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even the dog knew it was her fault ... sigh just once i wish an ML would walk away from an unreasonable FL ...

dude? were you not watching the episode? how many messages were exchanged? sun yu even apologized that the company used her profile to chat with clients

dude thats called catfishing, its illegal. you cannot pretend to be another person and chat up clients. i dont suggest anything, if you cant make it honestly, fold it up. scamming people because your start up is failing geez how low can you get

you're actually justifying scamming people? making fake profiles in a dating app? using employee to chat with clients using fake profiles? whats next make pig butchering sites that sell crypto?

the best friend was running a scam, made fictitious profiles and was catfishing clients. she should punch herself in the face

if thats the case then why when asked if she would join donny, she replied "no i would never betray you"

yes im not saying the ML is right. everyone knows he's controlling, crude, prideful and inconsiderate BUT that still doesnt absolve her from her betrayal. One should always come clean with your BF/gf especially if it might affect them. doing the right thing isnt always "beneficial" but its always the right thing

see when it comes to donny its "i will never betray you by joining his team" so no work life separate there.

its a betrayal of your bf

oh im not siding with the ml, if you see one of my replies to another post, i clearly stated that theres nothing wrong with leaving and theres nothing wrong with advancing her career. its just the keeping it from your bf when he's going to be negatively affected by it. That being said, the ML was a jerk and nothing justifies how he acted. Nothing justifies how she acted as well. Its like when someone else asks you out, you should tell the BF even if you turned the other person down. its the silence that damaging not the action / result aftermath

agreed with everything except the poaching incident. Considering to leave or even leaving is not wrong, keeping it from your boyfriend is. It might even be better or her since she avoids the future problem of "dating your boss" Even the ML said "i gave you 2 chances to tell me" Not saying the ML is right in that situation either. He's too prideful and arrogant. But no way FL gets excused for the poaching incident

when she volunteered to be a witness, was that not personal, ws that not the "boss"'s personal life? when he saved her in the moutains, was that not personal? When he vouched for her when she was transferring teams, was that not personal? when they kept stealing glances during a company retreat and meeting up and showing affection during a company retreat was that not personal? so its separate when she's going to gain but not seprate when it benefits her?

yes thats the very definition of being disloyal. when you put your needs and benefits ahead of your bf and whatever harm it might do them. If she found out that someone else was being poached, she would probably tell him

yes, especially if your bf migght get negatively affected by it. even just the fact that the villain was leaving, you dont think she owes it to her BF to tell him that the manager was leaving? she didnt even know that her Bf was aware of it.

thats not being professional, thats being disloyal. thats your bf, when someone was trying to frame him, the FL was willing to serve as a witness notwithstanding the possible gossip that might ensue if she revealed she was having an intimate dinner with her boss, when her boss's ex showed up and made a scene. But when she might benefit she becomes "professional"?

you dont think she owes it to her BF who is also the general manager to give him a headsup that the other guy was leaving and trying to poach her?

ok let me rephrase then, what she did was not lack of communication, it was betrayal. its like a friend of your bf making a pass at you and you didnt tell your bf about it.

withholding that info from your bf isnt miscommunication but betrayal

no one else going to call out the disloyalty and selfishness of the FL? shouldnt be her first reaction, "oh i have to warn my bf that one of his managers is leaving and is poaching other staff including me".

but how did that prove that wei yan was the villain?