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He didn't actively choose his fear; he felt he had no choice. And it was more shame than fear, I think. Also it was all so worth it in the end because they moved many steps forward in Hong Kong. She helped him understand it was okay to not be okay, she encouraged him to continue at the University of Hong Kong when he wanted to take the college entrance exam and restart his studies to be in the city where she was studying, they made love. She won the lottery literally and in love. He was hugely successful in finance once he graduated(did you see that gorgeous apartment?), she was living her teaching dreams, and she was deeply, deeply loved.

I also love how he was so anxious to be a part of her family and call her parents Mom and Dad.

She was not dying inside.
Also, she was still young enough to feel this way and if, by some horrible circumstance it didn't work out, there would be plenty of time to find a second love.

How did she treat the SML poorly. She had no idea until she saw the photo in his wallet that he liked her and she never, ever gave him any reason to think she liked as more than just a really good friend. And he knew she was totally devoted to the ML.

Some people act like the poor girl was on antidepressants and taking to her bed or something. She was living her life, albeit feeling a void from missing him, but she was killing it at school and tutoring and maintaining /building old and new friendships.

She forgave him because it was obvious he had suffered and struggled mightily and he also loved her just as much!!!

I think the bullies annoyed us more than they did her, lol.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!

There will be four more. They're just torturing us for fun. You can watch episode 21 on daily motion.

I'm on constant rewatch with this one. Lin Yiyang is so sexy and the way he looks at and touches her just slays me every single time!!!

I'm already there. Scrolled through the final episodes even though I can't speak a word of Mandarin!

From a reddit poster:

Episode 21!!!!!!!

is on Daily Motion!!!!!!!!!!

Kill me now. Where is episode 21? What is this four days they speak of??????? Are these streaming sites trying to drive me mad, like I'm not already crazy waking up in the wee hours to watch and ruining my skin?

And me!!!!!!!

when they talked about how he hated wearing black all the time she asked what his favorite color was and he said red.

Your message was perfectly clear. :)

I also love the bromance between the three male leads. The female lead's cousin was so happy to reconnect with Lin he was ready to sell (as they say in these dramas) the poor girl to him. He was, like, you have to marry him--which was so out of character and funny. I also loved the younger cousin; such a sweet boy.

And at least our darling Cherry didn't take to her bed for weeks and maybe months when her true love disappeared, unlike our sweet Sangyan, who didn't leave his bedroom until his little sister told him she learned about heartbreak while watching what happens in fairytales when the prince can't find the princess: He works hard, gets his shit together and in the end prevails. I love that scene so much. When Yifan finally reentered his life, he had excelled at uni, had a great job till he didn't want it anymore, started a thriving business with his friends.

I love how the whole family embraced him, feeding his tummy and his soul. And he probably spent all of the time they weren't at school or sleeping together with Cherry.

I felt it, too. She was so brave and grown up to try to reassure him in the beginning that she wasn't freaking out over his reduced circumstances: he looked healthy, had a place to live, people to talk to. Those factors were likely reassuring to her, but she was deeply saddened by how he was living and she knew revealing that sadness would hurt him and maybe push him away.

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Also, the landlord couldn't just leave her leaning on her suitcase in that chaotic hallway. It was safer for her to be inside the sad flat and he also probably wanted her to see the walls of love, when he said she would understand how he knew who she was when she went inside.

I was amazed by Cherry's awsomeness when they first met in his sad flat and she said he wasn't homeless, has a tan that makes him look healthier, and people around him to interact with. She didn't shed a tear or show how devastated she was for him and his severely reduced circumstances until she wept in the shower.

Some posters fret over her alleged obsession with him, but after seeing the walls of love, is there a question that he feels the same way? She needs to photograph them so she can show the doubters and say, "See? See? He was thinking of and loving me, too!"

As for Young Master Yu, he confessed (with the photo in his wallet) and gave her the info she needed to go find JQX all in one go, which was so honorable. He let her know how he was feeling, but also accepted she doesn't feel the same way and didn't try to pursue her.

These actors are so wonderful. I am still swooning over our male lead from his role in The Best Thing and our FL from Amidst a Snowstorm of Love. Watching these and others, I amazed these people don't fall in love in real life. And between acting in Amidst a Snowstorm of Love and Our Generation (I don't do costume dramas), I wonder what the actress thinks about love and what her expectations are.

I am so looking forward to my rewatch of this when I won't feel anxious because I will know everything will be alright.