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Once again with the putting words in my mouth. I never said they aren't friends. I never said they hate each other. What I said but you want to pretend not to understand (or maybe you don't) is there is no way to know whether they are "friends" IRL or not from these marketing videos. They are artificial by their nature.

I'm not "going around" forcing" anything on anyone. I'm commenting on a thread under a show, like any other normal, non-hysterical, non-invested BL viewer might do. Why are you going around this thread forcing YOUR opinion on others?

Wow, Your hostility certainly does seem like something a person who is willing to "agree to disagree" would be feeling. But hey, you do you!

Consider not using the lame term "triggering" to describe simple, strongly stated expressions of opinion.

Consider not putting words in my mouth. Not once did I state or imply that these guys "hate each other." That's something YOU are projecting onto my comments. Jesus.

"simple-minded" generally = "intellectually disabled." Why are you offended by what I wrote? Do you think intellectually disabled people are somehow beneath you? That it's rude to acknowledge a disability? Do you think brain-damaged people are less than you? Those are your hang-ups, not mine. "Intellectually disabled" is a diagnosis, not an insult.

From the Cambridge dictionary:
sim·ple·mind·ed
ADJECTIVE
simple-minded (adjective)
having VERY LITTLE INTELLIGENCE or judgment:
"simpleminded theories" · "he is a simpleminded minion"

smh

Is that in the dictionary? Any suspect, likely fake interactions recorded for the purposes of publicity is my definition of "fan service." Just the fact of the camera being there changes what takes place in front of it or, as with the Kardashians, makes one wonder if what's being recorded would take place at all without a camera present. This isn't rocket science.

Where did I say anyone was "unaware? I didn't.
Wow, the degree to which you're threatened by a comment you disagree with is telling. "Elevate myself." lol "Shaming people..." lol Such originality of phrasing! Who do you think you are to "shame" me for having an opinion you don't like? Good god. I don't apologize for using my brain and, you know, thinking. Try it.
"Blaming and shaming" again. So lame. I'm not trying to provide solutions in the Thai BL industry for god's sake. They can and will do what they want. But I do have the right to express an opinion about what they do, even if it's one you don't hold yourself.

"Present a solution. If you can't, fuck off." You are seriously out of whack. Such abusive language when I haven't used the same in my comments. You are aggressively attacking me for expressing the widely-held belief that these type of videos are inauthentic and for marketing purposes. One might even think you are telling me to STFU. Get a grip. Get a life. And one more obscenity directed my way will get you reported to the mods. In the words of Taylor Swift, "you need to calm down."

I'm plenty relaxed, thanks. I hope you are too.

"not everything needs to be under a microscope." EXACTLY. So why are they recording their supposedly "private" friendship activities and posting the videos to the Internet? Why don't they just hang out without benefit of phones or cameras? For publicity purposes, is the answer. And anything filmed for publicity purposes is suspect.

BTW, are there any young women hanging out with the guys in these videos? If not, I wonder why that would be... Please let me know, as I have no plans to partake of these totally real, just-friends, recordings. Thanks!

It's possible to ask these questions and remain very "relaxed," by the way.

How do you know that "no one" makes inaccurate assumptions based on these videos? You don't.

Of course they do. Or maybe they're not really friends at all. Who knows? The fact they are recording their activities however, leads one to wonder how much of what goes on in front of the camera is authentic. As I said above though, I'm not trying to stop anyone who enjoys this stuff from doing so. Go right ahead. I'm merely expressing my view on the matter.

No misinterpretation h ere. I know Krist claims to be straight and they aren't hanging out as lovers. It is simply my opinion that people who films their supposedly friendly interactions over a prolonged period for a camera, such as the horrible Kardashian family here in the U.S., are not to be taken as authentically what they are presenting themselves to be. If they're good friends and want to hang out, why the camera? Why the posting to the Internet? For marketing purposes, that's why.

