Okay -- The reason why we regard these age gap relationships as “bad” or “wrong” is because of how easy it is to instil negativity and toxicity due to the power dynamics. The younger a person is, the less agency and means of self-protection they have. Being an adult, or being older, means and gives you the ability to stand on your own two feet and being independent enough to accept or reject what you do not like.
I get it, it can be dangerous BUT -- To assume that the younger person is immature, unconscious, blind and undiscerning by virtue of age is to erroneously judge people. In every relationships, even between two adults, you should always make a case by case assumption when you try to ascertain whether the relationship is healthy and look at both people as individuals to determine their level of involvement and whether there's an imbalance SO a relationship can never be judged on age even if you like it or not.
It's alright if you are not okay with it but it isn't alright for you to meddle into people's business and call them victims over it.
When I was a minor I dated an adult. Who are you to judge me 💀
Excuse me? You don't get to assume anything about me when you know 0 things about my relationships and the circumstances. Its actually disrespectful to REAL victims for you to throw that in my face.
Wow, now you are actually going to the extent of judging people's relationships. I know more than 9 couples who…
A relationship should be viewed on its own merits not based on outsider's perspectives and opinions! Its pretty normal where I live, not every relationship is toxic despite the age gap and Im entitled to believe what i want without insulting anyone like you do.
i still cant believe yall preach about not attacking anyone and then attack literally ANYONE who has a different…
Wow, now you are actually going to the extent of judging people's relationships. I know more than 9 couples who met with a large age gap while one of them was indeed still a minor and they have beautiful relationships which shouldn't be judged by anyone but themselves! You have no right to do that. You call people weird for having a different opinion than you and then you get defensive when they speak up. Nah, you don't get to decide what's acceptable within someone's PRIVATE life.
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I get it, it can be dangerous BUT -- To assume that the younger person is immature, unconscious, blind and undiscerning by virtue of age is to erroneously judge people. In every relationships, even between two adults, you should always make a case by case assumption when you try to ascertain whether the relationship is healthy and look at both people as individuals to determine their level of involvement and whether there's an imbalance SO a relationship can never be judged on age even if you like it or not.
It's alright if you are not okay with it but it isn't alright for you to meddle into people's business and call them victims over it.