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I watched up to episode 18, and it seems like Cen Jin does have a problem with avoiding things that she can't handle emotionally, especially with Li Wu. She often abruptly cuts off the conversation in the middle of their fights, either leaving or telling Li Wu to leave. I understand that it might be her way of preventing the fight from escalating. But sometimes, if she delays resolving the issue for too long and keeps avoiding it, someone as sensitive as Li Wu will definitely think all sorts of things. She should try to confront Li Wu honestly. And Li Wu seems to have a problem with opening up, although sometimes it's a matter of the situation and not entirely his fault. Like when Cen Jin confronting him about the real reason why he chose to go to Yi University. He can't fully explain it, because he can't be honest about his reasons (he wants to stay by Cen Jin's side). But I think he should try to make Cen Jin calm down and understand that he values Cen Jin as a part of closest person and values his own future. That his decision wasn't impulsive and shouldn't be just a silent one. And if he truly values Cen Jin that much, it's best to involve her in important decisions, such as choosing a school or going abroad. Discuss them openly and ask for her opinion.

I saw a clip of them arguing about going abroad on Douyin. At first, it was heartbreaking because their dialogue and acting were so good. But when I opened the comments section, someone commented, "I'm the one going abroad, I'm the one going 😭." It really made me laugh 🤣

That's a relief 😮‍💨

I watched him in remember my boy, played a bad student who dreamed to be a dancer role. In one scene, a teacher caught him talking or something and ask him to recite an English text. He's known to be bad every subject include english. But, when the teacher ask him, and he started to recite, he sounds so fluent in English 😂. So, his acting skills improved

Yeah, that's a cdrama common formula, "I did this for your own good" 😂. Usually abroad become the excuse to the forced break up, I don't really understand this..

I hope they don't add SFL or something similar to this drama to make she realizes that she still love him. It would be a total mess

He's a perfect material son-in-law in asian mom's eyes. So, that's why the mom in love with him

That video really cruel if that's true..I hope not..thank you

Thank you

That's cruel if that's really happen...making him happy in one second and then dump him...😭😭😭😭. Could you share the video link if you have? Thank you

Yes, it would be hurting the three of them if she agree to take a step further with dr. Lu. But, dr. Lu knows that something happened beyond a simple jie jie - di di relationship between them, and she clearly can't setting boundaries with Li Wu, but dr. Lu still ask her to make their relationship go further ? I mean, he should ask her, what's actually she felt about li wu before that.

Which video ? And what happened in that video ?

So, she didn't force him to goe abroad but promised him to go to abroad together then making him go abroad but dumping him ? That's cruel. I don't see that's explained in these episode...which episode is this ? I think she just force him go abroad using, "I don't love you anymore, let's breakup" etc..

That's right, it's honestly very easy to know the cause of the headaches, insomnia, or whatever psychological illness ML is suffering from. Moreover, he keeps mentioning that the time was around the time they broke up and his friend have also told her that when he first arrived in America he was like a walking corpse. I think FL is the type of person who is overprotected with a nearly perfect life. This can be seen from the people around her who are loving (parents and friends), she is good at school, has a good job, and used to have a happy marriage. The only thing that really broke her and felt different from her perfect life path was her ex-husband. Luckily, because she was quite quick to recover from the depression caused by the failed marriage. Because most people I know who have a fairly smooth life, when faced with major life problems, it is quite difficult to be at peace with themselves.

Yes, I also found it quite strange that they were living together. I mean, he wasn't a boy anymore; he was past the legal age. Living alone with an adult man without any ties was strange, especially since it involved sponsorship. A slight inadvertence could have fatal consequences. Initially, she was told that she intended to take ML to her parents' house and let them take care of him, but she didn't because she was having a conflict with her parents. But then, she should have reconsidered whether it was right for them to live together. However, I understand that she did that because from the start, she never considered ML as an adult but rather as a child who needed help. Perhaps, because her emotions were unstable at the time due to the divorce, she didn't think things through properly. Still, it's very easy for boundaries to blur between two people and for them to become more emotionally involved when living alone.

You are right, I also think this separation is needed, in that kind of environment, when he always meet her and receives her help and sponsor from the very start, it will be hard to determine whether it is truly love or just dependence and gratitude. But, the way the two of them separate clearly not the best way because you could see how this is making him have psychological problem.

I'm still confused, why didn't he bring the phone ?

Ahh, so both the platform not functioning anymore 😞. I'm also got info about drama from TT, but because I love searching spoiler, I installed douyin, but I don't know Chinese language so it's quite difficult

I know

I remember he asked Zhang linghe in The Truth about what was his thinking when he filmed romantic scenes 😂. Now, I want to know Zhou keyu answer