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Replying to Gone Dec 1, 2025
Title Dear X
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
I'm not glorifying anything but understanding her actions. There are contexts here which are important to take in count.
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Replying to Gone Nov 30, 2025
Title Dear X
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
Even him understood why she did all of it.
The boss didn't save her from something that she build up, he really saved her from something that was happening to her. What she planned was to be saved, relieved from this hell.
Yes she could have choose other options, but she choose herself, she didn't want to ruin her life for him. Just imagine surviving years of abuse and the only way to save yourself from that is literraly ruining your own life since no one is here to save you ?? She shouldn't have implicate the boss in this, but i understand why she did it though. She thougt about herself first and i wouldnt have blamed the boss if he wanted to take revenge on her.
I'm not saying it was the best choice, but she choose this one. We can't always expect the victims to react in a good way when they are in such extrem conditions.
She was a bad person for doing that but this action doesn't sum up what she is. The only thing that we can say, it's that she thought that she wasn't loosing her life AGAIN because of her father (first time : her dream university being stolen) and that by all means.
just to be clear :
i totally agree with the fact that the boss was totally innocent, that she had other options that she could have chosen. I felt bad for him too and i was relivied to see what he became after his years in prison. He was still a good person.
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On Dear X Nov 29, 2025
Title Dear X
Funny how some people are saying that Ah Jin is pure evil when her father and Jun Seo’s mother literally exist. Just because they aren’t labeled as « sociopath », they only think of them as « bad people » when they’re doing worst all time ?
When we compare what she’s doing and what they have been doing, I see a big difference.
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Replying to Gone Nov 29, 2025
Title Dear X
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
Her dad was about to kill her one day or sell her ? was she supposed to wish him for a good life ? I felt bad for the boss going to prison but tbh he defended her for something who was real, her father was that violent to her and she escaped death multiple times.
Thinking back idk if she’s that evil by making sure that someone will be able to save her from her biting. The only bad thing that she did was making an innocent pays for her own doing.
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Replying to Gone Nov 29, 2025
Title Dear X
Now for the Choi Jeong Ho, I would say he is the only one who is actually a victim. Although I didn't like the…
I totally agree with you. All time she was minding her own business but people are always trying to get on her way ?? Was she supposed to be the basic protagonist letting other people hurt her until the arrival of the ML ? I don’t understand, what it’s bad about protecting herself ?
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Replying to Hyunelovebot Nov 23, 2025
Title Dear X
Am i really the only one who doesn’t really hate ah jin??
I don’t hate her at all 🙌🏽
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Replying to Dear X Nov 23, 2025
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Before spreading false information, watch all the episode please
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On Dear X Nov 23, 2025
Title Dear X
I just remembered, Ah Jin said to Jun Seo that she had lost her cool when she was talking to In Gang and she said more than what she was supposed to, which made her wonder what of what she said made him change his face. At this moment, she told him the truth about what she thought of him, she even wondered about his facial expression and his emotions.
I truly wonder if during the break up, she didn’t lost the control of what she was supposed to do again ? Because at first she was more into the “normal” breakup and used her career as the reason, which could have been the reason of a normal person too. But after she switched and started to talk about grandma and everything ?? Isn’t it the same situation leading her to tell everything that she truly thinks ? Like the first time she ended up telling all the truth to his face even if it was hurtful.
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Replying to LGiam Nov 23, 2025
Title Dear X
wow always easier to blame it on someone who's been with her since they were young.- Her dad found her address…
I’m not putting all the blame on him, but he’s toxic in his own way. He’s not the absolute victim of this story, and yes most of what is happening to Ah Jin is related to him.
Even if he brings her pain, she will not cut him off because he’s important to her.
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Replying to pepitaa Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X
"what if this was all happening to us in real life" i'm not a bully, i'm not trying to hurt anyone. Why…
Even if something like this happen, trusting someone is a risk. I’ve been betrayed by a lot of people, trusting someone involves taking risks.
TBH, even if it’s a trap, if I make a decision, I take all accountability ; if I trust someone who betrays me, It’s on me, I shouldn’t have trust this person. If i would have saved someone like the boss did, I wouldn’t blame myself, I saved someone, even if it’s not me who gave the last punch, I wouldn’t regret to have killed a father like that.
But I guess it’s just my personality, I refuse to be the victim of anyone, when I act on something it’s my choice even if it’s not the good one, even if it turns bad, I’ll face the consequences and have no regrets since I decided that.
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Replying to Hannaehh Nov 22, 2025
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So I decided to rewatch ep 5-8 because the whole Ah Jin x In Gang plot is interesting.Here’s the new insights…
coudln't explain it clearer than this, i totally agree !
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Replying to Dannie00 Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X Spoiler
If she had left him in one piece he wouldn’t have committed suicide. She pushed him to it and she knows it too.…
I didn't say that he deserved it, and yes she has a part of responsability but she's not the only reason that he did that.
At first, i was angry at him because i wanted him to fight to discover the truth or even take revenge on Ah Jin. But after i realize that he was already too weak to fight, he didn't want to live at the first place and everything, that's why i felt bad. She didn't have to hurt him that deep when she was his everything.
