The Inextricable Destiny (2023)

In both of them there is a devilish, playful, fun-loving, innocent, trouble-making girl. To whom the elders in the house try to teach lessons and everyone loves her equally. girl's family has militry background. Both the boys are very calm and settled and are holding a good official position. In both, the main character's entire family is murdered and revenge is taken.

Yuan Zhong is a fox high priest. He is an immortal who possesses the divine hand. With it, he defeated the ghost clan and brought an era of prosperity. Jin Tan Yin is an artisan goddess who makes magical artifacts. She descended to earth to kill Yuan Zhong and get back the divine hand of the god Tang Hua. Yuan Zhong is harassed by his own fox clan and Jin Tan Yin decides to help and protect him. The two of them will have to face personal enemies, and a secret will be discovered. Yuan Zhong rescues Jin Tan Yin from a trap. Reunited again, the pair of lovers join forces to defeat their enemies and restore order in the world.

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Both dramas are wuxia dramas
Both dramas have the female lead's planning to take revenge for her dead family
Both dramas have weak male lead with very calm deminer and deep love for the female lead
Both dramas end happily

Both have underlying gender role reversal theme where FL is more accomplished in martial arts and ML is more intellectual, booksmart person.
FL in both flaunts society rules and her outgoing nature is frowned upon. FL is an indulged child of her parents/parent having supporting brother/brothers.
ML in both cares deeply for the FL and takes care of her indirectly and protects her. Coincidentally both ML's surname is 'Rong'.
In both, FL's father has an offical postion in the court and his family has to be careful not to anger the emperor.
Elements of precognition in both.

The story is about a young woman's whose direct family has been wronged but who achieves to right the wrongs. The family relationship is different, but the ML is a marquis, if not at all a villain. It is a very good Historical drama too, although no fantasy or wuxia is involved.

Runyu the God of night and dragon emperor of Heaven realm dabbles with stars and destinies in this long drama, while Rong Yu in The Inextricable Destiny reads star charts and teaches astrology. Both are rather mysterious to start with, although both have an ambiguous love for their chosen one. Are star charts and ba-zi calculated compatibility or Yuánfèn destiny really powerful to explain the evolution of a relationship? Both couples are supposed to be compatible: Jinmi is water element like Runyu, and opposed to fire element in Xufeng ; Jiuling is a fiery wildcat who seems more suited with the rising prince Yinxiao, and to have nothing in common with the cool stargazer. But they will both choose the opposite side.

- ML looses his memory and can't do anything,
- ML is from a rich family,
- ML has a very specific skill,
- FL fell in love with ML, because he's kind, cute and innocent,
- FL does everything and ML is like a child who needs to be taken care of