I'm surprised you're even responding to what I wrote. It's been common knowledge for a long time that these fan service videos are BS. I'm not saying Krist and Fluke hate each other, just that filmed "private" interactions aren't "real." I'm also aware that MANY BL actors, especially from Thailand, do the same thing. They too are performing as a means of publicity. And it works. People such as yourself eat it up. Which is find, great, go ahead. Enjoy.

Thank you, GG! I will check it out.

Yeah, well, it sounds like a lot of "people," such as the three commenters above my comment, are unaware of your assertion and take these "entertainment" videos as reflections of reality and actual relationships between actors.

Also, could you explain how you "enjoy" watching videos of activities which are entirely manufactured, but obviously designed to be received as real? Seems like a brainless, gullible watch to me.

By all means, "enjoy" all you want, but don't expect others not to comment on how ridiculous the whole thing is. Plus, there is the ongoing problem of fan service videos sparking rumors of actor vs. actor feuds or worse, damaging careers with unintended consequences.

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Do you regard PR-generated marketing/ship videos to be actual, real life? You don't think maybe they're just a tiny bit set up and staged by the marketing department and that the actors are obligated to appear in them as part of their contracts?

Or maybe it's just me...

At this point, I'm 90% watching for Fluke, 10% for Krist. The story is just another typical Thai BL plot with a time-travel element thrown in, but Fluke is charismatic and hot, and Krist is semi-amusing in this part. However, the way he's playing it, the story is easier to buy if I look at Kawi as intellectually disabled.

Pear: "Maybe you should try thinking MORE." Thank you, Pear! I've been waiting for someone to say that in a BL beginning with the first of the 10,457 times I've heard a person say "Don't overthink it" or "Don't think too much" in a Thai BL.

Like the way Fluke shifts his shoulders when he walks. Oh, and that scene where he was walking away from Krist after the scene on the grass and the green-screen background was so obviously fake was very strange. His walking speed was out of sync with the speed of the camera, so it came off as if he were floating or something...lol

I don't get why so many commenters are blaming Souta for everything. How many chances has Mahiro had to speak up and be forthright but didn't do so? Even in ep. 10 he sits across from Souta, says he's come to tell him something, and then lies through his teeth, implying that he is NO LONGER in love with Souta when we all know he very much is so.

You could have written this little monologue for half the characters in the many lame, triple/quadruple-misunderstanding-based BLs out there. :) But I don't get why so many commenters are blaming Souta for everything. How many chances has Mahiro had to speak up and be forthright but didn't do so? Even in ep. 10 he sits across from Souta, says he's come to tell him something, and then lies through his teeth, implying that he is NO LONGER in love with Souta when we all know he very much is so.

This has become utterly ridiculous.

Double-self-sabotage-faux-misunderstanding tropes, repeated endlessly, with a clueless, child-like young woman, an ex-BF, and an amusing store manager thrown into the mix, is the summation of this show's lame plot, a word I use loosely here. So many plot elements to mock but it would take too much time and not be worth it so I won't.

I continue to watch this show for one reason: Kondo Shori. He is cute/handsome/hot, charismatic, and extremely likeable as an actor. I enjoy watching him onscreen, even if the story his character is trapped in is a laughable sham. He looks to have a great body too. :)

That little girl finally saw what's been in front of her face for ten episodes but she can't even deliver a proper face-slap. I wish Souta had slapped her back. She's the one who forced herself on him and into the situation so it's a bit late to play the victim.

I feel zero chemistry/attraction between Souta and Mahiro. Especially, I see nothing at all that would make Mahiro seem attractive to Souta. They're just reading lines from a script.

Thanks for the recs. Double Mints is in my top ten gay films list and The Novelist series is in my top ten dramas. We have similar tastes, it seems.

Regarding Our Dining Table, it's funny to read comments here insisting there is great chemistry between the leads and rationalizing how great and "fluffy" it is that they almost never touch each other. Hell, they never got past being awkward together when they were truly alone. I'm beginning to think the wonderful Tane is the only reason they hang out together. If they move to Tokyo together without Tane their relationship is doomed. :)

I don't think I've even heard of "Sing In Love." I will check it out.

