Tushan Jing and Xiao Yao, here's to a Happily Ever After

@dtsj_sapphire 

so being rich means being intelligent to know what XY wants and give it? did i get that right? =⁠_⁠= *i feel like i see stars*

yes thats what she wrote it there..when i read it i feel like cannot get anymore idiotic...it tickles..??

 Winny Aye:

@dtsj_sapphire 

so being rich means being intelligent to know what XY wants and give it? did i get that right? =⁠_⁠= *i feel like i see stars*

yes thats what she wrote it there..when i read it i feel like cannot get anymore idiotic...it tickles..??

 same-- that cracked me up so i have to stop reading there. ?needing this too.haha.

 Romans_Revenge:

@dtsj_sapphire

Exactly cos now those who enjoy the drama are now having this sour taste in their mouths cos xl fans keep talking trash & I’ve also seen fans saying they’ve lost interest in TJC cos of how toxic his characters fans are, which I think shouldn’t be at all but ??‍♀️.  It’s sad that has to happen, cos even i don’t have any problem with TJC, it’s xl I have an issue with. The fans throw rocks,then hide their hands. Call them out on their bull & they say you’re being aggressive ??‍♀️.

trueeee. i was trying to get to know him more and hear him sing more coz i heard him sing and ZWY too during the h!6 guesting and also they were all hilarious there, but idk anymore-- ill just go back to my usual thing, just D-Z, DW, Jing, and YaoJing stuff for now^⁠_⁠^ ??.

 Romans_Revenge:

There’re women who don’t value themselves & it shows in their actions & choices. Run from women like that cos they’ll make you as miserable as them. There’re soo many CX & xl walking around but a few Jing,that’s why a Jing is precious cos he’s a rare jem. Why do think a lot of women are on meds or seeing a shrink? They’d rather cheat on a Jing for a CX or xl cos he’s not breaking their hearts,using them or abusing them.

 LeafHearts:

Our society does not lack any CX or XL.  But there is a severe lack of Jing.

Let’s pray that for any girl who already has a Jing in her life, she won’t let him go, and that she loves and appreciates him.

Yes these days, a decent guy is  hard to find. but theres still are. When you meet one just cherish him. But it depends on how much these type of people are still valued. How much family live is valued.

Decent guy may not be exactly like Jing. But their characteristics are that directly showing their feelings although sometimes may not be that romantic . but you can feel you are loved. He is direct and do not play any love games. He is a nice guy who can make you are equal to him. No controlling on how he want you to be.  Some women do not like or appreciate this kind of men because he does not fall into...."we are both bored ..so lets go naughty with relationship" type. I did have seen women actually ditch these type of men for an exciting bad boy . There are who find Jing type actually boring but she will choose him because she has this brain enough random exciting love life is not for life. These women  never really happy because they never really appreciate jing like husbands with hearts. Sometimes they  can commit adultary too. but whatever of these two cases these women are quite doomed with love life.

@ winny 

Lemme also add that, XY chose xi ling to be equal to the tushan name, she already had a forever with Jing but wanted to have her own name that way it’ll fit Jing’s name too. That also tells you she had already wholeheartedly gave her heart to him. Jing didn’t force her but let her choose instead & when she asked him why she chose xi ling,he replied,‘I know’. 

There’re women who’s suffering & regretting cos they let a Jing go & ended up with nothing but heartache & depression but heyyy that’s what they want/excites them?.

 TinaL:

Lmao just like how  he experienced every heartbreak xiao yao felt over jing when they were separated . So we could say he was heartbroken over him too ?

That bug became a curse lol. 

 Winny Aye:

Yes these days,

... After reading you I just wanted to say this:

 As we are not in xianxia or any fictional world, relationships we get into are or seems more raw than these pictured in those beautifull imaginary worlds. So it's on how we cook/deal  with this raw aspects of others and ourselves. ..As you described => they are many variety/nuances in dealing with the research of happyness of 2 people together. One must not loose himself , neither loose the delicate grasp beetween reality and his own fantasies. The best one I would say, is the one who can reach your center point in that "gravity"  and feel like "at home" with it (confortable).  That goes the same with what you call the "naughty" type. It takes two of the same kind, reaching a different state , but still the same grasp of their "gravity".  It's like a  balance point of two carrying for each other partners. 

By same kind, I mean only - wishing the same result/goal. 

So yes , it's raw, it's not perfect, but it's still beautifull and colorfull. As life is. Xiao Yao/Jing is like a 3D gorgous picture of our (in this thread only :p) inner motivations/desires and our inner perception of who to/how to/give and respond to love .  They show us their whole palette of their loving relashionship. 

                     “Cooking requires a light head, a generous spirit and a large heart.” - Paul Gauguin