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On The Story of Pearl Girl Nov 3, 2024
Watching Story of the Pear Girl is an inspiring and thought-provoking experience, one that resonates deeply with me because of the heartfelt journey of its female lead and the profound mentorship that shapes her path. The drama beautifully depicts her evolution from a lowly slave to a smart trader through the guidance of two contrasting mentors, each embodying a distinct approach to nurturing her growth.

One mentor (first male lead) embodies the belief that true strength comes from facing fires and life’s challenges directly, allowing her to stumble, experience pain, and learn through her own trials and failures. This “sink or swim” approach, though tough and sometimes unforgiving, empowers her to develop courage, independence, resilience, and a resourceful spirit that only hard-earned experiences can forge. It speaks to the notion that growth often comes from stepping into the unknown, and embracing mistakes and failures, no matter how daunting.

In contrast, her other mentor (second male lead) embraces a gentler, more protective approach, stepping in to shield her from potential dangers and pitfalls. This approach may creates a safety net, ensuring she feels secure and supported. However, it raises questions about whether sheltering someone too much can keep them from self-discovery, fully realizing their potential, and strength. It could also stifling independence and resilience that is only forged through struggle.

The interplay between these two approaches weaves a powerful narrative that goes beyond simple storyline. It delves into the essence of personal growth—how the paths we take and the guidance we receive can shape not only who we are but who we become. It is a mirror to our own lives and choices, reminding us that growth can be found in both the storms we brave and the hands that hold us steady, and how both are essential in the journey of becoming one’s best self.
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Replying to honeylemoncha Oct 31, 2024
what's everyone watching next? 👀 i don't really search for cdramas and i've only got the glory (gui nv) on…
Fangs of fortune
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
You need a stainless steel heart to watch till the end lol :D
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
Ideed. I can understand not all drama follow novel. However, the drama writer is so gullible and stupid to add a nonsensical poisoning plot without and justifiable reason. The drama writer just anyhow write without using any brain cell.
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
It not clear in the drama what is holding up the 2ml to give the antidote to fl. However, it is obvious the antidote was sttolen from the 2ml due to his complacenc. He did not even realise spy has been planted on him by the evil xiyan general, who is openly hostile to him.
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
The damn script writer intentionally added this stupid poisoning nonsense to ensure the fl dead young to extract tears from audiences.

But i think it backfired with the rating keep dropping probably because audiences are angry instead of tears flowing with the bad ending.
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
Because the antidote still a seed and cannot be used to cure the fl when he confronting the evil crown prince.

It can only use to cure the fl after it blooming flower.
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
The evil general has spy on the 2nd ml.

They can't find the 2nd antidote. It is rare herb and hence could not mass produce.

Well this poisoning nonsense that led to the bad ending is not in the novel. The drama writer just anyhow screwed add this nonsense to glorifying suffering lol
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
The ml is confronting the evil crown prince to rescue his father and think he will likely get killed. So he sent the fl and the antidote away to 2ml. He thought 2ml will be able to bring fl to xiyan and keep her save.

Too bad, the 2ml is too complacent and let the antitode stolen by the evil xiyan general.
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Replying to Loocee Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I know she died by poison but is it the original poison from when she was his assassin? I guess they never got…
Yes, it is the original poison from when she was his assassin. The ml got the antidote from cp, and pass to 2ml. However, it was stolen by the evil xiyan general from the 2ml, and ate by the moron xiyan king.
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Replying to mmansaray35 Oct 31, 2024
You are absolutely right. I was just thinking this same thing, but applying it to the ratings of both shows. Even…
We need more tough crowds to elevate the quality of the dramas. Otherwise any stupid writers can jus anyhow writing nonsensical plots and get away thinking audiences happily buy their stupidity.
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Replying to Cya615 Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
Is this how it ends in the novel ?
No. Novel is Happy Ending. The stupid drama writer screwed up with a nonsensical poisoning plot on the fl that led to the bad ending.
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Replying to Mellowrose Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
I hte this episode... jinghe cry bucket of tear lost & wandering like madman.. and she there smiling.. gigglimg…
You seem to forget that Jing He was the one who poisoned Mei Lin without any justifiable reason in the first place that ked to her death.

