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Qimeng is such an amazing person, she's genuinely inspiring. She was also stunning in the black dress, matched perfectly with Rose <3 I'm sure she'll find someone who will properly appreciate her in the future, she's the full package.

Haha, fair enough. Yue'er is extremely beautiful. At first when half of the men in the house were interested in her, I wasn't a big fan (of course this is no fault of her own) because I don't like when this happens in dating shows. But seeing her discussions with Kaiyi and Xilun I began to really like her and empathize with her, she seems to be a bit of an overthinker. I especially like her conversations with Xilun, because I feel like she opens up more, as opposed to Hewen with whom she acts a bit more guarded (though I think this might be, because as you also said, I feel more of a friends vibe with her and Xilun).
I just felt a bit bad about Xilun seeing some of the meaner comments here, because while some of his actions also irk me a bit, I think it's not fair to put the blame entirely on him for what seems to be more so Yue'er and Hewen's failure to properly communicate. So I got a bit defensive when the age reason was used for Yue'er, and not for Xilun. I do wish he would read the room a bit more, and also give Qimeng a fair chance even if it doesn't go anywhere, but well..
All in all I do agree a lot with you (especially about Hewen, he's actually my favourite, for the reasons you listed!)

Another thing that people often forget, is that Xilun is the same age as Yue'er. He is very young as well, and I think some of his more unlikeable behaviours can be explained by this. He doesn't seem to have any ill intent, and seems like a genuine person. I'm sure watching this back, he will learn and grow from it. But I feel bad for people being particulary judgy towards him around here, when he's also just 22 and is probably overwhelmed/unsure how to act at times.