moonfolk

This is the post from someone that shaded Yuan that you replied:
"I’m really not the type of person who wants to get into fan wars or drag another woman, especially not over a boy. ... But here’s where things get strange. I’ve been watching chinese dating shows for years, and I don’t think I’ve ever seen a situation quite like what’s happening with Luyan and her fandom."

This is what your original post said:
"Far from participating nor encouraging the hate towards a participant. I must say i started to be very disappointed by Ailin's actions ..."

This is part of your reply to that person:
"i find it very strange (almost like you have an ulterior motive) for you start you comment by sayin you're not into fanwar or dragging an innocent woman in the mud just to go right after on a rant that is in fact the very thing you're claiming not to be into. Strange isn't it ? ;)"

Ironically, both of you started with "blablabla I am not here to attack certain participant" but then went on with attacking that participant. Don't you find it an irony that you criticized that person but you actually did the same thing? Your reply to that person really is not in line with what you said here.

It's funny that I was pointing how you twisted the facts, and then you assumed that I was hurt, attacked, triggered, threaten by your simple (not) facts and criticisms. You tried to paint me as an emotional Ailin fan trying to defend her and felt hurt, indirectly trying to belittle and demean what I said. You said that you'll defend both if you see unfair "real attacks" made towards them, but actually attacked one of them and even painted Ailin's behavior with red flag? What made you think that I didn't defend Ailin from the unfair attack? You can see that I don't make many comments and just thread this comment section peacefully and only react when there is a post like yours.

What you did is not being critical but making assumptions and twisting facts. You're free to have your opinion. You're free to like Yuan and becomes Leyuan fan. You're free to not liking Ailin's behavior. But that doesn't mean that you can freely shading the participant, especially with red flag this red flag that and by twisting the facts with your assumptions and theories. I already told how you twisted the facts in my previous post, so if you didn't clear about it you can go back to that post. I won't repeat it again here.

I also already went back to watch the ep4 part 3 and also the train date in ep 3 to check before I replied you in my first post, especially because of your comment about "After Chen confided in Yuan he doesn't want to be in a controlling relationship". I am not interested in debate especially about assumption. Like I said you're free to have your opinion. You can criticized Ailin's behavior if you don't like it, but not by red flag this red flag that and twisting the facts.

And FYI, I am Lanlan fan, not Ailin fan. I also like Ailin, Yifan, Chichi, and Yuan though. All of them except Wang Jue, and Lanlan is my fav. No hate for Wang Jue but also no like for her from me till now. Maybe I will change my mind after I watch her date with Rui Long.

Yuan and Ailin met when they're out from their rooms on the way to Lechen. Don't make it sounds like Ailin followed Yuan. Ailin even stopped and offered Yuan to wait for her to talk first to Lechen but Yuan refused and said that they went together, that's why Ailin was behind Yuan because Yuan kept walking.

You made it that Ailin wanted to pry on the conversation when she decided to stand not too far waiting for her turn, but ignored that other people watching and eavesdropping from their respective rooms with wide open doors, like what Chichi said "no secret on the second floor". Ailin just stood there in awkwardness. Can't you see that Ailin was looking at the direction of other rooms and could only smile awkwardly? Fang even walked passed near them. You even ignored the fact that Yuan also stood there not far on the previous Ailin position after she finished with Lechen waiting for Ailin. So Ailin "decided to ostensibly pry on their talk which is very disrespectful and has put pressure on both Yuan and Lechen", but Yuan not? Ailin even repeatedly looking back at Yuan and decided to close the door so that Yuan couldn't hear the conversation.

Lechen never said to Yuan that he doesn't want to be in controlling relationship (and the way you said it implied as if Ailin tried to control Lechen while she didn't) in their train date. Lechen said that in the past he did 100%, 120%, even 200% his best just so the other person would like him. He also never said anything about "controlling relationship" in the conversation in his room with Yuan. Ailin just wanted a clear stance from Lechen because she saw that Lechen readily brought the card for Yuan and exchanged directly in front of the door, and that made her flabbergasted. Lechen even didn't need to tell Yuan to wait and wrote a card as reply. He readily brought the card with him when he opened the door.

