Watched this half through, I guess I wonāt be continuing it because a lot of things annoyed me and when I read some spoilers on the ending, I was like nope, Iām not gonna waste my time watching this ass drama. I started watching this because of WCR, but I guess her beauty and talent canāt save a bad script and storyline. The only thing that hooked me up at first is the flashback of their relationship. I was interested to know how they got married and what were their misunderstanding and struggles that caused them to divorce. After knowing this, Iāve become more annoyed at ML when heās somehow intervening FLās life especially after he knows that someone is pursuing her.
I hate Africa plot in first episodes, like itās so unnecessary? Whatās the point, really? It doesnāt really add any value to the main coupleās dynamic and storyline, but sure, letās be dramatic with the whole warzone, I guess. šThey could actually just made them had their reunion in any other nearby country or even just a countryside in China, but oh well š¤·š»āāļø
I also hate on the whole mommy trap of his adopted son. Sorry, but every time that kid called her, mama, I donāt know why I got pissed off and I donāt find him cute at all. Idk if Iām more mad at why ML just couldnāt explain it properly to the son that sheās not his mom or at FL who secretly enjoyed being used as nanny since ML is sooo busy with his work šš And whatās with the biological mom plot? Like you gotta be kidding me!!
Love heals my ass, I donāt see any part of it as healing. Itās more of being stupid over and over again. With the spoiler I read, is healing even in a room with us?
It's always interesting to see different opinions about the events in the show . But this time I don't get why…
Yes she didnāt like him romantically, but she liked him for the benefits he gave her. I guess people are not used to watch complex MC that they thought she could change over time to be romantically in love with In Gang given how she liked the affection she received from In Gangās grandma.
Many people who enjoy Dear X or feel drawn to Ajinās storyline arenāt admiring her actions or justifying her…
THIS. I really want people to understand that weāre not justifying what Ah Jinās doing but simply enjoying the storyline and how timing and fate unfold itself.
Every drama adaptation makes changes to the original story. I havenāt read the webtoon, but with the adjustments…
I donāt think sheāll have redemption arc, sheās getting darker after she lost grandma, so no amount kindness that could warm her heart anymore as she said in hell, hope is not something that she could hold onto.
. Coffee shop ownerFirst year: Thinking about how to deal with the female lead after getting outSecond year: Thinking…
Heās definitely her guardian angle and heās true with his words of what he said in the car with Ah Jin. I feel sorry for him for what happened, and itās not justifiable for Ah Jin to do that just because sheās desperate but again, like he said, maybe itās just his fate. Though he was somehow gaslighted and trapped by Ah Jinās scheme, heās still the one who hit the bat and killed Ah Jinās dad, he did the deed, not someone else framed him. Itās really complicated.
When Jun Seo frantically laughed after finding out Grandmaās truth⦠did he laugh because what he thought was…
He laughed because now he canāt escape from her. He thought that if she killed grandma then he could cut his relationship with her, leave her for good and he wonāt feel guilty about her anymore. But since she did have some humanity left on her, itās mixed feelings which he didnāt trust her when he pinned the death of grandma and In Gang on her, he thought he knew her but he actually didnāt and now he canāt leave her too because of his guilt will always be there.
The way I see it, Junseo is guilt personified. He does NOT love Ahjin and heĀ“s not obsessed with her either.…
You sum it up well. It shows in earlier episode during high school time, when Jun Seo was staring at Ah Jin, he was reminded of the bathtub scene and the guilt is making who he is now. He even admitted it openly during Ah Jinās birthday celebration. What Ah Jin said to him is hitting the right spot, whcih everytime he condemned her, heās actually condemning himself because he didnāt do anything back then.
The story is very straightforward. Their a creature that can take in human form and the hunter are frightening…
I know that is not yet explained, we watch the same drama, donāt worry. Thatās why I mentioned in my first comment, Iāve so many questions after watching 3 eps and Iām sort of confused. The storyline has yet to answer my questions because itās still a build up, and so far with all the questions I have, to me, this drama is average, it didnāt hook me in the first place so thatās why Iām waitng for couple more episodes to see if the story moves and answered my questions one by one, Iāll be hooked or not. Itās just a harmless comment of my own take how I feel about this drama tho.