Isn’t it ironic and sarcastic that you’re blaming Mei Lin for the harm caused by Jing He?
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On Kill Me Love Me Oct 31, 2024
Title Kill Me Love Me Spoiler
This drama feels similar to A Journey to Love (AJTL), where nearly every character meets a tragic end. However, it’s even more heartbreaking for the male lead here, as he is left to endure years of grief and regret over the female lead's death. Despite her relentless fight for survival, her life is ultimately cut short due to the male lead’s reckless actions, poisoning her without any justifiable reason.

In AJTL, the male lead was spared prolonged suffering by a swift death, making this drama’s ending even more brutal and tragic—a "bad ending" more devastating than AJTL’s. The lingering pain and regret heighten the cruelty, leaving a deeper emotional impact that surpasses the sorrowful conclusion of A Journey to Love. The ending feels nonsensical and poorly written, seemingly existing only to satisfy the writer’s ego by glorifying suffering.

Initially, I rated this drama 10/10, but I downgraded it due to the poor writing surrounding the female lead’s poisoning, which led to this nonsensical and bad ending. However, kudos to the superb performances of WJY and LXY.
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Replying to jabofi Oct 31, 2024
Now that Kill Me Kill Me has completely broken me I need recommendations on something completely fun and non-angsty…
Try "Love me, Love my voice"
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On The Rise of Ning Oct 15, 2024
Title The Rise of Ning Spoiler
In Episode 2, the grandmother reveals to the FL that the ML's mother, who was a maid, bribed a servant, slept with the father while he was drunk, and became pregnant. But did the ML's mother, as a maid, really do that?

The father constantly accuses and blames the FL and ML without hesitation, solely to protect his reputation, even though neither has done anything wrong. Given the father’s obsession with preserving his reputation above all else, I’m more inclined to believe that he assaulted and raped the ML’s mother while drunk, then fabricated this story to shift the blame onto her.

What is your thought?
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Replying to Val W Oct 15, 2024
Title The Rise of Ning Spoiler
He is the real son born from a maid who seduced his father and was punished for doing so. That's why the father…
Given the father's obsession with his reputation above all else, it's more likely that he assaulted and rape the maid while drunk and then shifted all the blame onto her. The father has repeatedly accused and blame the FL without a second thought, solely to protect his reputation. So, I'm more inclined to believe that the father assaulted and rape the maid and blamed everything on her and the ML.
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Replying to Mstique Oct 14, 2024
Regarding misconception 2: I think the issue in the comment section is not about her sounding “too childish.”…
Perceptions of voice, much like noise levels, can be quite subjective and vary from person to person. While some may interpret her voice as lacking depth or using a consistent tone, others might perceive it differently. To me, her voice seems fine, but I understand that these nuances can be experienced differently depending on individual preferences and expectations.
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On The Rise of Ning Oct 14, 2024
Two common misconceptions I've seen in the comments about this drama:

1. Incest between the FL and ML: I’m not sure why this assumption keeps coming up—it seems to stem from misunderstandings or misinterpretations. By episode 11, it’s clear that the FL and ML were separated as children and share no romantic connection. There’s no inappropriate behavior or physical contact between them. In fact, the ML distances himself when the FL gets too close, treating her like a younger sister. The FL also views the ML as an older brother, particularly because they’ve both endured similar experiences of neglect and abuse from their father and other family members. Their bond is growing stronger through mutual support against their abusive family, especially the father, his concubine, and the fifth sister—not due to any romantic attraction. There is also no blood relationship between them as they have different father and mother, which the ML already know by episode 8.

2. FL's voice being too childish: The FL is portrayed as the youngest child in the family, young teenager, under 15 years old, so it makes sense for her voice to sound youthful. Her voice aligns with her age and character development in the drama. Expecting her to sound more mature just doesn’t fit the role she’s playing.

Nothing personal—just trying to clear up some misunderstandings.
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Replying to Shen Li Sep 25, 2024
The FL has no self respect what so ever, falling for a guy who killed her over and over, low self esteem, stupid,…
Both the FL and Shen Li are portrayed by talented actresses, and it’s disappointing to see you using Shen Li's name to launch personal attacks against the FL. Are you trying to incite a pointless fan war, or is this just rooted in misogyny? Criticizing someone's appearance or making personal attacks is completely unnecessary and inappropriate. Let’s appreciate the actors' talents without resorting to such negativity.
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