Simps for the pretty Ballerino overlook his behaviour.
"Confirmation bias in dating and relationships is the cognitive tendency to seek, interpret, and remember information that confirms pre-existing beliefs while ignoring contradictory evidence. This bias distorts perception by making individuals focus on red flags that support negative views or positive traits that support idealized views, often leading to misinterpretations of a partner's actions. "
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Mean Girls have difficulty with introspection.
Pointing out it's women attacking other women isnt personal.
You sound boosted π·π is the next logical step in demonstrating cognitive dissonance take.
Millions of people, including highly educated fell for the coercion.
Our egoes get in the way of admitting our shortcomings and mistakes.
Pretty Ballerino is a 'player' .
The mean girls went after Yerim /Gayeon for contrast without being neutral observers or offering a valid argument.
Gayeon didn't emulate the pretty Ballerino's behaviour. You noted she went to others for advice on her feelings and complained about it 700x?
The pretty Ballerino hid from Yerim, strung her along. Others in the experiment noted, took her side and tried to get them to have a honest conversation. He refused to go to the tent until 2:30 am. Avoidance strategy π―. His excuse using the time to process his emotions ππππ and was going to answer her. Pure BS.
The final secret date before final selection, π₯ 36-42 hours later did Yerim get his honesty? Yerim was eliminated as a woman the second her learned her age.
Inconsiderate, callous, cowardly labels are a fair assessment on his behaviour towards Yerim. Not debatable.
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Nope wrong on all your assumptions.
You're in denial his attire, body language,non verbal cues he sent to the women comes from experience. He moved on at light speed after learning Yerims age. Interrupting Gayeon's tent date with Dogeon.
No hesitation.
Pretty Ballerino told Gayeon he had two long term relationships and others that lasted one hundred days. That's called evidence, albeit inconvenient facts for the mean girls. Gayeon thinks he's a player β οΈ and he immediately moves to diffuse it.
"Prolonged Eye Gaze. Holding anotherβs eye gaze a bit longer than usual is a sign of interest. Mutual eye gazeβlooking into each otherβs eyesβcan be arousing, so we usually hold it briefly. Prolonged gaze suggests that there is attraction and a desire to connect." Psychology Today 8 Nonverbal Signs of Sexual Interest
Gayeon is affected by it as was Yerim. Nearly all the women noticed his behaviour.
My opinions are formed from a series of observations without a bias. I didn't attempt to deflect it by blaming others. That's on the mean girls.
Lastly, those exhibiting cognitive dissonance are immune from the truth.
I'm betting you wore π·πππππ still worship Fauci.
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse…
Hold everyone to the same standards. You're not and the bias for the pretty face is clear.
He four years older, he knew it was over the second he learned of her age but chose to dismiss her, giving her closure and the opportunity to find someone else. (Fact)
Read the comments section ninety per cent are negative on his behaviour.
This experiment has them cohabiting for a week, that requires consideration of others. He chased, flirted and sat closely next to her for two days and knew she was interested in him. She confessed.
You can choose cowardly and callous if you read the comment section.
Meanwhile, if weβre looking for questionable dating-show behavior, can we talk about Gayeon? She has told us…
Nope, she acknowledged their appeal is completely different. Her dating history is picking the physical attraction and getting badly hurt .
Gyeong Ho chasing after Yerim for the first two days gave Gayeon the opportunity to discover and connect with someone that moved her by simply holding her hand and conversation. She spent 163 β₯ on Jungmin to make him King and secure a date outside after the date with Gyeong Ho (17 β₯) . It makes sense why she feels conflicted. Ballerino for lust or a cerebral dating experience.
I bet her hormones pick the pretty face and she gets burned again. π€·ββοΈ
I honestly donβt understand why Gyeong Ho is being treated like he did something terrible. Theyβve known each…
You can blame the narrative if its misleading, it wasn't. He screwed up.
You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse his bad behaviour.
Gyenong Ho 26yrs old, knew when they revealed age and employment Yerim 22yrs old was no longer a woman. He strung her along that evening and the next two days.
Upon his return from their date immediately went after Gayeon interrupting her tent date with Dogeyon.
He became a coward by running away, avoiding eye contact, having a conversation to end her one-side attraction until the day before the final selection.