Twisting all of these facts and saying Lechen will reject Ailin in the date and Ailin red flag this and red flag that, and also your reply to someone that tried to shade Yuan, that makes me suspicious that you're just actually a Leyuan fan trying to talk bad shadily about Ailin disguising it as being critical. This is not in line with your reply to that person. While you criticized that person, you actually did the same thing, and what you said can incite a fan war here just like that's already happened in social medias.

If you like Yuan just say you like Yuan. If you don't like Ailin just say you don't like Ailin. If you're neutral then keep neutral. But don't shade the participant with red flag this red flag that. I really can't understand why people really like to label someone else red flag to shade that person.

(Stealing Qruuz's comment) I am with you on this 💯

I also don't play social media much because I don't want people to ruin my mood and fun. I don't use twitter also and I only follow some of the participants on weibo and instagram after the show that i watched ended. I just enjoy the show and don't care about rumors or whatever.

I hope that people won't bring the fan wars or toxic comments to this forum. Let them fight in twitter and weibo if they want, but not here. Korean dating shows comment sections are full of really toxic comments especially My Sibling's Romance and I don't want them to bring it to the Chinese dating show comment section which was quite peaceful usually.

On the WeTV app ofc. If you're an SVIP then you can watch it on that very Wednesday. If you're a VIP only then you should be able to watch the content on Friday or Saturday. But if you're a free user then probably you can only watch the Wednesday content 2 weeks later after the content comes up (since it's still be locked under VIP tag even after a week passes).

Another way to watch for free is using goplay site which you can see the link was provided by Violet just 2 comments before you. This site usually matches the VIP schedule so you can watch the Wednesday content there on Friday or Saturday.

Jerry has not much experiences in romance. He has dating a few times ofc but not many. That's why he hasn't married yet till now. Even Rainie Yang and Ariel Lin that became panelists in past seasons have concern about Jerry because he's too shy. So ofc he'll be interested to know what girls like.

About Chunye, I don't really remember about what you said but since you said that she criticized Muchen then it should be true. I can understand about it though. Muchen was having his feet on two boats leading the two girls who were interested in him. Though he's actually like one girl more, he didn't make it clear to the other girl, and when he tried to make it clear to the other girl, he messed it by not making it clear to the girl that he liked and caused misunderstanding and even made that girl cried in sadness. If you watched the past couple seasons until now, you should know Chunye's personality now. She's a passionate lover type and always vocal about her view and opinion. So ofc she would criticize Muchen. No women will like what Muchen did. That's common sense. I'm not saying that what Muchen did was wrong though, according to the rule, he did nothing wrong. People just dislike what he did, the same like that guy from Korean My Sibling's Romance (he did nothing wrong according to the show's rule but many people disliked what he did). As long as she didn't insult Muchen and only criticized him, I think that's fine.

If you're used to the Korean panelists that only talked superficially, what Chunye did maybe seems too much. I once watched a Japanese dating show (I forget which) and the panelists were even outright outrageous. They ridiculed and laughed at the participant even leading to an insult. Since then I lost my interest in watching Japanese dating show. What Chunye did was nothing compared to those panelists.

I am not here to antagonize or debate you. I am just trying to give explanation or giving another POV. Either you like both of them or not, that's your right and you have your reasons also. I appreciate that you're now stepping up enjoying Chinese dating show also beside Korean dating show, and I hope that you'll keep enjoying it😄

Because each episode is very long that they have to cut it into some parts (in this season they cut it to 3 parts). But MDL here counts each part as episode hence 30 episodes (10 actual episodes x 3 parts).