The story is very straightforward. Their a creature that can take in human form and the hunter are frightening…
Yes I know so thatās why I said Iāve so many questions in the first comment, and I acknowledge that itās just building up. Itās just that with all the questions I have, Iām intrigued with the drama but not yet fully invested. I donāt understand why people take my comments in a different way as if Iām bashing the drama
he didn't know that's why he asked her.. ahjin the one who promised him "no worry, junseo ya.. i'll only date…
But she did let him go? One time during her birthday she said to him that he didnāt have to do anything, sheās gotten over it and sheās fine. Then the next time when Jun Seo was mad at her for In Gangās death, she said she would never blame Jun Seo while he can blame her all he wants. She also said if he wants to leave her, then do it, run away from her and she wonāt blame him.
She could see that Jun Seo has changed after a year, I think thatās why she said those things.
During Ah Jinās birthday after cutting contact with him for a year, Jun Seo mentioned that his mother treated…
I know š„² to me, the two biggest what ifs that hurt too much if we think about it are: 1. What if Ah Jin got into law school? She might live a different life and might become good prosecutor, judge or attorney on solving the cases. 2. What if grandma didnāt die and she finally escape this hell and live happily with In Gangās family?
I really think that Jun seo is Ah Jin's curse, he's always behind of all of her problems :- Her dad found her…
During Ah Jinās birthday after cutting contact with him for a year, Jun Seo mentioned that his mother treated Ah Jin bad so heās willing to do anything to help her because he feels guilty. Ah Jin immediately replied you donāt have to and she had gotten over it and sheās fine. For some reason, I feel that she really mean it when she said that, because even when JSā mom came to her about JSā investment, she was like so sick and tired of it.
She was also kinda pissed when JS trapped her to become FL for his novel adaptation and she had to oblige because of his investment. When theyāre arguing in his apartment, he asked if she actually fall for In Gang? And she avoided that question. I mean, if she didnāt feel anything, she could just replied no and told him she would come back as promised, and when he tried to lean in and kiss her, she avoided him again.
The story is very straightforward. Their a creature that can take in human form and the hunter are frightening…
I guess not really straightforward to me because I have so many questions. Like how did this earth fiend took human form? who the hell is Ms Lin? What made the hunters be so loyal to protect human from the creatures? I understand Blade & Hound, but kinda confused with Whipās role. Why do Ms Linās group (forgot the name) came to the welfare house and put Gou Ya there? And why the hell they keep the Locust and feed it when I thought theyāre supposed to kill them?
I understand itās just the beginning and itās still in building up phase, thatās why I said Iāve so many questions. But so far I havenāt fully invested and hooked with the storyline.
So I decided to rewatch ep 5-8 because the whole Ah Jin x In Gang plot is interesting.
Hereās the new insights that confirmed my take that Ah Jin did like being in a relationship with In Gang, she liked (not loved) him because of the things he gave her - fame (power), security, family and kindness. Thatās why she went over a year than her original planned and she shed tears for him when he died. But itās conditional, thatās why when grandma died and heās no longer in the right state of mind, thinking of retiring and somehow blocking her career with marriage news, she lost respect and no longer see him as someone valuable to her life anymore.
Conversation between AJ & IG during the break up: AJ: Grandmotherās notebook, I stole it. I wanted to win her favor so I could date you. She found it at my place not long ago and she found out what kind of person I am. And from that shock, sheā¦You understand what I am saying? Ah Jin: Sunbae, how you fell in love with me, and what happened to your grandma⦠In Gang: What did you do? Ah Jin: All I did was tell her the truth. In Gang: I asked what did you do to grandma?! Ah Jin: I simply told her honestlyā¦for once in my life. In Gang: Say that again! Ah Jin: If you donāt let go of me now, youāll be in hell everytime you think of her. Youāre not the type of person who can handle that. Ah Jin: So admit it, our ending was already decided.
