I don’t think the issue is that Tao literally cheated or personally chatted with 45 men. Most people defending…
Here’s a smoother version that keeps your opinion and tone:
I believe they’re both wrong in many ways. I’ve read a lot of comments from people who have read the book, and even they said, “He was a total idiot.” 😂
Well, my view is that he’s a dominating person who clearly has some childhood trauma, and she should try to understand that and think about where he’s coming from. It should be give or take because no women has a job to change a man except his own mom. Yes, he’s an idiot, but he has introduced her as his girlfriend in many places, not as his boss.
She should have told him about the harassment when he genuinely asked her about it. He is weird, but she never really had lunch or dinner with her friends and introduced him as her boyfriend either.
If they’ve been in this relationship for four years, they both should have made certain things clear to each other by now.
And about her ex-boyfriend — seriously, as a woman myself, even I would hate to find out in 30 seconds that my boyfriend is meeting his ex. 😂 The question about stability could have been asked another day, rather than when they were fighting like cats and dogs.
Honestly, I think they both need to understand what they’re actually looking for from this relationship beyond sex.
YJX is a scumbag. He chose FYK, came up with the adultery plan to get rid of FTY as he thought that FTY would…
Sometimes, learning about history from different parts of the world makes me sad as a woman. It must have been incredibly difficult for women to survive when men or even noblewomen could simply sell them off or decide their fate.
I think even today, some people still need to learn that all genders deserve to be treated equally and with respect. Sometimes I also wonder whether women in those days rarely divorced because they were afraid of being abandoned, sold off, or left without any means of supporting themselves.
Maybe, as I said, this is just my perspective as a woman, but our FL could have simply hired her to work in her shop. A woman doesn’t need to learn how to please men; she needs to learn how to stand on her own feet and stand up for herself.
This is from a woman’s perspective, so please don’t tell me off. 😂
I understand that SFL messed up by marrying the guy for status and money, and her maid only made things worse. But she wasn’t the only one who wanted to marry SML. He was the one who came up with the plan to frame FL, created so much drama, and even begged SFL to lie.
It was so wrong of him to say, “Even after so many years, you couldn’t make me fall in love with you.” I mean, seriously, man? You had your eye on another woman the whole time. She wasn’t the one cheating on you.
The concubine’s story is sad, but again, seriously, girl—you have hands and legs! You can work for food, clothes and shelter instead of tricking a man into providing everything for you. I understand that it was her aunt’s decision, but does she not have a mouth to speak for herself? 😭
I believe they’re both wrong in many ways. I’ve read a lot of comments from people who have read the book, and even they said, “He was a total idiot.” 😂
Well, my view is that he’s a dominating person who clearly has some childhood trauma, and she should try to understand that and think about where he’s coming from. It should be give or take because no women has a job to change a man except his own mom. Yes, he’s an idiot, but he has introduced her as his girlfriend in many places, not as his boss.
She should have told him about the harassment when he genuinely asked her about it. He is weird, but she never really had lunch or dinner with her friends and introduced him as her boyfriend either.
If they’ve been in this relationship for four years, they both should have made certain things clear to each other by now.
And about her ex-boyfriend — seriously, as a woman myself, even I would hate to find out in 30 seconds that my boyfriend is meeting his ex. 😂 The question about stability could have been asked another day, rather than when they were fighting like cats and dogs.
Honestly, I think they both need to understand what they’re actually looking for from this relationship beyond sex.
I think even today, some people still need to learn that all genders deserve to be treated equally and with respect. Sometimes I also wonder whether women in those days rarely divorced because they were afraid of being abandoned, sold off, or left without any means of supporting themselves.
Maybe, as I said, this is just my perspective as a woman, but our FL could have simply hired her to work in her shop. A woman doesn’t need to learn how to please men; she needs to learn how to stand on her own feet and stand up for herself.
I understand that SFL messed up by marrying the guy for status and money, and her maid only made things worse. But she wasn’t the only one who wanted to marry SML. He was the one who came up with the plan to frame FL, created so much drama, and even begged SFL to lie.
It was so wrong of him to say, “Even after so many years, you couldn’t make me fall in love with you.” I mean, seriously, man? You had your eye on another woman the whole time. She wasn’t the one cheating on you.
The concubine’s story is sad, but again, seriously, girl—you have hands and legs! You can work for food, clothes and shelter instead of tricking a man into providing everything for you. I understand that it was her aunt’s decision, but does she not have a mouth to speak for herself? 😭