Rumor is just rumor, not fact, that's it. Some people have weird hobby indulging in rumors and thinking the rumor as fact. Yes ofc some of the rumors can turn into fact at the end, but most of them not. So just enjoy the show. If you want to ship cp then ship if that makes you happy and enjoy the show. If turn out you ship wrong cp, it's also the dynamic of enjoying the show. No need to care about the rumors.

I am the opposite of you. I like it more when the girl can be brave and chase the one that they like clearly. It's better than just waiting passively for the guy to woo and chase them, trying to hinting here and there and then only causes misunderstanding and then feel upset. It's so frustrating to watch that. Look at Ke Ailin and Wang Jue for example.

Ke Ailin stated it clearly when she asked Wang Lechen to make fusion tea for her again, while Wang Jue saying things in roundabout ways and caused misunderstanding and lost her chance to walk the dogs with Wang Lechen. Wang Jue could just say "I want to walk the dogs. Can you accompany me?" Clear but not too aggressive and it won't cause misunderstanding. I can understand it if Wang Jue is an introvert. But no, she's an extrovert.

The rule is always like that. They can't ask about age and profession at the beginning. Usually only at the second night after in the house that they're allowed to ask about age and profession. So they will have time to interact with each other as "equal" and make impression without caring about those things that maybe can "shackle" or "boost" them and their chances.

Even 50 episodes won't be enough. The novel "A Record of a Mortal's Journey to Immortality" is very long. He's just still here in the lowest realm and only second level of cultivation (up to episode 20) and there were still higher realms where he ascended to. I guess there will be season 2 (and more because even 2 seasons won't be enough) if they decided to continue to the end and not stopping in the middle because of some reasons (like Sword Snow Stride that doesn't see season 2 even after years till now).

Pilot is the introduction episode before episode 1. In this Heart Signal 8 case, it's the Premiere Getaway part 1 and part 2.

No need to care about rumor. Why do you have to make yourself suffer from anxiety just because of rumor? Rumor is just rumor, not fact, that's it. Ship if that makes you happy. Chat with others in comment section if you want interaction. Just enjoy the show🔥

Should show this to Douglas1963 and other Ji Min haters😂🤣

Thank you very much Luffy for this news/pic 🥰🤗 Glad to see Ji Min and Je Yeon together 😍💕

Not to mention that we can't confirm whether it's truly the pairs were really from first come first served, or they're chosen/arranged by the PD to make their drama. Choosing gifts or whatever can be easily seen and harder to be manipulated, but with texting and then only adding narration "hidden rule, first come first served" it can be so much easier to manipulate it. We don't know the real exact order, some of the participants' choices were not shown, etc. They only received text telling them to go here and wait, you go there and pick up. And voila, the PD can arrange what pairs they want to create their drama.

Brain and heart sometimes can't sync together if you like someone so much, just like what Je Yeon said in her interview about what she thought and felt about Ji Min's dinner/postcard date with Ha Neul. Ha Neul's brain knew clearly about Ji Min's hint but her heart couldn't help keep yearning for Ji Min.

Ha Neul didn't do anything to Ji Min to force him though. She had her right to be upset and she kept it bottled up inside her only. She's just quiet. She only talked about her feelings when she's asked by others such as Chang Hwan and Ji Min. She cried alone in her room. No one knew about that except us viewers from God's POV. Ji Min felt guilty only after Soo Ah and Chang Hwan talked to him and he realized that Ha Neul's situation was similar to him and made him understand what Ha Neul felt. I don't think Ha Neul must pretend that she's happy go around in the house just to make Ji Min not stressed, doesn't she? But it's really difficult to make someone understands if our real life love experience is different. Just from the argument "It's painful but ..." , it's the same like what bubblelou said. I don't hope much that you will understand because it's the kind of feelings that you have to experience yourself to really understand the pain and sadness and sympathize with her. I can only try to explain. Chang Hwan kind of could understand her as he noticed how Ha Neul changed from a happy and mood maker girl in the house to become a quiet and kind of depressed girl.

