BabyAqua:
confession: despite my feelings about the breakup, I actually went back to rewatch the pavilion scene just to watch DW cry again. The scene with FFYY pregnancy news, you can see the whole family was congregating together against TSJ. And I also felt so sorry for TSJ because his closest family are his worst enemies. He is in fact lonelier than XY. I can only imagine his days after breakup must be hell when he has to spend all his time with all these fam-enemies on top of regret for losing XY. This helped me mitigate my frustration with how mopey and desolate he is in the last few episodes. It was not an attractive look.
Separate note, I can understand why XL fans are so angry with TSJ. His interactions with XY is the most frustrating for shippers! All the near kisses (which he himself broke off!!) and tenderness-followed-by-slap in face would have driven me mad if I were a shipper. Hence they are simply jealous of TSJ.
About the near kisses that he broke off....U mean XL?? Hehehehe...Im just confused. But to my knowledge, XL is XY first kiss but she was unconscious so I did not count that she very consciously initiate kiss on TSJ...and they kissed..???...well I guess they are jealous too..but some of them claim ...XY loves XL more than Jing is. ......um I read the book and did not feel it that way but I acknowledged she loved both.
This passage from chapter 26..
Xiang Liu didn’t want her to know that when she was unconscious the things he did with her, and she didn’t want him to know that she already knew. Their embraces and companionship, just let it be buried deep in the dark ocean depths!
XL fans wont like it if I say her romantic feelings for XL were true...but it was only a part of it in the dark ocean depths! (i am taking Ocean as heart)? guess i had different interpretation. If I hadn't read her feelings for Jing then I will take this more serious with "buried deep in the dark ocean depths!" phrase but since her feelings for Jing are taking action, so yep. Her conscious mind and heart always choose Jing even when it hurts her endlessly too. So yeo it all depends on how people view "which love is stronger"?
For now I could only guess that it's their jealousy that make them cannot see how much Jing suffer...but they rather blame him for all the situation !! His family, who raised him, and that he loved was his own enemy in the end because granny just want use this blood ties for her clan and made him marry the woman she liked not her grandson liked, at all cost, even to rape him. Im like NOPE. And Hou blamed Jing for his mother who was not his mother mistreated him. I may talk more about this Hou Hou later.? and yep think about it...he lost two things at same time and his once beloved bro bro and Yy wanted to kill him all these times. Hmm....ummm