But i understand that she was hurt and that she was really saying what she was thinking, even being vague about the grandma death, i think that she truly blamed herself, she even said at the hospital "its my fault, its all my fault". A break up is most of time heartbreaking and even more when feelings are deep.
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Replying to kdramachic Nov 22, 2025
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Has anyone met a person like Baek Ajin in real life? I'm wondering if its possible for someone like this to exist…
even if we meet with people like her, we will never know because we can't see people intentions. Psychopath and sociopath are everywhere, there are no monsters, they live their life as they can. People are not accountable of their condition but their actions.
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On Dear X Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X
I really think that Jun seo is Ah Jin's curse, he's always behind of all of her problems :
- Her dad found her adress because of Jun Seo's mom, i don't know how she found it but it thanks to Jun seo. Her dad started ruining her life again after that, making her loose her place at the university of her dreams.
- She was happily living with In Gang and his family, but he did everything to make her comeback to him (by financing her agency in exchange of a projet with her). Because of that, Ah Jin's anniversary was a mess, the day she could have been fiancee with In Gang...
- She said that she didn't need them to do anything when the grandma died, he wanted the surveillance video. If he didn't take it, In Gang could have seen by himself that she didn't kill his grandma.
He says that he wants her to be happy but he is the first bringing her pain. He just wants to be the one "saving" her, but to save her, she needs to need to be saved, which cannot happen if she's happy.
He thinks that he knows her better than anyone, but he just sees her as a bad person who needs to be saved. He's always looking by afar and never taking any actions.
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On Dear X Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X
I might be the only one who doesn't want to see her downfall (even if i know it might be coming). At first i really wanted her to pay for what she has done to her boss, but since he forgave her, i'll just let it go too.
But concerning the other people that she hurted, the actress and her old classmate, can you not see that they were not good people at all?? they are bully, she took actions because they were bullying her, making her life harder. Why does she not have the right to defend herself ?? Do she have to be the perfect victim to be a correct protagonist ?
Her old classmate was a rich who thought was looking down on poor people, orphan, she was doing whatever she wanted at school because her mother was her back up. Do you really think it's normal?
Lena is a arrogant superstar who think that she can treat people carelessly, Ah Jin isn't her first victim, she's treating everyone as shit. Just look how she dropped her coat to make her assistant pick it up as if she was her servant ?
She approached In Gang not with good intentions, and i don't like that too, but in the process she discovered how good it felt to be loved and to be cared by a family. She was about to live her life with them. Sadly fate took that from her, isn't that already a punition ?
In Gang and her could have lived a happy life. Whatever yall are thinking abou their break up, the first reason she gave wasn't bad at all. He didn't tell her about the marriage projet but told other people about it. Taking this situation as if the woman wasn't the ah jin we know, i swear that being angry for that it's correct, there are a lot of prople who priorize their career before getting married. She has every right to be angry for that, a relationship without hard time and break up doesn't exist. But then what she said about the grandma, i think that she is really blaming herself ( as we can see when she's waiting at the hospital). She said the truth and made it big because she didn't want to see him again, seeing him make her think of the grandma.
His death made me feel bad, but i still don't think it's right to make Ah Jin the absolute responsible of his death, suicide isn't something that relies solely on 1 reason, its deeper than that. He was thinking for a while, and he did that because he made of Ah Jin, the only reason to live, which is not normal to begin with.
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Replying to ansh0999 Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X
WE ARE SUCH HYPOCRITESAt the start of this series, we can all agree that we were cheering for her, justifying…
"what if this was all happening to us in real life" i'm not a bully, i'm not trying to hurt anyone. Why would she wants to get revenge on me ??
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Replying to HaiseSasaki Nov 22, 2025
Title Dear X
What's up with comment section, It's obvious that she is pure evil, and nothing can justify her actions and its…
"its obvious she's pure evil" the last 2 episode is proving that she's not. she always had humanity, she even said herself that during her childhood, when her stepmother was nice to her, she has hopes and falled in her traps. we have the parallele with the grandma, she loved the grandma, she believed her, even if the grandma would have lied to her she would have believed her.
If the grandma didn't die, she would have married In Gang, because she was happy with him and his family, she said that herself many times.
She may have approach them with wrong intentions but she never wanted to hurt them since the beginning, even the planned breack up was supposed to not be heartbreaking. During the process she discovered how good it was to be loved and to have a real family. The pain of loosing that destroyed a part of her.
Idk if now she really deserves that downfall, fate already punished her.
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Replying to Berbox Kay lee Zona Nov 21, 2025
Title Dear X
This doesn't justify her actions lol not every girl that doesn't want to get married acts that crazy towards their…
Not every man end themself because of a breakup as well.
She shouldn’t have broke up this way but the idea of breaking up wasn’t bad ?
Him making her his only reason to live wasn’t normal at all ?
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Replying to 100zzsuzy Nov 21, 2025
Title Dear X
Baek Ah Jin is a demon. No, she’s the devil incarnate—she destroys an innocent family in a single episode,…
How did she destroyed the innocent family ? The grandma died by herself. She didn’t want to destroy this family but live with them until the end. She liked them, the moment she thought that she was going to be happy, fate decided to take that from her, isn’t she already being punished ?
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