To episode 2, I'm sooooooo surprised that my favorite is a GUY. It never happened, the women are always so much…
No problem. It wasn't a summary of 2nd episode. Explanation of the voting system and split voting pitfalls.
SeonHo was the first to arrive and Yeji second. Their awkwardness has a backstory for them. Panelists are rooting forthem, love their back story.
Voting system: they will get four or five votes to secure dates? 100 min-200 min max "All in" gives you certainty of date, use that time wisely to determine if both of you will spend blocks for the next day.
Both SeonHo and Yeji spent 50% spent on each other twice for a match!
SeonHo spent two votes on Ro Bin with same amount got zero dates. Yeji similarly cast two votes on Han Do Gon resulting in zero dates.
Splitting your votes may increase the odds you won't get a date with the party you're interested in.
To episode 2, I'm sooooooo surprised that my favorite is a GUY. It never happened, the women are always so much…
This experiment is for one week? (100min - 200min max) date "All-in" vs dividing them and hope the person spends enough to secure a date. You have a finite window to use them: 100% guarantees you have a date to qualify them as a romantic interest or not the next day. Before time expires, come to a mutual agreement on blocks for tomorrow. Participants that have split amongst four didn't fare well unless someone went in 70% or greater? 50% worked split between two secured one date.
Do-gon seems the most mature so far, preparation of thoughtful gifts, investment all in of blocks 2x.
SeonHo was invited for groceries and cooking by Min Young. It didn't affect his voting decision later that evening.
He was consistent splitting amongst two women. Unlikely he will spend on Ro Bin to secure a conversation if things progress with Yeji.
Yeji became flustered discovering they have a blog history and he kept following her after they both recovered. She wanted to continue their conversation after they returned.
Both are introverts and don't initiate. Them freezing up when they first met one on one during the intro was hilarious.
Gayeon asking him if he's a player is still likely going to repeat her bad judgement and choose lust.
Simps for the pretty Ballerino overlook his behaviour.
"Confirmation bias in dating and relationships is the cognitive tendency to seek, interpret, and remember information that confirms pre-existing beliefs while ignoring contradictory evidence. This bias distorts perception by making individuals focus on red flags that support negative views or positive traits that support idealized views, often leading to misinterpretations of a partner's actions. "
These are adults, their decision making process shouldn't be dismissed because you're not comfortable.
First impressions, shocked by her attraction to a younger man.π
Most people would take that as a rejection.
His demeanor didn't change.
None of the smart men decided to chase two women in a cohabitation experiment lasting five days.
Males, when pressed admitted interest for Gayeon. Choices have consequences.
Pointing out it's women attacking other women isnt personal.
You sound boosted π·π is the next logical step in demonstrating cognitive dissonance take.
Millions of people, including highly educated fell for the coercion.
Our egoes get in the way of admitting our shortcomings and mistakes.
Pretty Ballerino is a 'player' .
The mean girls went after Yerim /Gayeon for contrast without being neutral observers or offering a valid argument.
Gayeon didn't emulate the pretty Ballerino's behaviour. You noted she went to others for advice on her feelings and complained about it 700x?
The pretty Ballerino hid from Yerim, strung her along. Others in the experiment noted, took her side and tried to get them to have a honest conversation. He refused to go to the tent until 2:30 am. Avoidance strategy π―. His excuse using the time to process his emotions ππππ and was going to answer her. Pure BS.
The final secret date before final selection, π₯ 36-42 hours later did Yerim get his honesty? Yerim was eliminated as a woman the second her learned her age.
Inconsiderate, callous, cowardly labels are a fair assessment on his behaviour towards Yerim. Not debatable.
How many boosters did you get this year?
Criticism of his behaviour towards Yerim remains valid.
Stop trying to make fetch happen.
He's not into you.
You're in denial his attire, body language,non verbal cues he sent to the women comes from experience. He moved on at light speed after learning Yerims age. Interrupting Gayeon's tent date with Dogeon.
No hesitation.
Pretty Ballerino told Gayeon he had two long term relationships and others that lasted one hundred days. That's called evidence, albeit inconvenient facts for the mean girls.
Gayeon thinks he's a player β οΈ and he immediately moves to diffuse it.
"Prolonged Eye Gaze. Holding anotherβs eye gaze a bit longer than usual is a sign of interest. Mutual eye gazeβlooking into each otherβs eyesβcan be arousing, so we usually hold it briefly. Prolonged gaze suggests that there is attraction and a desire to connect." Psychology Today 8 Nonverbal Signs of Sexual Interest
Gayeon is affected by it as was Yerim. Nearly all the women noticed his behaviour.
