Be for real. After she manipulated her way into his life and made him believe she was so in love with him and…
She choose to break up with him because she was affected with his grandma death. She has every right to choose herself again, her career and her mental peace. Destroying him wasn’t even in her original plan. She truly wanted to stay with him, that’s why she didn’t broke up after a year. Ah Jin isn’t the evil monster of this story, yes she do bad things but breaking up that way make her evil ? How many breakup are hurtful in real life ? Does it make them evil people ? No. She was hurt, even though she didn’t express it the right way, but ending his life because of a breakup isn’t normal as well. He wasn’t in a good mental state, that’s why he killed himself, because he thought that he couldn’t live without her and his grandma, he thought that she was the only one being able to make him happy, which is not normal to begin with.
Sorry but I genuinely feel that people are diabolizing Ah Jin more than she really is. Based on her actions, the thing that she shouldn’t have done is trying to make her boss pay for her crimes, which was made by her agency at the end. And the second one is approaching someone mentally weak to leave him alone after a year. However she didn’t want to leave him, even though she didn’t approach him with good intentions. She blamed herself for his grandma death, and left him after that. He killed himself because he was already in a bad mental state, which is sad because he felt like he was alone. She is one of the cause of his suicide, but not the only one ; he has to face his grandma death. She choose herself, she was affected by his grandma death too. Concerning her manipulation, every human being is a kind of manipulator in his own way. But generally, manipulation is considered as bad when you use it to harm people, here she manipulated to save herself (with the innocent boss), and for her career at first (with her boyfriend) even though she change during the year. Everyone is making Jun Seo the ultimate victim of the story but he’s toxic as well, he saw that she was doing good. He always wants to make her feel that he’s the only one who can save her, take care of her, but it’s not true. He doesn’t really know her, he really thought that she killed the grandma, but when you look at what she has done ; she never took any actions to directly harm innocent people, to kill them or whatever. Anyway, I know that she might turn evil, but reproaching her of being manipulating in this industry ? How many famous people did use different kind of schemes to get where they are today ? How many put on an act to get famous, to have a fan base ? Every person, even more in a professional setting is manipulative to get what they want. Idk if I explained what I want to say clearly, but even though she might seems heartless, she isn’t. She took bad decisions, but when we look closely she isn’t someone targeting innocent people to harm them. Even for the “1 year boyfriend’s project”, she didn’t want to hurt him by leaving him at first (even though is bad to use someone like that). And for the boss, I felt very sorry for him, I kind of hated her for making his life turn like this but in the other hand I understand that bad situations can lead to bad decisions, she choose herself again, not wanting to ruin her life because of her father.
A Jin not breaking up after a year might show how good she felt during this period. Maybe she didn’t want to break up that’s why she didn’t. Once again, her happiness was stolen from her… let’s see how she’ll turn now.
Jun Seo. Sigh. I want him to be with her, but also want him to be free of her. Not just there to help her, but…
1) The agency wanting to recruit a girl with this kind of past its not that weird to me. Because by protecting her secret, they can make her do whatever they want.
yeah if she would have went to law school she could have target some law student or professors as her next target…
As I said, she started using innocent people after her dream being stolen, so her boss was her first innocent victim. She did manipulate Jun Seo, but never made him wrongly accused of anything, she just exposed the truth on her own way. She’s still attacking people bothering her but now she’s also implicating innocent people without being afraid of hurting them. I’m still believing that she’s kind of genuine with Jun Seo when she says that she doesn’t want to hurt him. She wanted him by her side so she manipulated him as a child, but she was a child too, she showed him the truth so he can see by his own eyes. I think that she clearly doesn’t him to be hurt by her.
yeah if she would have went to law school she could have target some law student or professors as her next target…
No, because before she only targeted people who bothered her, like bad people, as the rich one in her school. She didn’t implicate innocent people in her revenge plan.
i genuinely feel bad for a jin, maybe if her father didn't stole her dream from her (law university), she wouldn't have turned that bad. its like every single hope of hapiness is always taken from her. Her character is so weel written, i know that no happy ending is waiting for her considering the innocent people that she used, but it's very interesting to see how far she can go to have what she wants.
This is the plot of the drama, she is a sociopath affected by her environment and makes choices for her own gain.
we can clearly see that she was affected by her mother’s death. her father threatened her, she knew that she couldn’t gain anything by saving her mother. but yes I agree she’s doing bad things, not all abusive kids become like that. the story isn’t making us believe that she’s doing right but showing us how she took the bad path.