On edit: Turns out I HAVE tried to watch Sing In Love but dropped it about 2/3 of the way through. I just could not stomach any more of the lead actor, Tanaba Yu. He creeps me out.

That's why for me Grey Rainbow ends the moment after they snap the first group photograph after the wedding ceremony. If I didn't consider it done and finished at that point It would move from being in my top ten BLs to dropping off the list entirely. As you said, the last 15 minutes are insane.

The weirdest part was how the script tried to convince us at the end that the surviving lover is just A-OK with his husband being dead because his ghost shows up now and then and they have a good chat. Bonkers!

I loved the setting moving from university to the gritty elephant farm/resort, which was a unique setting for a BL too. Loved the scene where Elephant Mom changed her mind and accepted her son's relationship by moving his BF's clothing/belongings into the same room with him. The son goes ballistic before he finds out, which provides some humor. Loved the scenes where Elephant Son dresses up like a woman to give the kid a "mom." lol

Yes, another good show from before GMMTV monopolized BL in Thailand and started up the TOOT factory.

I'm sorry the comment came across as "vehement." I was not feeling vehement when I wrote it. :D I get what you're trying to say but I don't think the makers were going for Jane Austen here. I think they were going for "let's do anything but show two dudes being physically affectionate (beyond one hand-hold, a hug and a fake kiss) in FIVE HOURS of screen time. As I wrote earlier, these guys didn't even touch when they had the entire house to themselves. That's not normal human behavior.

I'm glad-and unsurprised-you have an open mind to rewatching and considering ITSAY and IPYTM to see if you can catch some glimpses of what I see in them. However, please know that I totally respect your opinion of the two shows and don't expect you to like everything I do. That would be boring. :)

Also, totally agree about sometimes having a gut negative feeling about a character that isn't completely reasonable, logical or explainable. I'm trying to think of a show or two in which I dislike a lead character to the point it ruins the entire thing for me, but I can't, off the top of my head. I will put some thought to that.

For me, ITSAY/IPYTM didn't say "Teh is a great guy all-round, we don't know what you're complaining about?" though. There are multiple, mostly Thai BLs which feature leads I can't stand but the fangirls love, and who are obviously meant for us to hold in high regard. I don't think that's where ITSAY/IPYTM were coming from at all. They said to me "here's this dude, Teh, who struggles mightily against himself and actually becomes MORE troublesome (I'm struggling not to use the word "problematic" here, lol) as we go forward, but please take time to consider the totality of who he is and why." For whatever reasons I found that a really engaging point of view to consider.

It's also OK if you just can't really deal with Teh's looks and his "big face" puts you off to a visceral degree. hahaha He is not the most conventionally handsome actor, that is for sure. The shape of his face also makes his smile unusual/interesting but I still find him overall attractive and I just like something I feel FROM him. I'm sure you might remember the scene in ITSAY during which he comes to realize he is passionately in love with Oh-aew but he is still agonizingly uneasy with his emerging sexuality and internalized homophobia. He feels torn in several directions with no idea what to do and this results in the ugly-cry to end all ugly-cries in BL history. I one hundred percent understood what his pain was all about and I admired the actor's willingness to go that far in expressing it.

I don't know about you, Maggie, but I have definitely been through a few epic ugly-cries in my life, one of them specifically engendered by a situation almost identical to Teh's in that scene, and I'm sure I looked just as ugly. :D Problem was, even I who love the show thought it went on too long. We saw Teh sobbing hysterically for like two minutes, which was fine, that's the actor's job, but the DIRECTOR needed to pull him back and reshoot or do a better job in the editing room and cut half of it.

OK, I think you know I love those shows. It's time for me to do a rewatch. But know I will not be annoyed if you don't, nor do I expect you to ever change your mind.