everyone else falls on their knees to her and it is sickening. As a mom, if my daughter moved out in anger like she did i would have seriously checked myself and reflected on it to correct it. This mom is going to end up alienating everyone because everyone is slowly getting tired of her BS. She wants her family all home so she can continue to be the center of their world. The problem with ML is he wants a family and he sees this as one - even if it is toxic. SO i fear he too will also end up falling on his knees with the mom - i hope not - I hope and wish he would set her right. We shall see.

Caught up and after 22 episodes the mom STILL has not learned any lessons at all.

She thinks EVERYTHING is hers - even the hotel.

In ep 18, MCH KNEW it was a mistake to even mention that home to her mother - and her mom talking like the house was her and got ticked when MCH corrected her. You already know the mom is not going to want to leave that house once she gets in it. If grandma had lived she would have been forced to leave but with grandma gone, who is going to stop her? She is a nasty person. Completely narcissistic.

The drama itself is really quite good - I am hoping for her mom to be better by the end but I am afraid it will definitely be by the end…not seeing she will change much before then.

Best choice ever, imo, was when MCH moved out - she felt free then, from that toxic mother of hers.

I agree. He has enabled her and brought his kids up to do the same. This woman has run roughshod over all of them for decades. That said, she is a horrible, horrible person. I don’t understand her one bit. She has no sympathy for her kids - if she did she wouldn’t make their lives miserable. Every single thing she says and does is all about her. Her way, or the highway and woe to anyone standing in her way because she will just go off on them like a bat-sh*t crazy person. Toxic anger issues. Lots of people come from poverty but not all act the way she does. No excuses for her. To excuse her character makes you just like the husband - you are enabling this behavior by sympathizing with her background as an excuse to treat her kids and everyone else around her like crap.

I despise her. I’ve made my feelings known about her in my other comments.

Very toxic mindset. You don’t have children just to expect them to take care of you and freeload off of them. You have kids because you love your partner and want to have an extension of them to raise and love. If you raise your children right, with love and respect, that will naturally come back to you. She is blessed her kid are even putting up with her mess. It has taken me 59 years of living to finally remove myself from a toxic parent who, in his old age, wants help but when needed by his own children, doesn’t extend any. You do NOT have to put up with disrespect and toxicity from anyone, most of all a parent. As a parent myself, I cannot imagine doing to my son what this mother and my own father have done. You should be there for your children, encouraging and helping. Any help they may need you should always ask first what they need….this mother just does whatever she wants based on her own needs. She doesn’t care about her kids one bit. If she did, she wouldn’t be causing them so much grief.

No she is just being flat out a bi*ch. to everyone. She hates her life and wants everyone around her to wallow in her self-pity and misery with her.

I got behind so I am just now watching ep 18 and her mom is still such a b*&ch.

The current photo is a MUCH better photo than the one I posted about - it was horrible.

so no episodes today?????

Thank you!

Probably because it happened so long ago! Like i said, as you age, your memories are often distorted and unclear. This is why people need to stop trying to go back to their elementary and high school days based off of memories when its already been decades later.

So the “victims” made a fuss then couldn't recall what happened??? This is why you shouldn't open your mouth unless you have evidence and are 100% sure. SMH. Most memories are distorted as you age. Be 1000% sure before accusing someone.

but she still has her pay - and if they are all pooling their money to pay for rent and utilities it is still a win-win for all 4.

I still need to watch that drama. Lol

Yeah his acquiescence has turned her into what she is. He should have learned to put his foot down a long time ago. She is a loose canon.