My opinions are formed from a series of observations without a bias. I didn't attempt to deflect it by blaming others. That's on the mean girls.
Lastly, those exhibiting cognitive dissonance are immune from the truth.
I'm betting you wore π·πππππ still worship Fauci.
Your envy that Gayeon is more attractive and had almost every male notice that.
Mean Girls
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One lied to Yerim and never gave her an honest answer.
Gayeon informed both males chasing her about her dilemma. She's been consistently conflicted when he began chasing her.
Nope, I have no delusion you're open to the facts.
I understand signs of cognitive dissonance quite well.
I'm not glossing over any of the participants, attempting to shift blame.
I don't hold that against him.
He should be held to a higher standard based upon age and likely dating experience.
I've explained group dynamics, risk vs reward on these dating shows when you chase multiple people.
Shaping the narrative and blame does happen, this isn't one of them, he earned the disdain.
Ballerino knew it was over on day two, evening, knew she was still invested.
He STILL didn't come clean to suggest she has ZERO chance on the final selection. (Cowardly 100%)
We see Gayeon conflcted on the second day when he actively starts to chase her?
There's no problem being attracted to other people, several of them were attracted but they never acted on those emotions.
Gayeon explains to several people including Jungmin she's conflicted. They have different appeals.
Gayeon hasn't concluded she's made a final selection. She's transparent about her discomfort of choosing between them.
He four years older, he knew it was over the second he learned of her age but chose to dismiss her, giving her closure and the opportunity to find someone else. (Fact)
Read the comments section ninety per cent are negative on his behaviour.
This experiment has them cohabiting for a week, that requires consideration of others. He chased, flirted and sat closely next to her for two days and knew she was interested in him. She confessed.
You can choose cowardly and callous if you read the comment section.
Gyeong Ho chasing after Yerim for the first two days gave Gayeon the opportunity to discover and connect with someone that moved her by simply holding her hand and conversation. She spent 163 β₯ on Jungmin to make him King and secure a date outside after the date with Gyeong Ho (17 β₯)
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It makes sense why she feels conflicted. Ballerino for lust or a cerebral dating experience.
I bet her hormones pick the pretty face and she gets burned again. π€·ββοΈ
You need to pin blame on Gayeon to excuse his bad behaviour.
Gyenong Ho 26yrs old, knew when they revealed age and employment Yerim 22yrs old was no longer a woman. He strung her along that evening and the next two days.
Upon his return from their date immediately went after Gayeon interrupting her tent date with Dogeyon.
He became a coward by running away, avoiding eye contact, having a conversation to end her one-side attraction until the day before the final selection.
SeonHo was the first to arrive and Yeji second. Their awkwardness has a backstory for them. Panelists are rooting forthem, love their back story.
Voting system: they will get four or five votes to secure dates?
100 min-200 min max
"All in" gives you certainty of date, use that time wisely to determine if both of you will spend blocks for the next day.
Both SeonHo and Yeji spent 50% spent on each other twice for a match!
SeonHo spent two votes on Ro Bin with same amount got zero dates.
Yeji similarly cast two votes on Han Do Gon resulting in zero dates.
Splitting your votes may increase the odds you won't get a date with the party you're interested in.
The pretty one should have given you the clue.
The Ballerino.
"All-in" vs dividing them and hope the person spends enough to secure a date.
You have a finite window to use them: 100% guarantees you have a date to qualify them as a romantic interest or not the next day.
Before time expires, come to a mutual agreement on blocks for tomorrow.
Participants that have split amongst four didn't fare well unless someone went in 70% or greater?
50% worked split between two secured one date.
Do-gon seems the most mature so far, preparation of thoughtful gifts, investment all in of blocks 2x.
SeonHo was invited for groceries and cooking by Min Young. It didn't affect his voting decision later that evening.
He was consistent splitting amongst two women. Unlikely he will spend on Ro Bin to secure a conversation if things progress with Yeji.
Yeji became flustered discovering they have a blog history and he kept following her after they both recovered. She wanted to continue their conversation after they returned.
Both are introverts and don't initiate. Them freezing up when they first met one on one during the intro was hilarious.