@liddi
Vietnamese is my other language. Unfortunately, I don't know Chinese. Thought about learning it. But the writing system is extremely intimidating.
I'm currently reading the Vietnamese translation of the novel. There are official translation as well as a plethora of unofficial ones for me to choose from. When it comes to Asian entertainment content, particularly Chinese ones, I vastly prefer the Vietnamese translation/subtitles to English. Probably due to the thousand of years of shared history, similarities in culture and language, I find Vietnamese translation richer/deeper compared to English. Some words and phrases are near identical. English just missed so much.
XL is definitely Tong Hua's favourite. Whenever we sees him through XY's POV, she always describes him as otherworldly, ethereally beautiful. He is gorgeous, with or without black markings on his face ?. CX and Jing simply can't compared.
I loved that scene you mentioned from the drama. Personally, while I think TJC may not be considered the best looking out of the cast, as XL he's by far the most attractive. Good look and attractiveness are different things. The way he carries himself, and the excellent acting are what sealed the deal. Whoever cast him has a really good eye, because from a purely physical perspective, he doesn't screams XL. I hope the TJC fans are not going to kill me ?.
I'm not loyal to any particular male lead archetype - I like them all ?. Bad boy is probably not the best way to describe XL. It's more the he walk the talk and get things done rather than saying beautifu, but empty words. XL has the aloof coolness typical of the male lead, but with the consideration and thoughtful devotion of the second lead. Likewise, I particularly like the fact that he doesn't emotionally manipulate or blackmail her . The lack of self pity is also hugely attractive.
Do you feel like XY/XL shippers are heavily bias towards XL? I admit that I am. It's unusual for me since I tend to favour the female side of the ship. But like you, it's XL that left me with that lingering feeling of sadness and yearning.