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a bl with them as leads would be so interesting

all this time i thought he was IU's brother in when life gives you tangerines: he and kang you seok are so alike; i cant differentiate them at all plus they are both gemini and their birthdays are just a week apart its crazyyy

its crazy how he and gong myung (actor) looks so alike; their birthdays are also just a week apart sharing the same zodiac sign; to me they are literal twins

thank you for this, it really helped me understand the characters so much better than before. after your explanation it does seems to make lil more sense to me.

yes thats true, maybe i am too in favour of Jun and wants him to have a happily ever after right away haha

yes that's really another way to look at it.

really? please share your pov; would love to read it

just finished watching and so damn disappointed.
it was so good half way and then they ruined it for me from ep7;

okay so am i the only one who felt akin being childish when losing the most handsome award to jin?
i mean he won it for 5 years already and he said it himself that it's all fleeting then why was he so upset; i get being little upset but so much to the point of bursting into tears??
it wasn't even best actor award; which to me would have made more sense as jin is a newbie.
and also shouldn't he be happy that his bf won the award after him being the number 1 for 5 years already? why is his character so immature? and when he lost the best actor award to someone else, he was totally fine eating cake? i mean i dont know if they are following exactly how the anime was written but to me akin is very immature also pointing out how he handled johnny situation; like why wont he just confront johnny? he was clearly drunk and according to him (akin) they spent the night together then shouldn't he be mad and confront johnny? if not that same morning but next day?
jin is so much more mature and centred, thankgod.
or maybe i am watching it wrong.

okay so after reading comments from both perspective of people who say its grooming and who say it isn't as there isn't much of an age difference; though i agree there's not much of age difference and at the end of the day Jun's a grown adult and capable of making his own choices, but still what Sorn is doing is similar to gaslighting and manipulation as he is first crushing Jun's confidence by telling him he is not good at kissing and other stuff and then offering to teach. but who says he is not good in the first place? has any of Jun's past lovers told him that? why is he believing Sorn's word? and why is Sorn making excuses to be with Jun in the first place? if he likes him just say so or even if he is confused, he can just say he is confused and would like to give it a try.
Sorn wants best of both worlds he has multiple partners and also wants Jun to himself all while crushing his confidence.
or maybe i am just watching it with wrong lens on.

okay so i will not be presumptuous and say that i understand your situation; but i would like to suggest something that really helps me in my tough situations; just randomly make a list of positive things that came out of this slump , i know its difficult to do and easy to say but trust me even if its only one thing (eg: this situation gave you more time to think about your career graph) just be delulu and list out whatever you can think; you will find some direction/path at the end of it. it worked for me so just thought of suggesting it. hope everything works out for you. best wishes.

okay so now i have another question: when does akin realise that they didnt sleep together and it was all the new guy's plan?

okay thanks for replying, i feel lil peace now

ok so i really hope someone can spoil this for me as i am not sure about this series anymore; up till ep4 it was going quite good but ep5 had me a lil disappointed (i wont spoil why);
but the teaser for ep6 is not looking good in my pov: please tell me that the new guy doesnt SA akin? (i have not read the manga nor i have any idea about it) i really hope not..
hope someone can answer this

that's right, in this particular series they are not blood related, its more of ML find him on the street and gives him a shelter and they eventually start living together as a family, he called the older ML as brother because in asian culture we dont call elders by their name, even if we are not related and are strangers we call brother/sister as calling by their name is considered rude. this series is a masterpiece, i wish i could erase my memory and watch it again, its been months and i dont think i will get over this ever.
enjoy..

got it :)

yes i think so too, and thanks i am surely trying my best, hope you find strength to keep fighting too (if it helps, i am trying to change my location entirely and start fresh, you can try it too). we got this :)

hey, i am replying after so long but really wanted to thank you for your comment.
i have been bullied in high school so i do understand yi heon's pov but maybe i did underestimated his trauma and how deep it runs, as for me i didnt have any deuk pal to sort of guide/help and had to pick up the pieces myself and save myself and not give but create my own second chance, thats why it really bothered me that he gave up but after reading the comments i do understand, maybe i dont give myself enough credit for being strong and just assumed that what i did is what is everyone does and its not a big deal. so your comment really made me appreciate myself all over again.

thankyou for your reply.

firstly, thankyou so much for taking the time out to explain it so beautifully.
i will keep this drama in archives to watch later for now and for days when i am not down with my own problems and feeling mature and stable to watch it with smile and appreciate it for what it is. thanks again.