She deliberately being vague and made In Gang hated her for causing the death of grandma which she actually felt that itās her fault as she had her hope. Noticed how she mentioned āhellā because thatās what she feel after the death of grandma that she canāt escape from this hell and sheās being punished for having little hope. Knowing how soft hearted In Gang was, she knows that itās best to just leave him because he wouldnāt be able to take it. Though she didnāt actually kill grandma, she blamed herself too as sheās being careless about the notebook, causing grandma to feel sad and not eating the whole day which caused her to have dizzy and fell down the stairs. By the break up scene, her heart has gone dark and sheās no longer relying on hope and with In Gangās mind was no longer aligned with her goal, she had to discard him. Thatās why she said she canāt go down with him together and asked him to understand her.
If we jump to the conversation between Ah Jin and Jun Seoās mom, together with the flashback of what happened between grandma and Ah Jin:
Ah Jin: Do you know when I hated you the most? *In Gangās voice: What did you do to grandma?
Back to the flashback of Ah Jin & grandma
Ah Jin: I admit⦠that was my intention at first. But I like In Gang oppa so much, so Iā¦wanted you to love me too. Iāll take care of it, Iāll tell In Gang oppa the truth and end this. Grandma: Look at me, until now, I still stand by it, youāre my one of my children just like In Gang and In Mo. Grandma: When your child does wrong, you scold them, and embrace them again. Thatās what a parent does.
Then Ah Jin admitted that sheās wrong and nodded when grandma asked if she wonāt do it again. And grandma told her to keep the truth to just between them. At this point, she had her hope to escape from āhellā and live with grandma and In Gang.
Back to her conversation with Sun Jeoās mom: Ah Jin: I hated you the most when you were kind to me once in a while, because I would be tricked by your kindness and started to like it (fall for it). I was afraid of having even a tiny bit of false hope. Thatās what scared me.
When Grandma showed kindness, sheās afraid before and didnāt trust her though she felt good about it. With the incident, since grandma still accepted her when she did wrong, she started to like the kindness she received from grandma. Then when grandma died in front of her, her last hope and last lifeline shattered in front of her.
Ah Jin: But now I know for sure, in hell, hope is something you should never hold on to.
Ok back to the break up conversation, Ah Jin said to In Gang that she simply told Grandma the truth and sheās being honest for once in her life. So she liked him, and she really wanted grandma to love her because she craved for parentās love and thatās what grandma had been giving to her. So thatās the time when sheās being honest for once in her life, because she actually wanted that life.
Some might say, but sheās a sociopath, she doesnāt know about love and care about others. Sociopath can love someone but itāll be conditional and to her benefit, which both grandma and In Gang did give her what she wanted during the relationship. Sheās also capable of shed tears for others (when grandma fell off the stairs and when In Gangās death), but I take it as more for herself that she lost what she actually wanted and she couldnāt break free of this āhellā
I hate Africa plot in first episodes, like itās so unnecessary? Whatās the point, really? It doesnāt really add any value to the main coupleās dynamic and storyline, but sure, letās be dramatic with the whole warzone, I guess. šThey could actually just made them had their reunion in any other nearby country or even just a countryside in China, but oh well š¤·š»āāļø
I also hate on the whole mommy trap of his adopted son. Sorry, but every time that kid called her, mama, I donāt know why I got pissed off and I donāt find him cute at all. Idk if Iām more mad at why ML just couldnāt explain it properly to the son that sheās not his mom or at FL who secretly enjoyed being used as nanny since ML is sooo busy with his work šš And whatās with the biological mom plot? Like you gotta be kidding me!!
Love heals my ass, I donāt see any part of it as healing. Itās more of being stupid over and over again. With the spoiler I read, is healing even in a room with us?
She could see that Jun Seo has changed after a year, I think thatās why she said those things.
1. What if Ah Jin got into law school? She might live a different life and might become good prosecutor, judge or attorney on solving the cases.
2. What if grandma didnāt die and she finally escape this hell and live happily with In Gangās family?
She was also kinda pissed when JS trapped her to become FL for his novel adaptation and she had to oblige because of his investment. When theyāre arguing in his apartment, he asked if she actually fall for In Gang? And she avoided that question. I mean, if she didnāt feel anything, she could just replied no and told him she would come back as promised, and when he tried to lean in and kiss her, she avoided him again.
