halloweenpumpkin

I'm half way through and I don't understand why it's hated so much 🧐
Also, I don't see him as toxic as people make him sound to be.

Edit: It went kinda downhill from ep 6 onwards lol

At times I felt like I was watching a fusion of My love from the Stars, Goblin and Angel Last Mission. But overall it was very enjoyable, the leads had great chemistry and I loved their bickering. It definitely had some missed opportunities that would have made it much better, but still fun to watch.

I've been seeing a lot of sweeping comments seeming to imply as if grooming/dating (and abuse) minors is an attitude exclusive in Korea and the Korean entertainment industry. Let's not act as if this doesn't happen anywhere else in the world, especially in the West.

IU worked on 2 dramas with him, so they were colleagues, and she knew him since 2011 (dream high). Their friendship was also heavily marketed for pr, so take celebrity friendships with a pinch of salt. Given that she was in a similar situation could be that she didn't think of it as an issue at the time. She was also very close with Sulli, and she changed a bit after experiencing the loss of 3 friends/colleagues in a very short time.

Yes. It's a slice of life, so it can seem a bit slow at times, but it's a beautiful and comforting drama about healing :)

I remember the hype when it was announced and the disappointment that followed (I was among those disappointed). I decided to give it another chance recently, and I actually really enjoyed it. It's nothing out of the ordinary, but it's the perfect kind of show for when you just want something simple (with a dosage of kdrama cliches) and it does look pretty like a postcard. The nostalgic feeling of the 2010s dramas definitely helped me appreciating it this time round.

It's useless to present the argument of "what if you were him?". A sane adult, nearing 30, wouldn't approach a 15 year old with the intention to engage in a romantic relationship.

Also putting the blame on her family doesn't change the fact that he was a predator. Coming from a dysfunctional family made her an easier target.

So, because she's supposedly also at fault, that erases what he's done? So he shouldn't be held accountable because she agreed to stay in a relationship with him? Despite the fact that he was the one that approached her first?

Since you seem to love analysing the human condition, maybe you should research gaslighting and why victims stay. While you're at it, look into how grooming can still happen even if the age of consent is low and how the law isn't always meant to protect the vulnerable.

Please. Dogs are loving and caring creatures.

Ikr, it always baffles me how misogynistic women can be as well. I just hope these people never have to raise children, especially a girl.

Tbf not only knetz. Unfortunately systematic misogyny is a global thing. People would rather see women die than to hold men accountable for their actions.

Those that are excusing this because she stayed for 6 years or because at the time it was a legal age for consent (or whatever excuse you want to hold on to), a 15 year old is still too young to be involved with a nearly 30 year old. You have to be dimwitted and delusional not to see the power structure and how she was always at a disadvantage. At 27 he was already an A lister and extremely influential. Imagine what it must have felt like for her to get attention from someone like him. Being exposed to the public at such a young age and on top of it coming with a baggage of family issues made her an easy target for a predator. This is what grooming looks like.

I am sorry she had to die for the truth to come out. The sad part is that probably in a couple of weeks he'll continue as if nothing ever happened.