I would have rated this a lot higher if they go all the way to show she’s a pure evil, I feel like the drama…
I do not think that she’s a pure evil. not helping her mother hurted her deeply, as we see her tear when the police arrives. it’s more like she is very self centered and try to not get attached to anyone, like they are all pawns for her own will and future. the only one she seems to be the most genuine is jun seo, even if she uses him, idk if she felt jealous by reading the letter, and she seemed sincere when she said that she doesn’t want him to be hurt because of her. I find it interesting too, to see that she not hesitated to use good people for her own goals.
if you think like that is good for you, but it’s not right to impose you’re mindset as the best of all. if…
As I can see, you didn’t bother to read my mess. If you think that women and men should do 50/50 at everything, good for you. I’m not into this kind of relationship 🙌🏽 The way you think that YOUR opinion represent all women one is killing me 🤣🤣 How a relationship SHOULD be is a personal opinion that you share with your partner. You’re no one to come and say how people should or should not live their relationship. And not being able to differentiate that with a system which refers at a political organization, proves how you’re not understanding at all what I’m saying.
if you think like that is good for you, but it’s not right to impose you’re mindset as the best of all. if…
They’re not saying that women shouldn’t earn more than men, they just don’t want their partner to earn more than them because they want to be a provider. Opting to be a housewife is nothing different from wanting to be a provider. And the link you do between wanting a provider and reducing women isn’t right either, there are a lot of social organisation who aren’t equal but have equity. Not everyone think that equality is the best, some people prefer having different roles in a household. Being provider is one of them as housewife. For someone who always dreamed of being the one who can provide his family, it might hurt to not be able to give all they would to because the women is above them, it’s not only ego. Everyone can feel small when they can’t give all they want to, and not wanting to feel that is a right, if they know that they’ll end up hurt, is okay to say no since the beginning. They choose what they want. If you think that you should be equal with your partner, good for you but don’t impose you pov as something that everyone should follow. It’s not because they’re from another country and that they think differently that we are better than them and that we know better than them what’s the best for them. If you think like that, sorry to tell you that you’re not thinking differently than a colonizer. Putting people mindset below your own, thinking that you know better than anyone else how they should live their life is not okay. He has the right to know what he wants, he’s not forcing anyone to think as him, he just expressed what he wanted to be clear. He has to do this, no one should be forced into a relationship that he doesn’t want. And trying to demonize a social organization is easy, all of them has flaws, even the equality one because real equality doesn’t exist.
if you think like that is good for you, but it’s not right to impose you’re mindset as the best of all. if…
i'm just defending an opinion. everyone should have the right to decide what kind of family he wants. if they have the patriarchy mindset, so lets them find a partner who have the same mindset than them, its not hurting anyone nor any life. personal belives and wishes is different from a governement restriction or inequality but i'm not here to explain all that. One doesn't harm anyone and the other restrict people.
Its like the women who wants to be housewife, do we have to force them to work and be independant just because other women fighted for this ?? no. they fighted so we can choose. And here the men can choose what kind of partner they want (as women should), not understanding that is insane.
Tbh I really do not understand why a man would feel intimidated if his girlfriend earns more. For centuries women…
if you think like that is good for you, but it’s not right to impose you’re mindset as the best of all. if some man as woman want to keep the patriarchal family organization, they can do as they please and it’s okay to talk about these kind of topic before dating, they have to get to know each other values etc.. it’s not bad for a man to want to be able to provide his family or partner financially, if he doesn’t like the fact that he’s not the one being able to provide to his wife, it’s okay for him to say so before getting into a relationship. If his vision of being a husband or partner is to be reliable, provider etc.. why judge him ? everyone has his own perspective of life and duty. providing isn’t the same that making other follow.
We are in a era who is supposed to support liberty of thinking, expression, culture, it’s not because new family organisation are ‘appearing’ (they already existed before but I think that you get what I mean ), that everyone has to follow these new ways of thinking and abandon what they truly want think.
what I want to say is that the question is relevant, they have to know that because men who dont want to earn less than their partner exist which is okay, everyone has différents expectations and is important to know that before getting into the relationship.
Ah Jin isn’t the evil monster of this story, yes she do bad things but breaking up that way make her evil ? How many breakup are hurtful in real life ? Does it make them evil people ? No. She was hurt, even though she didn’t express it the right way, but ending his life because of a breakup isn’t normal as well. He wasn’t in a good mental state, that’s why he killed himself, because he thought that he couldn’t live without her and his grandma, he thought that she was the only one being able to make him happy, which is not normal to begin with.
Based on her actions, the thing that she shouldn’t have done is trying to make her boss pay for her crimes, which was made by her agency at the end. And the second one is approaching someone mentally weak to leave him alone after a year. However she didn’t want to leave him, even though she didn’t approach him with good intentions. She blamed herself for his grandma death, and left him after that. He killed himself because he was already in a bad mental state, which is sad because he felt like he was alone. She is one of the cause of his suicide, but not the only one ; he has to face his grandma death. She choose herself, she was affected by his grandma death too.
