@peng-peng
In this world where there are many bad peopleI like partner/spouse whose character like XL; Responsible, kind, resolute, smart, and strong.
for me, Smart & kind only is not enough as a spouse."
So is that person trying to say XL is responsible, kind, smart and strong whereas Jing is only smart&kind. Jing is not enough for being a good spouse ?
If that so I DARE say she/he does not understand the story.
XL fans are something. They make themselves sound so authentic and and review in a way that can lead to false message of the story. Such as saying XY loves XL more than Jing is absolute wrong information.
I will talk more on it soon. Because I have to do something at the moment. But what I can say now is Jing not a royal prince who's born into political scheming surrounding and also he's not a general who's great at fighting. Besides do all men have to be boxers or police officer in order to be a good husband ? And that commentor is absolutely delutional if she/he is refering to Jing does not have responsibility ...