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a masterpiece for those who love slow burns, great chemistry, and beautiful cinematography
i loved this show! T_T its been weeks since i've finished it and i am still unable to move on. it got me kicking my feet and cheesing the entire time, which i haven’t felt watching a kdrama in years. while i was pretty disappointed to see such mixed reviews online but, i get it. the storyline was slightly different from trailers and not what everyone expected this romcom to be. the genre change mid-show turned a lot of viewers away but i think it was executed flawlessly (the alter ego/mpd was not overdone in a fantasy way).
first, the main characters are so well-written and incredibly portrayed by the actors. the character and relationship developments were very realistic. the little details in the scenes added so much to the slow burn and was satisfying to watch. i’ve never seen a show with go younjung and i’ve never been too interested in kim seonho, but now i’m a big fan of them both. their chemistry was off the roofs; it got me squealing fr >_<
i really enjoyed the themes of anxious and avoidant attachments, and how realistic miscommunication happens in romance. muhee is an actress, emotional with an anxious avoidant attachment style and hojin is a translator, literal but with high emotional intelligence. hiro seems to have a fearful avoidant attachment style and jisun/yongu protray secure attachments.
the show perfectly captured how misunderstandings don’t come from a lack of care, but rather from the fact that everyone speaks their own emotional language, and that love requires learning how to interpret it. at first, i was confused by hojin’s reactions and actions because muhee’s intentions and feelings seemed so clear, but from his pov, she really was sending him mixed signals. she said what she thought he needed to hear and he did what he thought she meant, hence the title. my only complaints are that it would’ve been nice to have a more developed story/love line with hiro and more depth to muhee’s past/mother. although, the jisun/yongu may have seemed random at first, it was nice to see their fast advancement (in contrast to muhee/hojin). jisun wanted a man that took initiative (her language) and neither hojin or his brother did.
the cinematography was SUPERB!! each setting was so beautiful and each scene was filmed so aesthetically. it really felt like the director made sure every second was carefully thought out. i also liked how each country gave a different vibe but the actors did mention they got a lot more comfortable through the year of filming so that may be why. my favorite scene was the aurora scene; i think it perfectly captured the shift in their relationship and it was beautiful, duh. "auroras do not appear in seoul" "i don't want to watch it disappear" muhee self-sabotages as she doesn't think she deserves happiness and then prepares for the loss while she can still control it by leaving (all while hojin asks her to stay for the first time). ugh, i could go on and on about every scene in this show but this review would be endless.
some other notable things that i really appreciated:
- i loved how much they focused on the foreign languages, kim seonho’s pronunciation seemed to be so on point, which really amplified his role.
- i loved how the love line was between two complete strangers (no red string theory), and how they kept the opposite gender managers platonic.
- “why worry about what happens later? we’ll be breaking up anyway.” as we try to love less, hope less, and dream less to protect our heart, we slowly lose color of our life. what is there to live for if we won’t give out our all?
first, the main characters are so well-written and incredibly portrayed by the actors. the character and relationship developments were very realistic. the little details in the scenes added so much to the slow burn and was satisfying to watch. i’ve never seen a show with go younjung and i’ve never been too interested in kim seonho, but now i’m a big fan of them both. their chemistry was off the roofs; it got me squealing fr >_<
i really enjoyed the themes of anxious and avoidant attachments, and how realistic miscommunication happens in romance. muhee is an actress, emotional with an anxious avoidant attachment style and hojin is a translator, literal but with high emotional intelligence. hiro seems to have a fearful avoidant attachment style and jisun/yongu protray secure attachments.
the show perfectly captured how misunderstandings don’t come from a lack of care, but rather from the fact that everyone speaks their own emotional language, and that love requires learning how to interpret it. at first, i was confused by hojin’s reactions and actions because muhee’s intentions and feelings seemed so clear, but from his pov, she really was sending him mixed signals. she said what she thought he needed to hear and he did what he thought she meant, hence the title. my only complaints are that it would’ve been nice to have a more developed story/love line with hiro and more depth to muhee’s past/mother. although, the jisun/yongu may have seemed random at first, it was nice to see their fast advancement (in contrast to muhee/hojin). jisun wanted a man that took initiative (her language) and neither hojin or his brother did.
the cinematography was SUPERB!! each setting was so beautiful and each scene was filmed so aesthetically. it really felt like the director made sure every second was carefully thought out. i also liked how each country gave a different vibe but the actors did mention they got a lot more comfortable through the year of filming so that may be why. my favorite scene was the aurora scene; i think it perfectly captured the shift in their relationship and it was beautiful, duh. "auroras do not appear in seoul" "i don't want to watch it disappear" muhee self-sabotages as she doesn't think she deserves happiness and then prepares for the loss while she can still control it by leaving (all while hojin asks her to stay for the first time). ugh, i could go on and on about every scene in this show but this review would be endless.
some other notable things that i really appreciated:
- i loved how much they focused on the foreign languages, kim seonho’s pronunciation seemed to be so on point, which really amplified his role.
- i loved how the love line was between two complete strangers (no red string theory), and how they kept the opposite gender managers platonic.
- “why worry about what happens later? we’ll be breaking up anyway.” as we try to love less, hope less, and dream less to protect our heart, we slowly lose color of our life. what is there to live for if we won’t give out our all?
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