Concerning her manipulation, every human being is a kind of manipulator in his own way. But generally, manipulation is considered as bad when you use it to harm people, here she manipulated to save herself (with the innocent boss), and for her career at first (with her boyfriend) even though she change during the year.
Everyone is making Jun Seo the ultimate victim of the story but he’s toxic as well, he saw that she was doing good. He always wants to make her feel that he’s the only one who can save her, take care of her, but it’s not true. He doesn’t really know her, he really thought that she killed the grandma, but when you look at what she has done ; she never took any actions to directly harm innocent people, to kill them or whatever.
Anyway, I know that she might turn evil, but reproaching her of being manipulating in this industry ? How many famous people did use different kind of schemes to get where they are today ? How many put on an act to get famous, to have a fan base ? Every person, even more in a professional setting is manipulative to get what they want.
Idk if I explained what I want to say clearly, but even though she might seems heartless, she isn’t. She took bad decisions, but when we look closely she isn’t someone targeting innocent people to harm them. Even for the “1 year boyfriend’s project”, she didn’t want to hurt him by leaving him at first (even though is bad to use someone like that). And for the boss, I felt very sorry for him, I kind of hated her for making his life turn like this but in the other hand I understand that bad situations can lead to bad decisions, she choose herself again, not wanting to ruin her life because of her father.
She’s still attacking people bothering her but now she’s also implicating innocent people without being afraid of hurting them.
I’m still believing that she’s kind of genuine with Jun Seo when she says that she doesn’t want to hurt him. She wanted him by her side so she manipulated him as a child, but she was a child too, she showed him the truth so he can see by his own eyes. I think that she clearly doesn’t him to be hurt by her.
Her character is so weel written, i know that no happy ending is waiting for her considering the innocent people that she used, but it's very interesting to see how far she can go to have what she wants.
I hope that she’ll not be sad, she’s amazing.
When she revealed her job I was surprised and proud of her ❤️
but yes I agree she’s doing bad things, not all abusive kids become like that. the story isn’t making us believe that she’s doing right but showing us how she took the bad path.
I find it interesting too, to see that she not hesitated to use good people for her own goals.
If you think that women and men should do 50/50 at everything, good for you.
I’m not into this kind of relationship 🙌🏽
The way you think that YOUR opinion represent all women one is killing me 🤣🤣
How a relationship SHOULD be is a personal opinion that you share with your partner. You’re no one to come and say how people should or should not live their relationship.
And not being able to differentiate that with a system which refers at a political organization, proves how you’re not understanding at all what I’m saying.
They choose what they want. If you think that you should be equal with your partner, good for you but don’t impose you pov as something that everyone should follow.
It’s not because they’re from another country and that they think differently that we are better than them and that we know better than them what’s the best for them. If you think like that, sorry to tell you that you’re not thinking differently than a colonizer. Putting people mindset below your own, thinking that you know better than anyone else how they should live their life is not okay.
He has the right to know what he wants, he’s not forcing anyone to think as him, he just expressed what he wanted to be clear. He has to do this, no one should be forced into a relationship that he doesn’t want.
And trying to demonize a social organization is easy, all of them has flaws, even the equality one because real equality doesn’t exist.
everyone should have the right to decide what kind of family he wants. if they have the patriarchy mindset, so lets them find a partner who have the same mindset than them, its not hurting anyone nor any life.
personal belives and wishes is different from a governement restriction or inequality but i'm not here to explain all that.
One doesn't harm anyone and the other restrict people.
Its like the women who wants to be housewife, do we have to force them to work and be independant just because other women fighted for this ?? no. they fighted so we can choose.
And here the men can choose what kind of partner they want (as women should), not understanding that is insane.
if some man as woman want to keep the patriarchal family organization, they can do as they please and it’s okay to talk about these kind of topic before dating, they have to get to know each other values etc..
it’s not bad for a man to want to be able to provide his family or partner financially, if he doesn’t like the fact that he’s not the one being able to provide to his wife, it’s okay for him to say so before getting into a relationship. If his vision of being a husband or partner is to be reliable, provider etc.. why judge him ? everyone has his own perspective of life and duty. providing isn’t the same that making other follow.
We are in a era who is supposed to support liberty of thinking, expression, culture, it’s not because new family organisation are ‘appearing’ (they already existed before but I think that you get what I mean ), that everyone has to follow these new ways of thinking and abandon what they truly want think.
what I want to say is that the question is relevant, they have to know that because men who dont want to earn less than their partner exist which is okay, everyone has différents expectations and is important to know that before getting into the relationship.