Female character that has him by the balls

After watching The Wolf, I'm in serious need of a cdrama that has a strong female character that is so charismatic that she just has men at her bidding.  A fantastic example is The Legend of Dugu.  Dugu Ban Ruo wasn't even the FL but her character was so cunning it was brilliant.  She had a powerful man like Yuwen Hu wrapped around her pinky and I loved every scene they had together.  If there's a cdrama similar, would love to check it out! 

 Witchtrail:

Story of Yanxi Palace, Legend of Fuyao, Overlord, 

the Legends, Cinderella Chef

Thank you so much!