I understand itās just the beginning and itās still in building up phase, thatās why I said Iāve so many questions. But so far I havenāt fully invested and hooked with the storyline.
Hereās the new insights that confirmed my take that Ah Jin did like being in a relationship with In Gang, she liked (not loved) him because of the things he gave her - fame (power), security, family and kindness. Thatās why she went over a year than her original planned and she shed tears for him when he died. But itās conditional, thatās why when grandma died and heās no longer in the right state of mind, thinking of retiring and somehow blocking her career with marriage news, she lost respect and no longer see him as someone valuable to her life anymore.
Conversation between AJ & IG during the break up:
AJ: Grandmotherās notebook, I stole it. I wanted to win her favor so I could date you. She found it at my place not long ago and she found out what kind of person I am. And from that shock, sheā¦You understand what I am saying?
Ah Jin: Sunbae, how you fell in love with me, and what happened to your grandmaā¦
In Gang: What did you do?
Ah Jin: All I did was tell her the truth.
In Gang: I asked what did you do to grandma?!
Ah Jin: I simply told her honestlyā¦for once in my life.
In Gang: Say that again!
Ah Jin: If you donāt let go of me now, youāll be in hell everytime you think of her. Youāre not the type of person who can handle that.
Ah Jin: So admit it, our ending was already decided.
She deliberately being vague and made In Gang hated her for causing the death of grandma which she actually felt that itās her fault as she had her hope. Noticed how she mentioned āhellā because thatās what she feel after the death of grandma that she canāt escape from this hell and sheās being punished for having little hope. Knowing how soft hearted In Gang was, she knows that itās best to just leave him because he wouldnāt be able to take it. Though she didnāt actually kill grandma, she blamed herself too as sheās being careless about the notebook, causing grandma to feel sad and not eating the whole day which caused her to have dizzy and fell down the stairs. By the break up scene, her heart has gone dark and sheās no longer relying on hope and with In Gangās mind was no longer aligned with her goal, she had to discard him. Thatās why she said she canāt go down with him together and asked him to understand her.
If we jump to the conversation between Ah Jin and Jun Seoās mom, together with the flashback of what happened between grandma and Ah Jin:
Ah Jin: Do you know when I hated you the most?
*In Gangās voice: What did you do to grandma?
Back to the flashback of Ah Jin & grandma
Ah Jin: I admit⦠that was my intention at first. But I like In Gang oppa so much, so Iā¦wanted you to love me too. Iāll take care of it, Iāll tell In Gang oppa the truth and end this.
Grandma: Look at me, until now, I still stand by it, youāre my one of my children just like In Gang and In Mo.
Grandma: When your child does wrong, you scold them, and embrace them again. Thatās what a parent does.
Then Ah Jin admitted that sheās wrong and nodded when grandma asked if she wonāt do it again. And grandma told her to keep the truth to just between them. At this point, she had her hope to escape from āhellā and live with grandma and In Gang.
Back to her conversation with Sun Jeoās mom:
Ah Jin: I hated you the most when you were kind to me once in a while, because I would be tricked by your kindness and started to like it (fall for it). I was afraid of having even a tiny bit of false hope. Thatās what scared me.
When Grandma showed kindness, sheās afraid before and didnāt trust her though she felt good about it. With the incident, since grandma still accepted her when she did wrong, she started to like the kindness she received from grandma. Then when grandma died in front of her, her last hope and last lifeline shattered in front of her.
Ah Jin: But now I know for sure, in hell, hope is something you should never hold on to.
Ok back to the break up conversation, Ah Jin said to In Gang that she simply told Grandma the truth and sheās being honest for once in her life. So she liked him, and she really wanted grandma to love her because she craved for parentās love and thatās what grandma had been giving to her. So thatās the time when sheās being honest for once in her life, because she actually wanted that life.
Some might say, but sheās a sociopath, she doesnāt know about love and care about others. Sociopath can love someone but itāll be conditional and to her benefit, which both grandma and In Gang did give her what she wanted during the relationship. Sheās also capable of shed tears for others (when grandma fell off the stairs and when In Gangās death), but I take it as more for herself that she lost what she actually wanted and she couldnāt break free of this āhellā