I want to know what everyone’s thoughts are on TSJ - is he just too nice/pushover and indecisive? I hear a lot of comments about this in terms of the way he is handling his family and engagement situation. If this were in modern day, anyone in XY’s shoes would leave. But as a viewer, we know where TSJ stands - it’s an arranged marriage he didn’t care for in the beginning (and didn’t want after finding his own love). He cannot push too far and cause his grandma to collapse, but this results in XY suffering from him not being able to cut things off. Tbh, putting myself in his shoes, it is a sticky situation, he is kind by nature. Is he perfect? No. He definitely could be more resolute with things. Did he hurt XY? Yes, indirectly even tho he tried his best being in the middle of it all.
Some say XY pities TSJ but I feel that she loves him. Otherwise she wouldn’t be so affected and heartbroken even tho she puts on a tough exterior.