Ha Neul didn't do anything wrong so far and it's all in her right. I am not eloquent to explain about it. Maybe you can read another comment here that explained about Ha Neul and Ji Min. Yuelianghwa already explained and said it better than me.

It's never about age problem, it's about feelings. Whatever your age is, whether you're young or old, if you like someone so much but not being reciprocated, you won't be that easy to move on, especially if you meet them everyday. Since your argument is about age then I assume that you never have that experience so that you will never understand about it, and I sincerely hope that you will never will.

Yes Ji Min doesn't owe her anything and she also never forced him, she only felt unfair because he never give her a chance. Ji Min is also a grown up and that's why he could reflect on himself and understood what Ha Neul felt and so he felt guilty. About how and why, I already tried to explain. Maybe in his mind, instead of keep avoiding and avoiding her, he maybe better tries to keep explaining and persuading her. At least that's what I think. That's why he looked for Ha Neul and tried to have a conversation with her and tried to explain and persuade her again. This time she seemed finally be able to accept it more readily. So his effort didn't go waste entirely this time.

Anyway, if you don't agree with what I said then let's just agree to disagree.

But you said yourself previously that based on the preview of the next episode you feel like Ji Min will have a date with Ha Neul and that he chooses her because she made him feel guilty and it makes you sick. So you already jumped to conclusion and judged and hated her based on preview.

If you don't like her, it's your right and I can't force you. I only asked that you don't judge her too early. Just wait till the next episode airs and see if it's true that Ji Min really chooses Ha Neul for date and if it's true then whether it's really because he feels guilty or for another reason.

Don't jump to conclusion or judge too early and then hate someone because of that. We know that the editing is full of manipulation and the previews were always misleading. If you want to judge then do it after it's aired.

I also hope that there won't be anything happen that will ruin what Ji Min has with Je Yeon, but I won't judge Ha Neul just based on (almost certainly) misleading preview.

I am happy that you never like someone so much that doesn't like you back, and I hope you never will. It's really painful. If you really like someone so much, it's not so easy to move on. If it's outside there in society, maybe it'll be easier for Ha Neul, but she met Ji Min everyday in the house so she's stuck. Maybe if Ji Min didn't go on dates with other women except Je Yeon then it's more acceptable for her. But looking at how Ji Min went on dates with other women but kept avoiding her, it must be really painful and sad for her.

Ji Min felt guilty because of what Soo Ah and Chang Hwan said to him made him reflecting himself and he realized that Ha Neul's situation was actually like his and it was as if looking himself in her so he understood her. He still tried to explain and persuade Ha Neul kindly though and she already said that she would change starting from the next day. So let's just wait and see.

I don't think that adding another one month or more participants is a good idea. If this is Chinese Heart Signal then it maybe visible, but this is Korean Heart Signal (or as they try to rebranding as Heart Pairing) which is full of manipulation in editing. Making it longer or adding more participants will only make this show more convoluted. This is a show that is supposed to find a marriage partner potential but we're herded to the story that the PD manipulated as they wish instead. I even feel as if they're trying as hard as they can to block/separate Ji Min and Je Yeon looking at how hard for them to even have a date or time alone together.

And poor Ha Neul. If only there was no Je Yeon, or if Ji Min was not devoted to Je Yeon wholeheartedly, I will support Ha Neul to be with Ji Min. From how she tried to attract Ji Min's attention immediately from day 1 and how she flirted openly with Ji Min in their last date in Italy, I already like her. She's devoted and open with her feelings and Ji Min won't have to do a mind reading game with her and so there won't be many misunderstandings between them because Ha Neul will make it clear for him immediately. But just as how she liked Ji Min so much, Ji Min also liked Je Yeon so much and as devoted as her. It's sad to see her like that but yeah as you said Ha Neul is basically stuck. I really hope that she can find another Ji Min out there in the society and has her happiness.