Tushan Jing and Xiao Yao, here's to a Happily Ever After

 Winny Aye:

??? but lol

Hahahaha...

Just come across this on twiter..

Lol this is Jing...I mean Deng Wei drawing of the little white fox spirit ....?

its so cutee..??

Although I have been saying I am trying to be only focus on YaoJing and Jing subjects. But today I would like to discuss again about YaoJing and YaoLiu in romantic sense. I won't share this comment on YaoLiu page because I think because I have very very different opinion on why I like YaoLiu bond...and prefer YaoJing as romantic couple. Because I have a feeling that many YaoLiu fans are dwelling in "what if".  But if "what if" have happened then it will not be "Lost You Forever"! The reason why I actually come to admire the character of Xiang Liu is his maturity underneath (despite the fact he treated XY quite rough at times). In romance matters, we can see Jing is possessive. And he's jealous of XL too. He could never let go of Xiao Yao. XL never really think of getting XY himself. One thing is because of their circumstances and his duty and another reason is because XL exactly knew  how much TSJ/YSQ is weighing in XY's heart and that's why he was helping them behind the scene( like sending XY to look after Jing after her 37 years coma and also fueling XY to get clear up with Jing in chapter 32& 33, helping Jing's life from ZX&Hou murder attempt. It was all for XY). For me YaoLiu bond is that they met to heal each other in some level of life and for XY to get learnt and explore life.  But they were not borned to be together for eternity. XL had 9 lives and a heart, he was using everything of it to fulfill all his responsibilities and personal matters. It will be still wrong to say his end is full tragedy because it isn't. Because I am repeating what I have said in novel review, happy end for me is not living forever but live to fulfill the life. For that XL is will live in inside of XY and inside of readers and fans forever. I think that's what Tong Hua intention. And I don't think  Yaoliu bond is any less strong than that of YaoJing or YaoXuan but it is different. It gives reality feel that we don't get to live with someone special throughout life, but the bond memory will stayed and it can apply to many kinds of relationship. I think many yaoliu fans sort of hate Jing or at least dislike Jing (even some of them deny it but all their downgrade comments are good evidence), is because Jing sort of act possessive when it comes to love. Is it because of this that XL fans extra shooting at Jing's family dilemma issues? Some even said his request for 15 years of promise is like imprisoning her..? man. ..He's just offering. .XY can have all her free will. But yep I admiration for YaoLiu is very different many Yaoliu and XL fans although I understand their frustration. Tong Hua just hanged them like that. But when it comes to romantic love, I prefer those who are true to their hearts and follow it, with a bit of possessiveness yet giving them space and consideration too. That's everything Jing is. Despite how Jing looks refine, gentle, and he is still very romantic and passionate man inside. And I just cannot get off from his ship (imprisoning me like that).?? and I have to thank Tong Hua for creating YaoJing and getting their happily ever after. .(for us i guess). .?

 Romans_Revenge:

Lost you forever means CX/ZX lost XY, it has nothing to do with the other men. 

Even if the other 3 made their feelings known, it’d have been a conundrum, XY would be very confused(well not much on FengLong) . I dunno if Yang zi really said XY had no choice(maybe poor choice of words or was misunderstood?).  Could be she meant she had no choice in life to choose freely because of her past trauma. Again even if they did tell her, she wouldn’t know what to do & might end up making a mistake or end up like her mother. YSQ/ TSJ was already in WXL/ XY’s heart from the beginning, so she still would’ve chosen him in the end. Jing’s the sole reason why she began to open her heart again, he showed her he will give & make it work… XY learned to forgive through Jing, or else why did she let CX live after poisoning him?. Tong Hua didn’t want to add more confusion,that’s why she made it clear it’ll be Jing from the start.

For me there's 3 volume. ..Lost You Forever refer to CX, Love You Forever refer to TSJ, Miss You Forever refer to XL. In life sometimes we cannot predict all things, just about "what if" is not for me..but how life brings us is what  reality is. jing is XY's romantic life companion in reality. 

Anyway if Deng Wei’s rumored new drama is true, I for once need to see him in earrings like some of these arts, cos that’ll suit his characters image more hehe ?.

@winny aye 

Again you can be attracted to someone but it ends there, XY may have abandonment issues but she won’t give Jing up for another man,knowing the consequences & even CX constantly telling her to cut ties with him cos he knew they’d be on the battlefield very soon. XY didn’t listen & kept seeing him so in the end even if she asked CX to pardon him,CX told her he’ll let him disappear if he chooses to not fight, she’s done enough for him & should focus on her marriage life now. Even XY knew if she chose otherwise she’d lose her family, the family she’s missed for centuries, plus she’ll also be an enemy & it won’t end well for her. She wanted peace, happiness, have kids & to grow old while watching her grandkids play.

 Romans_Revenge:

Lost you forever means CX/ZX lost XY, it has nothing to do with the other men. 

Even if the other 3 made their feelings known, it’d have been a conundrum, XY would be very confused(well not much on FengLong) . I dunno if Yang zi really said XY had no choice(maybe poor choice of words or was misunderstood?).  Could be she meant she had no choice in life to choose freely because of her past trauma. Again even if they did tell her, she wouldn’t know what to do & might end up making a mistake or end up like her mother. YSQ/ TSJ was already in WXL/ XY’s heart from the beginning, so she still would’ve chosen him in the end. Jing’s the sole reason why she began to open her heart again, he showed her he will give & make it work… XY learned to forgive through Jing, or else why did she let CX live after poisoning him?. Tong Hua didn’t want to add more confusion,that’s why she made it clear it’ll be Jing from the start.

I already mentioned this earlier in one of my reply "Could be she meant she had no choice in life to choose freely because of her past trauma" this is exactly what she meant when she said she had no choice.  But of course xl fans are again misinterpreting it. 

Her traumas didn't allow her any other option but to want a man with Jing’s qualities. 

https://weibo.com/7867101813/4953127038224838

I was in the yaojing super group earlier and came across a fan who addressed *the whole if jing doesn't pour his love in then the love between him and xiao yao dries up bs xl fans came up* and I love how she addressed it. She couldn't be anymore right