It’s different for every body when it comes to family and husbands. I really don’t blame her because her priority…
i blame her. The FL has always found ways to help her cousin --ALWAYS -- the cousin's husband is a soldier who can die at any moment -- to withhold him to so-called protect him this time is ridiculous and just a Qiao move -- the FL helped them gain Boya by manipulating her husband ---- its very poetic that they once again turned their backs to help others when the odds didnt seem great-- the cousin is the selfish one and is her father's child
lolol -- i like that it wasnt too bad of a situation and she acknowledged his need to check her msgs as the leader ( plus she isnt totally on his side yet)
my point is --- he is right to not totally trust her lol ..which she kind of acknowledged ... her family really cant be trusted as allies doh --- her uncle and advisor will definitely betray Wei and her
FL - writes secret messages to family - to benefit her family that betrayed her husband's family also FL- how dare you read my letters and not trust me
this is a wonderful drama, with two really cool main actors. i love their independent charm and their interactions.…
we NEEDED her to take one step towards him -especially would have made sense since she missed the moment in her time travel dream when he walked away --- its been about 3 years n im back here to complain about how they messed that part up...the ML deserved being chased or confessed to --- he was so nice and so pitiful -- it just never made sense for them to show him breaking down and still having to be the one to come to her!!! can we get a remake of that episode>???!!
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also FL- how dare you read my letters and not trust me
lolol